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why does this always happen to me.
i'm a teenage girl. I've been in quiet a few relationships, they always end bad. guys always want me for sex when all the guys in my school knows I'm not sexually active. they always try or try to force me. it always ends like "u won't do anything with me so were done" or "do this or I'm done with u" or "if u do this with me i'll be with u forever". I have a booty and I have boobs they aren't big but they are noticeable. why do guys want that? i'm not going to give it to them so why do they try
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Most teenage guys simply want sex. It's their hormones, but it's no excuse to disrespect a girl.
Don't get into relationships with guys like that. Dump them if they ever say that to you. You're getting into relationships with bad guys, so you need to start looking a little deeper than how you have been now.
It's a learning process. So my advice would be to just get to know the guy way better before you get into a relationship with them.
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Hang on to your principals for in the end our principals are all we have to call are own.
Yes, I'm older than most advisers on this site. In fact I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I will give you a frank answer to your question.
When it comes to love the male of our species while going through puberty, which can last into their early twenties, confuses love and lust. To the male love and lust is synonymous, hence the line, "If you love me you will have sex with me." Love to female of the species has more to do with romance than sex which eventually the male will realize though not during his teenage years.
Sex is not a proof of someone's love for another. In fact sex is the natural outcome of a long lasting relationship. Sex is not a sport to see how many men or women you can notch on your bed post.
Why do guy continue to try? Frankly because they are hormone charged and hard headed. They need to find relief for their raging hormones and would much prefer to find a willing female than to masturbate.
In finding a willing female then can then brag to their friends that they are now a man. Which is another reason a girls should not have sex while in high school. When it comes to having sex teenage boys cannot keep a secret. They have to brag about it. Given today's social media and other forms of electronic communication, pardon my being a bit gross, practically before you have your panties back on you will have a reputation around the school.
Once you have told a boy, or a group of boys as the case may be, no to any type of sex that is it. If they continue to harass you, begging or asking or threatening which saying I will leave you if you don't is a thereat. They are committing a criminal act called sexual harassment. Even at there young age they can be arrested and face, depending on their age, adult court on criminal charges. The same goes for touching. If you say stop or don't touch me and they continue; they are committing sexual assault, another criminal act that they can be held criminally liable for.
Girls need to know these things. Sexual harassment and sexual assault knows no age limits. These acts can be committed by a teenage boy, an adult male or females towards the opposite sex or same sex. Once you say NO!!!! If the person continues they are committing a crime.
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Listen, the bottom line is if anyone only wants you for what you can physically offer them then they're pigs and should be dating a sex doll or something. I think it's good you don't give it up. I'm 19 years old and I've saved myself for the one I'm going to marry and every time I see one of my friends get heartbroken over somebody taking everything thy had and then screwing them over, I know I'm making the right decision. You should be with someone that will never ever ask something of you that you're not ready for. Believe it or not, they're out there.
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You're a teenager, Hormones are sky high in teenage boys.
Unfortunately, Anyone who dumps someone because they do not wish to be sexually active is a complete asshole. Relationships are not about sex, Love is not about sex and being with someone again, is not about sex. Being in a relationship with someone is about commitment and loyalty. If a guy is constantly talking about sex and pressuring you, They do not want YOU they want you for sex.
Now to be straight, You are dating the wrong people. Not to be a downer but it isn't all that easy to find someone who is wanting an actually relationship or just a fuck buddy at your age.
Maybe you should try and remain friends with someone for awhile before you date them. Make sure they are into you and like you as a person. If someone is dumping you because you don't want to give them sex, Then fuck them. They were never right for you to begin with.
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