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feel the need for companionship


Posted Friday December 13 2013, 5:14 pm

Hi,
I am a 19 year old male who just moved out of my house to start college. I live alone and lately I've just been feeling kinda lonely and sad. For some reason I just feel the need for a companion, a girl, just somebody. Whenever I see people at school who are really happy I just feel like I need that and want a girl to love me. I don't know. Like when I'm at home, I just feel so bored and apathetic, like nothing to look forward to.

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missing someone


Posted Friday December 13 2013, 8:44 am

how will i stop missing someone who is always in my mind?

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im scared that he might break up with me


Posted Thursday December 12 2013, 6:40 pm

me and my boyfriend have been together gor about 4 month and im scared that he might break up with me because we dont talk like that and we cant see each other like that because my mom deosnt trust me. what should i do?

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Posted Thursday December 12 2013, 9:54 am

I want to make out for the first time But... I don't know what to do whit my tong can u maybe help? I am male

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future relationship or casual fling?


Posted Wednesday December 11 2013, 6:10 pm

Okay, so I've known this boy for over a year now I'm quite close to him and his friends and we would all normally have a drink together on the weekends. He's so fun and I really like him, he gets along so well with my family and always jokes about how we'll end up together someday. He would stay over in my house occasionally after a night out but nothing ever goes further than a kiss, well that was the case until last week. We slept together and its been nearly two weeks and I haven't had so much as a text which isn't unusual because we only really speak at the weekends. Am I reading too much in to things? I really like this guy and I know he isn't the kind of person that would use me. If this is only a casual thing how can I turn it into s...

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First kiss


Posted Wednesday December 11 2013, 4:32 pm

Ok, so tomorrow me and my boyfriend are going to kiss for the first time and I have no idea how to kiss! im totally screwed please help!

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How do I get his number?!


Posted Wednesday December 11 2013, 3:04 pm

Right, so there is this boy who I like and I think he likes me too (it's hard to tell because we're both really shy) and basically I want his number so I can talk to him more outside of school (we're in year 11 by the way) but I'm way to nervous to just ask him as it would be awkward and I don't know how he'd react...

Anyway, today one of my friends said that he gave my number to this guy that I like about 2 months ago. The thing is - he hasn't called or texted me and (when I'm with him) has told people he doesn't have my number. I'm confused as to why he would just not use my number and I'm not sure if I should ask him if he has actually got my number?

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Boyfriend's family... should I intervene?


Posted Wednesday December 11 2013, 1:17 pm

boyfriend's family is not very friendly to my niece. They are both teenagers and very much in love, so my niece has to keep visiting his house. But the boyfriend's family gets nasty and sometimes slaps him when she leaves. As an aunt should I intervene?

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Ex comes back the third time, I am to get married to someone else soon.


Posted Wednesday December 11 2013, 6:13 am

Long story short-
I dated my ex (my first love)for more than 2 years, got engaged, were soon to be married , did crazy things together which i might never do with anyone else.Then we hit a bad patch. His family thought I was not good enough for him, etc.We broke up. He came back, I took him.He left to a different country, we continued to be in the relationship. In one year after he left, his behavior changed, he met new people, started ignoring me etc. I called it off. He comes back to me,asks me to marry him. He promised to behave himself,to come for me in a few months and get married. I gave it one more chance, he goes back, same old behaviour. Lied to me, ignored me etc. I called it off. And moved on.I Found someone and am getting...

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Is it unusual to find nerdy guys attractive?


Posted Tuesday December 10 2013, 7:50 pm

I'm a thirteen year old (nerdy) girl, and it's been pointed out to me that thinking nerdy boys are cute is atypical. I simply don't find what people would consider "normal" boys my age attractive. I think nerdy boys are very cute, especially boys with glasses (I've also been told this is odd), and I've never had a crush on anyone who isn't as smart or smarter than I am (I realize this may seem somewhat rude, as that's saying I think myself to be very intelligent, which I do not- just somewhat competent). What do you think? Is this weird? I never thought of as being so, just not the dominant opinion.

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Is he a good life partner?


Posted Tuesday December 10 2013, 5:40 pm

I met a wonderful guy and we both like each other. He's got everything from looks to personality to being an overall good character, but my only concern is that I'm not sure he knows what he wants to do in life. I'm 21 and he's going to be 24. It's time to start thinking about your future at this age, right? He has a certificate in dental assisting and is a well-respected man in the community but when it comes to starting a life with someone, I worry that it won't be a 50-50 commitment. I bust my butt off at school to maintain my grades to go into a good career to make myself finally secure in the future but I don't see him making any effort to do such a thing. He has a job, but he doesn't take it seriously. I feel like he doesn't take life...

