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what am I doing wrong!?
i'm a 16 year old teenage girl. I have been in a lot of relationships but idk what happens. they either always cheat on me, dup me in a very bad way, always ask me for sex, or end up ignoring me. i'm very insecure about my self. people tell me all the time they wish that they looked like me. I have brown long hair with highlights bright green eyes C cup bra skinny and I have a black girls butt. I guess I'm a lil pretty but with guy's always doing this it hurts:""""( I have never lied to a guy cheated on him or ignored him. I've always been honest and even one time when I was grounded I would sneak my phone just to be able to talk to them. what am I doing wrong?????? please tell me so that I can stiop!
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There using you and I would go for a guy that treats you right that you wanna stay with for the rest of your life
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There is nothing wrong with you... From the sounds of it me and you might look alike and I've gone throug the same things as you... All you need to do Is play hard to get. What I mean by this is if a boy asks you at and you like him back don't say yes. Wait and see if he keeps putting the effort to get you and if he dose then it means he cares...
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You're just not dating the right guys.
Dating is a learning experience. So you need to look at the qualities in all these guys and make sure you know what you like and what you don't like and look for them in other guys. I don't mean qualities like, "he's cute". I'm meaning more onto how did these guys treat you, treat their friends, treat their family, treat strangers. Do they work hard?
You're only 16, so you still have so much more time to date, so don't rush into serious relationships fast. Get to know the guy, if they start talking about sex or anything sexual at all, don't keep talking to them.
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First of all, it seems pretty obvious your not doing anything wrong I think its the wrong people your choosing to date. Set your standards let people get to know you first before you begin a relationship. Talk about what you look for in a guy and what they look for in a guy. The expectations that you desire look for somone who matches up to your standards. Sometimes things like this happen to help us learn from our mistakes and expand our knowledge. GOOD LUCK!!! :)
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Chances are, you're not doing anything wrong. You're dating people your age, and they're pretty bad at it. Immaturity is going to be rampant for some time. That's why it's hard to find a decent guy; even later on. Some guys don't grow out of it. You gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. Just hold out.
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