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Me and my fiancé are trying to conceive. Opinions from all you mums!


Question Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 4:07 pm

Me and my fiancé are currently trying for a baby. This is my first month of trying, since using condoms. I don't take no medication or anything like that. My fiancé is always on vacation, so we don't really get to spend that much time together at night. However, this month, we had intercourse only once on my fertile day, I know I have low chances, since we only had intercourse once. 14 days after I ovulated, I got a strange, odd "period" my periods are always regular, I have a 32 day cycle, this period came right on time, but unexpectedly, well I knew it was coming, since I track my periods, but my body didn't feel it, I had no cramps, apart from mild ones on the first day of my bleeding, when normally I get cramps a week before my period! My breasts was sore to touch, since I ovulated, anyway... The bleeding I experienced was fresh blood, but not quite as heavy as my normal flow, it lasted for 2 days, then followed by brown spotting a good few days after, I had a few pink/red dabs in the brown spotting. I was reading up on implantation bleeding and there's information on there, that says it happens earlier than 14 days past ovulation but my period is always 5+ long, starting really heavy, then getting lighter after 3 days, and I suffer from really bad cramps. My mucus at the moment is sticky, sometimes like milky, that ranges from a cream colour to white. My breasts have gone back to normal, no soreness, I have some nausea, but it doesn't make me vomit, i feel like vomiting sometimes though, heartburn brings it up a lot in my mouth, sorry for TMi! I've also been experiencing headaches on and off, I can't sleep at night, even if I'm really tired, I feel an uncomfortable pain in my thighs and feet, as if they're growing pains & I wake up randomly when I manage to fall asleep, my emotions are sky high & this morning when I woke up, I felt as though I'd done sit ups, my lower abdominal was really aching, and my lower back! If I was to be pregnant, I'd be 6 weeks! Any thoughts or experiences anyone can share? Thanks!

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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday January 9 2014, 12:15 am:
I may have overlooked it, but as far as I can see, you haven't mentioned taking a pregnancy test yet, and you think you could be 6 weeks along? That's halfway through the first trimester if you are pregnant? WHy havent you gone to a Dr. to have it confirmed or not? If you don't have a Dr. or Med. insurance, I suggest you go to Planned Parenthood. They handle anything related to the reproductive systems. they aren't just about preventing pregnancys, they check for pregnancies too. You want to be sure you are getting good care early on if you are pregnant. So go see someone.

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