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How do i get over him and start again?


Posted Tuesday December 10 2013, 5:19 pm

I am a 15 year old girl who recently got dumped. For 3 days straight I didn't eat and all I did was cry at random times of the day. I'm better now and I'm not in hysteria like I was before but Im lonely especially at lunch. None of my friends have the same lunchtime as me except for my ex who I used to eat lunch with and a few others who I can never find. I've gotten used to it and now in trying to get over him. You see we have the same class after lunch and he only talks to me when he needs something like my phone or paper. Today we were completing a study guide and I was about to finish when he asked to copy. I gave it to him and was so happy when he thanked me. Thinking about it now makes me feel pathetic. I'm not over him obviously. I ...

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Breaking up with a new boyfriend because I think I am a novelty for him


Posted Monday December 9 2013, 7:17 pm

My friend from dance class introduced me to her stepbrother who I really got along with. We ended up going on a few dates together and then became a couple a few weeks after. All of his ex's have either been emotionally unstable or over weight or just horrible people so I feel like because i'm average weight and relatively normal im a bit of a novelty to him and thats why he's fallen so fast. I'm unsure of how to feel about everything! He has already started saying he loves me and I feel alot of pressure to say it back even though I dont feel the same. When we first got together I was attracted to him and we got on really well and I really cared about him, those feelings just having developed into love. If this was the only thing it'd be a ...

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What can I do about girls like this?


Posted Monday December 9 2013, 5:41 pm

There's an acquaintance of mine who has a fucking obsession with taking people's crushes/boyfriends/any boy that another girl is even just talking to away from them. For example, she would notice that I'm talking to a guy that I have even a casual crush on and then pounce on him right when she has the chance! And I'm getting sick of it! It's like an obsession with proving to the whole world that she could get any and every guy she wants. I think I should confront her with this for the 20th time, but I know this hasn't been effective, so I would like some ideas please? I just want her to stop.

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why am i hurting so bad over him?


Posted Sunday December 8 2013, 7:26 pm

Me in this guy are both teenagers and we dated for a few days and them we had to break up because something SERIOUS happened then we got back together for about 3 weeks. we broke up. he was the sweetiest guy ever to me I really loved him and I could tell that he loved me. There is something that you can describe what you see in someone but the places they take you when you are with them are just magical. It's been a week now and I'm not really with another guy but he is comforting me with him. I've cried everyday for him. i'll right an I Miss You message but I get to nervous to send it. why am I hurting so bad over him. im a teen I should move on but I cant im hurting

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feelings for my cousins husband


Posted Saturday December 7 2013, 11:31 pm

I think i might actually have feelings for my cousins husband I don't know what to do help .

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I think the guy I like likes me.


Posted Saturday December 7 2013, 9:24 pm

So, there's this guy that I've been friends with since the beginning of the semester, he's a good friend of mine but we've been hanging out a lot lately. I can't tell, though, that if the time we've been hanging out a lot is making him and I become super close as friends or more. I'll just bullet point some things that have been happening lately.

-he texted me this past morning around 1 am asking if I was awake, I said yes and he said that he was on his way back from his hockey game, he wasn't tired at all and wanted to come up to my room to talk (we live in the same dorm) to which I told him that I wasn't there, something came up and I couldn't come back to school and he asked why, genuinely concerned
-my roommate tol...

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trust issues..


Posted Saturday December 7 2013, 8:55 pm

How can I get over wanting to see his phone?? I wanna see it every time we're together.. Trust issues /: we been together 10 months.. I'm 16 he's 17

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The ex-girlfriend!


Posted Saturday December 7 2013, 9:01 am

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. Around about the time we got in a relationship together, it had been 3 years since him and his ex girlfriend had been split. All the way through our relationship, she has done nothing but harass him. Sometimes she will go weeks without texting him, then she will harass him all day for days, it's mostly when she's drunk. She sometimes texts him in a general chit chat, like "Hi, how are you?" Etc, and he replies being short and blunt, but when she texts him saying she loves him, he just says ok and haha. She knows he is with me, so why won't she leave him alone? Why won't he tell her to leave him alone? He says he feels sorry for her, I tell him that the only way she's going ...

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i get nervous around my boyfriend. Alot!!


Posted Friday December 6 2013, 11:40 pm

Me and my boyfriend first started datin in jube but we broke up in july and then we got back together in october. So everytime I'm around him or in the same room, I get/ feel nervous. Why?

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