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First kiss
Ok, so tomorrow me and my boyfriend are going to kiss for the first time and I have no idea how to kiss! im totally screwed please help!
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When it's the right time for you to kiss, it should just come naturally. There is no perfect way to kiss.
Wait for the right time. You don't really want to have your first kiss at a random moment after class -- wait for a romantic moment when you two are alone together.
Putting on some lip balm and popping a breath mint in your mouth a little while before the kiss might be a good idea.
When you feel ready to kiss, and when the time feels right, there are some signs you can give to show that you feel ready. Lean in a little bit and make eye contact. Get caught looking at his lips. Give him a romantic compliment, and try saying it in a soft voice. You can also put an arm around him if you want to or do other things to hint your intentions.
You two will most likely find yourselves leaning in toward each other. When this happens, just close your eyes and go for it. Keep your lips parted slightly -- but only a teeny bit. Also keep your lips soft and avoid letting your lips smack.
Keep the kisses gentle and soft at first. And do something with your hands. Maybe you could place them lightly on his shoulders or something similar. After you kiss, you can just remain silent and hug him.
I hope I was able to help! And remember that kissing isn't as complicated as it might seem. Everything will turn out fine, I promise. Just relax and enjoy the kiss when the time is right for it.
Good luck!
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Who plans first kisses?
Well anyways, kissing isn't difficult. It literally comes to you when you're in the moment. That's why people don't normally plan out when they are going to have their first kiss. It's just supposed to happen. When one of my boyfriends told me they wanted to kiss and wanted to make a plan for it, it just ruins it. It makes you so nervous.
So you're not screwed, I have no idea what kind of kiss you guys are planning on doing...hopefully not making out lol but seriously, it's simple and don't over think it. If you think too much into it, it's going to end up weird. It will come naturally.
But don't forget to close your eyes!
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For most of us, kissing comes as a natural instinct. For some things in life, there is no course to that to learn how because the best way to learn is by just doing, and kissing is one of them.
Remember learning how to ride a bike? I'll bet you didn't take a class to learn how. Some things you just start doing and learn to get better along the way.
All adults I have talked to on the subject, all were scared or nervous about their first time kissing. Just as I was both excited and scared about the first time riding a bike. Kissing is the same. You've seen enough kisses on TV shows and movies to know that each person doesn't come on straight nose to nose because the noses will clash. One person tilts their head to one side, which one, doesnt matter, one direction will feel more natural to you, like being right or left handed. Leave out the french kissing for a first kiss, or at least work into trying it later. Not everyone likes that to begin with, so its a matter of being willing to try that when ready and if not liking that, communicate it.
As for any practical advice, kisses can be soft or harder but don't apply pressure so hard that you grind a persons lips into their teeth. A fun thing to do is build the anticipation of a kiss by slowly approaching their lips. Do something with your hands such as putting your hand at the back of their head, playing with or grabbing their hair, firmly but not like trying to pull it out. Or cradle their face with your hands or one hand on the cheek or holding or stroking a shoulder. Hope this helps
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