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Just as confused as before
So my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year it eould have been out 1 year and a half in 2 days. We broke up for about 2 months now and each months I've been trying to get him back. He says he still has feelings for me and missed me whiel we we not together. We even got to the point eventually that we did intimate things we did as a couple. It wa as if we never broke up. But lately its been going doenhill becase noe he thinks that it wont work if ee get back together. Im convincing him still. But the other day i asked him to go hang out eith me for my birthday and he told me he has no ride. But proceeded to ask me what did i want to accomplish by asking him to go wth me, why, saying that it wont work like that. But after an hour i gve him to cool off. I asked him again can we go hang out next time then? And he said whens next time? So doesnt it kinda sound like he is agreeing to go out with me? This is really confusing. Im not accepting a no from him unless its last resort. Everyone who was close to me left me and im determine not to let him leave me life likethe others. And also what do you suggest for me todo to get him to be with me?
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If this guy doesn't want to be with you, nothing will change his mind. It seems like he already has it in his head that it's over and he's not looking for anything more with you by blowing you off.
People will always come and go in your life. Sometimes you just have to let them go. You can't make anybody be with you. They'd have to like you for you and just want to be with you for that reason.
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It really seems as if you have trust issues. I think you need to tell your boyfriend the truth of what you're thinking. You're not going to get anything accomplished if you waste your time and stay confused. You need to call him or somehow talk to him in person and ask him what is actually going on between you two. I understand that you don't want to end things completely and I'm totally with you on that. However, sometimes he feels as if he needs some space. Don't talk to him for a couple of days and then if calls or texts you, ask to meet up and tell him how important it is that you two talk. If he says no or makes an excuse to meet up, stay on the phone with him and ask him his feelings towards everything. He did say earlier that he's convinced you guys wouldn't make it as a couple again and so you need to give him some time and tell him that you're a better person and you've changed for the better. I hope this helped a lot.
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