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Does she still love me?
Hey everyone, I'm new here. I'm in a really confusing situation with my girlfriend. We've been dating for 3 years and I've always felt and so has she, that we've had an amazing relationship. But a few days before Christmas, she said she didn't want to be with me. I asked her why, she said she didn't know. I pressed her a bit and she said she felt like she loved me but wasn't in love with me. I don't know what to make of that. So I let it be, we broke up, didn't see each other until a couple days ago. We had been keeping in contact through text, but not on a regular basis.
When we met up, she said that she needed to know how to be happy by herself before she could be happy in a relationship. She said that she doesn't want to depend on me for her happiness and she doesn't want to form attachments with people. At the same time, she said that she can't imagine another guy who would treat her the way that I do and that no other guy would ever compare. She also said that she still pictures herself being married with me. I asked her if she loved me like a brother, and she exclaimed "god no, don't ever say that again." Then I asked if she wasn't physically attracted to me anymore, and she said she even after three years, I still find you so hot that I can't maintain eye contact with you because it's intimidating.
I even put all the stuff that she's gotten me, every little memento from our relationship into a bag. I brought it with me, I showed it to her and I asked her to go throw it out in a dumpster if she truly wanted to end the relationship. She told me to do that instead. I said no. She asked why and I said because it means too much to me. Then I asked her the same, and she wouldn't respond.
She was always open with me about everything, even though I may not have been, and the trust, love, attention, fun and everything was there. She wasn't the most confident girl when I met her, but over the course of our relationship she's become a lot more comfortable with who she is. I'm not trying to brag, but I have a feeling it has a lot to do with. I've always been supportive of her, I've showered her with little gifts and small cheesy things like little love letters that she adores. I did all of that to show that she means the world to me. Then when we met, she said that she felt like she couldn't compare to me. She felt that I did too much for and she did so little. But I assured her that she never made me question her love for me. Not even once.
We're meeting up again at the end of the month to see where we stand. What do you guys think? I'm just in search of a little hope that she's just really confused and she'll understand that and we'll work through this.
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Hi there,i understand what your problem is.I think both of you can go through it.Maybe your girlfriend needed some time to think over it.And i think,you should give her some more time to think over it.
It's been 3 years you were together.And you do a lot of things for her and you even change her life.I am sure that, she will understand.You have done a lot of thing for her,i am sure she will not just forget you.Cause when she with you,you makes her comfortable with who he is.
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