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I can't let him in but I dont want to lose him.
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 12:17 am
Hi I am 21 years old. When i was younger I was molested. Its a terrible memory and something I struggle and deal with to this day. I have tried therapist after therapist but i am always on edge and nervous and have anxiety through the roof. 2 years ago I met the most amazing man. We tried our hardest to have a relationship but I struggle with letting him in. It doesnt make sense but I trust him, my anxiety takes off and pushes him away though. He finally said he couldnt handle it anymore and until I worked on it and made progress we couldnt't be together. He means the world to me. But as hard as i try nothing works. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advanced!
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She wants to "just be friends"?
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 11:42 pm
I started dating one of my closest friends awhile ago. Well today she texted me "I kinda just want to be just friends".. Well I really really like her and I don't know how I can just move on..
The thing I'm scared of is losing her. Not exactly relationship wise, but friendship wise aswell. I'm just really confused at this point. Help?
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my best friend is secretley talking to my boyfriend! *please help*
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 10:06 pm
Hi there I'm 16/f and my boyfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now, and well I need your opinions. Let me start from the beginning. My best friend and I used to like obsess over my boyfriend last year before I even knew him. We both saw him at school we made a nickname for him for when we saw him we could talk about him without him knowing. Ok so my best friend she already knew him because they went to middle school together and when we started "stalking" him last year which was our 9th grade year, she told me how she thought he was cute and how they talked and liked each other in 8th grade, but never dated and stopped talking, and how she still thought he was cute and all that hence the reason we talked about him all t...
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Pros and Cons of your boyfriend moving in
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 7:10 am
19 - Female
My boyfriends moving in, in about 3 weeks.
I'm 5 months pregnant and we have been together for nearly 8 months.
What are the good and the bad things with him moving in...?
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Boyfriend troubles
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 7:05 am
19 - Female
So I have been with this guy for nearly 8 months and I am 5 months pregnant with his child. We went away to his family house down the country and it was late at night and I went to bed. I was still away, but was just laying there. Anyways, he was taking forever to come to bed so I was like what the hell and then I received a Facebook message from this girl with a screenshot of what MY boyfriend was saying to her. He was being all sexual towards her and she mentioned that she knew me (she doesnt have a clue who i am) - and he apologised and said he was going to be good.
Obviously I rushed out of bed and was like 'what the F is this' and he denyed it for a while but then I just got real angry because ...
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please help!?!?!
Posted Monday January 13 2014, 5:10 am
alright so my husband and I have been together for 5 years and married 2 1/2 years.. and in the past I have caught him with porn on his phone (first time about 3 years ago..) and I know he still does it.. ive seen it.. but everytime I confront him he denies it! and says he doesn't know how it got there.. hello.. im not dumb.. it doesn't just pop up!! theres only been one time in all the years that he actually confessed to it! and that night we had a long talk and I explained to him how it made me feel and what not.. he hugged me and comforted me and promised me that he would never do it again.. but he has.. and I just found some stuff on the tv tonight that he was looking at porn related things.. what do I do?! things have been going really...
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I left my husband, for a man who left me... A man who I would do anything to get back. Do I try with my husband? Will I ever get over the man I cheated with?
Posted Sunday January 12 2014, 7:58 pm
I am a 32 year old wife and mother of 2. I have been married for 10 years and with my husband for 16 years total (since high school). My husband and I have always had a good relationship for the most part but has always lacked communication, affection and support from his side. I know I'm not perfect but always showed I loved him and tried to communicate with him. Over the past 2 years I have endured a lot of stress in my life. He has not been there for me. I ended up turning to another man approximately 14 months ago. We became intimate and fell in love. Problem is he is married as well and is 15 years older then me. For about 6 months we have vowed we would be together. I separated from my husband. He told me he would do the same ...
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Internet crush...
Posted Sunday January 12 2014, 2:50 am
14-8th grade-Female
Ok, so recently, on a popular site, (not facebook, twitter, or instagram) I ended up in a very long and not yet ending comment conversation with another user (male). Somehow I believe I may have developed a... crush... on him. The only problem is, I have absolutely zero idea how old he is, but it hasn't come up yet because I have my age displayed on my profile but he does not. Looking at his profile, he seems older than 13 but younger than 30. I tend to think about him a lot, and we talk about twice a day. I'm just so fearful that I'll eventually find out he's 27....
I know how dangerous the internet is, but he just seems so... great. He writes so intelectually, but he uses words like 'awesome'. I'...
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Marriage to a truck driver
Posted Sunday January 12 2014, 12:31 am
I'm 28f married for 6 yrs with 2 kids. I'm so confused and hurt he's a truck driver gone for a month or more at a time. He hardly ever calls when he does he usually ends up putting me down or mad. When he's home he has friends over all the time or always on the phone never time for his family. He's started drinking when he used to not like to be around anyone who was drinking and he has his fronds over in the house with the kids drinking I'm not happy with this at all. The last time he was home he told me we were going grocery shopping and I got ready he went and took a shower put on his best clothes and cologne which is extremely unusual and had his friends leave and flat out refused to go together and wouldn't tell me where he went he did...
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CONFUSED... about what gender to date and have sex with.
