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trust issues..
How can I get over wanting to see his phone?? I wanna see it every time we're together.. Trust issues /: we been together 10 months.. I'm 16 he's 17
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Frist of all i been down that road before but you should trust your man
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Well sometime we have a feeling wanting to do thing that raent right and if he hant seem suspicious towards you. Tgen I don't see why you violate his privacy, I'm pretty you would trust him not to go through your phone without permission wouldn't you want the same for you as for him. I hope you gain trust and thongs gt better; )
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Like the other two said, you just have to stop.
If he given you a reasons not to trust him, then that's something the two of you need to work on. Working on it isn't checking his phone. If he hasn't done anything then don't check his phone and just enjoy the time you guys spend together.
This small thing can ruin a relationship.
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I'm with Zane basically. The whole social networking and sms/mms culture is the 'big thing' especially among younger people. Events aren't 'real' unless there's an accompanying Twitter or Facebook entry or a saved text to 'prove it' eh? At the end of the day trust is trust...full stop. If a guy, or a girl is going to rat on and play their partner false, they're going to. Looking at a phone proves nothing at all. A truly devious character would play this. Delete anything incriminating, and deliberately set-up some mis-information to 'prove' they're doing what they want you to believe. Would they not?? Like I said, trust is trust. Look at his heart and his character, not his phone.
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Has your boyfriend ever given you a reason to not trust him? If not, Then you need to loosen the hell up. Trust is a big factor, Without it then you don't have a relationship. Spying or being paranoid is only going to cause him to resent you. You are without saying it accusing him of possibly cheating. If you want your relationship to work then you are going to have to learn to trust him. Give him his space, Talk to him about how you feel without accusing and nagging, Checking his phone because you are feeling insecure is only going to ruin your relationship.
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