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What can I do about girls like this?
There's an acquaintance of mine who has a fucking obsession with taking people's crushes/boyfriends/any boy that another girl is even just talking to away from them. For example, she would notice that I'm talking to a guy that I have even a casual crush on and then pounce on him right when she has the chance! And I'm getting sick of it! It's like an obsession with proving to the whole world that she could get any and every guy she wants. I think I should confront her with this for the 20th time, but I know this hasn't been effective, so I would like some ideas please? I just want her to stop.
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I agree with Rahzie completely. You can't really stop anyone from doing things like this. I mean you can talk to her, but if this is just what she does, it just might not stop and it might even encourage her.
And like Rahzie said, these guys don't try to stop her, guys just can't be taken unless they want to be.
So you'll just have to find the right guy who won't fall for things like that.
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Well some people are like that unfornuately and it may seem like the end of the world but some people just don't like to listen and its ok let karma do its thing one day shell get the same treatment she's been giving you. If she keeps doing tgis just stop talking to her cause I thibk a real friend would try to compromise.
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No one can be 'taken' without their consent.
Unless she is kidnapping people, then there is nothing much you can do. She may be a bitch, but boys have free will and can freely choose her company, or someone else's. If she in fact is doing this to prove something, then confronting her about it is the surest way to encourage her-as far as she is concerned you bringing it up is just letting her know she's winning.
So ignore her. You can mention to guys that she tries to get every guys attention, but in the end, you'll have to trust a smart guy to see through her attempts, and not hold it against guys who don't know her if they don't recognize her attention seeking behaviour right away.
There are jerks in the world. People who like to be jerks aren't usually put off it by confronting them.
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