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 7:01 pm
17F
So let's just start out by saying I'm a lesbian. Well at least I think I am. When I first came out, I came out as bisexual only later to feel no strong connection towards guys at all. I am physically and emotionally attracted to females. I am also demisexual, meaning I can't pursue sex in a relationship until the romantic/connection aspect is there.
So here is my problem. I am attracted to guys as well. Physically, and depending on the guy, emotionally/mentally as well. The only reason why I wouldn't pursue a relationship with a guy is because I don't think I could have sex with one. I mean people have said when you're actually having sex it doesn't matter, but if I could only deal with male genitalia durin...
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love or crush?
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 12:31 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl in 8th grade. And I really like this guy but, what are some signs that I'm actually in LOVE with him and that its not just a crush? What questions can I ask myself to tell if it is a crush or love. I have known this guy since school started in August but I didn't really start liking him till the beginning of October. I think about him a lot...
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Leave Or Love????
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 12:06 pm
Female, 13 years old.
so my best guy friend told me he liked me. and I told him I liked him back because idrk. anyways, I found out he told 3 other girls that he likes them, too. he is kind of a "player" but he really made it seem like he actually cared about me. so I told him off because I wanted him to know that what he does isn't okay. but then he told me he loved me before I went to bed. I didn't know how to respond because
1.i still don't know if I trust him yet. he was actually gonna play me like that.
2.i don't think i like him like that anymore.
What should I say? I just read the message and didn't respond. I was scared. so what do I say to make sure he knows that I forgave him but don't want to "date" him.
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how to tell if someone is making eye contact with you
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 7:15 am
How would you tell if someone is making eye contact with you? Like ive heard that sometimes when you look someone in the eye, you might think that they are looking at you but in fact, they aren't.
Does this scenario seem like we made eye contact?
So I was on the 2nd level and he was on the 3rd level and I looked down and he looked up and so I looked away and when I looked back, he was looking but then he turned away and then I turned away and looked back and he looked again. Well, it seemed to me he was looking at things near me :/
Sorry this is a bit confusing!
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My boyfriend cheated...
Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 12:55 am
So me and my boyfriend are going through a difficult time. I just found out that he had kissed and had oral sex with another girl. I found this out from his best friend who I'm also close with. His excuse was that he didn't remember because he was so drunk. I decided to give him a second chance, although I am starting to wonder if it was the right choice or not. He hasn't made any effort with our relationship, but still insists to say that I am all he wants. He has no time to come and see me, he'll say he's coming to see me but then go out for a drink with his friends instead. A lot of the time he would not reply to my text messages. He tells me he would never hurt me again and I'm the only person he wants to be in a relationship with altho...
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how do i know if he likes me?
Posted Friday January 10 2014, 8:46 pm
How do I know if a guy likes me? I'm in 8th grade & 13 years old.
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I'm 16...crushing on a 24 year old?
Posted Friday January 10 2014, 7:08 pm
Hi, Im a 16 (almost 17) year old female with a maturity level that proceeds my age and I have a REAL big crush on this guy but he's 24. I know us girls mature much faster than males do so it's normal for me to have feelings for this man. We've been talking for quite a while now and not once has he said anything sexual to me or shown signs that he's interested in me sexually (which is a good thing because that's not what i want..yet.) BUT he has shown signs that he likes me more than just a friend. I'm considering getting into a relationship with him but I just need some opinions from others. ☺Thanks☺
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Does she still love me?
Posted Friday January 10 2014, 12:32 pm
Hey everyone, I'm new here. I'm in a really confusing situation with my girlfriend. We've been dating for 3 years and I've always felt and so has she, that we've had an amazing relationship. But a few days before Christmas, she said she didn't want to be with me. I asked her why, she said she didn't know. I pressed her a bit and she said she felt like she loved me but wasn't in love with me. I don't know what to make of that. So I let it be, we broke up, didn't see each other until a couple days ago. We had been keeping in contact through text, but not on a regular basis.
When we met up, she said that she needed to know how to be happy by herself before she could be happy in a relationship. She said that she doesn't want to ...
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Im inlove with my good friends ex!
Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 11:31 pm
I dont know what to do, im inlove with him i think about him all the time we text and call all the time and she has no idea.. i feel so guilty
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Me and my fiancé are trying to conceive. Opinions from all you mums!
Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 4:07 pm
Me and my fiancé are currently trying for a baby. This is my first month of trying, since using condoms. I don't take no medication or anything like that. My fiancé is always on vacation, so we don't really get to spend that much time together at night. However, this month, we had intercourse only once on my fertile day, I know I have low chances, since we only had intercourse once. 14 days after I ovulated, I got a strange, odd "period" my periods are always regular, I have a 32 day cycle, this period came right on time, but unexpectedly, well I knew it was coming, since I track my periods, but my body didn't feel it, I had no cramps, apart from mild ones on the first day of my bleeding, when normally I get cramps a week before...
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PROBLEM ALERT :(:(:(
Posted Monday January 6 2014, 1:27 pm
Okay so I like 2 people both of whom are with other and are both my friends I like this girl and this girl. the girl is my best mate and so is the dude but I love the girl more I just feel like sitting and crying all the time because the person she's with doesn't love her and its a crisis coz she deserves more and I just can't get over it. No matter how hard I try it don't go away and it hurts so much seeing her with someone who don't deserve her and the guy I can kinda live with out but I still like him what do I do?
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