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He stopped talking to me and I don't know why . Posted Friday February 14 2014, 8:44 pm
I am 24 years old and a couple of months ago I was dating this guy and we had sex but shortly after we had sex he broke up with me even though he promised that he would never leave me no matter what happened or what I did and I have no idea why he broke up with me . also before he broke up with me he didn't talk to me for about 3 weeks and when he did answer my phone calls and texts he made them very short and this all started after we had sex . I thought he was a good guy because he was very involved in church but I guess that doesn't always mean anything like I thought . The other day my mom and I went to burger king to get eat and when we sat down we saw him come in he looked at me and then left with out getting any food mom asked me wha...
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Why can't I find a boyfriend Posted Thursday February 13 2014, 4:46 pm
In my class there is a boy I really love but I didn't have the guts to ask him to be my boyfriend at first but I finally did ! I asked him if he liked me and he said yes :) but then he said but I wanna know a bit more about you so I told him a bit about my life but then he said no I'm not ready for a girlfriend yet and then the next day this girl who is so anoying to me asked him out and he said YES !!!!! I felt so sad :( and every time I walk up to him by the football pitch I always get hit on the head with a stupid footy ball which really embarrasses me! And now I've spent two years not even being in his class and that girl who is dating him keeps on trying to make me feel jealous!!!
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So... My ex is my best friend... What should I do? Posted Thursday February 13 2014, 2:36 pm
Okay. So I met this guy over Facebook 3 years ago. We started talking and then we met my freshman year of high school. He was a junior so he was at the time very confused on what he wanted. Well, time has passed. We broke up 2 years ago, and now he is a marine and I'm a junior in high school. He is my absolute best friend, even if he does live in a different state. And we talk a lot. We still do love each other, and eventually want to work out MAYBE. He is getting stationed somewhere different in the next 3 weeks. Possibly near me... He said we will decide then what to do. He does have a girl friend, and I'm just seeing people to get rid of the loneliness. What do I do when the time comes that he is close again? He is my absolute best frie...
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My relationship, should I keep it Posted Wednesday February 12 2014, 8:56 pm
I'll try to keep this short. I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years. I'm 22, he's 36. Sometimes I wonder if I should break things off so I can meet other people and gain new experiences. I love him SOOOOO much. A lot of me wants to keep things, but obviously if I'm writing this there is a problem. Normally I'm very happy, but sometimes I get very scared at commitment. Sometimes I don't feel like it's fair for either of us to continue, but it'd also be very unfair for me to break things off, miss him and things terribly, and try to get back together.
I know that in the end, it's all up to me and has to be MY decision, but I guess I just want to know what you guys think.
Any ideas would be much appreciated, thanks!
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I am crushing on this guy. And I think he may be too. I need help! Posted Wednesday February 12 2014, 2:29 pm
This guy and I constantly flirt. We talk outside of school. He asked me a few days ago to "use my computer" for a class he is taking at school. And I agreed to let him come to my house to use it. He came over at 5pm. He spent about 3 hours working on what he had to do with my help. when he was finished, he chose to stay at my house 2 extra hours. We sat at my kitchen table and watched YouTube videos until he had to leave which was at 10pm. He played with my animals and he seemed to enjoy himself. He said he would be coming back over soon. I have been in a bad relationship, and he knows. I dumped the guy I was dating in front of him. And he said "hmm." That was it. Does he like me and consider being with me? Or does he see me as just a good friend?
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I'm in a relationship I don't want to be in Posted Tuesday February 11 2014, 1:18 am
I'm dating a guy I don't want to be with but in not so good at breaking up. We have been together a month and a half and he has probably spent over 200 dollars on dates with me. I feel so bad because it's almost valentines day, should I break up with him now or after? He said he has a surprise for me coming valentines day and I don't know what to do. My friend suggested breaking up before valentines because it would give the guy time to return whatever he got me. I need help, I'm not gutsy when it comes to things as such.
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Why did he stop loving me? Posted Monday February 10 2014, 4:04 pm
My ex boyfriend used to love me so much and truly care about me. One day he just changed, started never wanting to see me, being just mean and didnt give a shit. Me being an idiot, held on so tight, hoping hed go back to how he was, which made him even more horrible. he broke up with me, i was heartbroken, 2 weeks later we were in the same club,despite him being the one to end it, i vowed to myself i wouldnt go off with another boy in front of him to save his feelings, he saw me there and had another girl on his lap then walked straight passed me looking at me in the eye, and slept with her down some alley. He knew what he was doing would hurt me, how did he turn out to be such an asshole? But a part of me still loves him because i keep re...
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I need your help please Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 9:12 pm
So me and my boyfriend have been doing some sexual things but NOT sex itself. I usually give him blow jobs then he acts like he is done and can't do anything else after I give him that. But lately after I give him one I kind of regret it also I give him one like 1 a week. Is that bad because idk about that stuff it's all kind of new to me and why would I start to regret it. Also one time he was sucking on my breast and I think he bit it and it starting to bleed and hurt but why would it bleed like that I got super scared are your breast sensitive or something?
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He won't notice me Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 9:03 pm
There is a guy I like and he doesn't notice me most of the time and I want him to notice me and think I'm atractive but how do I do that and I have standerd dress
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What should I do to keep in my life this time? Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 5:57 pm
There was guy I knew when I was younger we went to school together. He was my first crush but I never told him. We went off to different high schools and I never saw him again. Over years I use to think about him. I would wonder where hes at or what hes been up to. Then one day he sent me a friend request on facebook. I was so excited. Im messaged him and we talked a little bit. I wanted to know what to do this time to not lose contact with him without coming on too strong or being annoying. Any ideas?
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Confusing love life Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 3:30 pm
13/m
First lets just call her..Su. So in 6th grade Su left the school im in and she wasnt here for 7th grade, she came back in 8th grade and stuff changed for the first week. We flirted alot and chatted alot on facebook... i was planning on asking her out the following day, but another guy was faster then me and she said yes to him. I knew he was a jerk but never told her just to not get her angry at me, after a while she broke up with him, and during the time she was going out with him she friendzoned me. I accepted it at first but at the beginning of the school year after christmas i started to have feelings about her, she hugs me sometimes, rarely gives me a kiss on the cheek. I dont know what to do, i always felt like she was the...
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New guy in my life. Relationship, casual fling or something else? Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 12:34 pm
I've known this guy for a long time I'm 18 he's 23, we've always been flirty and hang about in the same social circles but he always thought I had a boyfriend (which I didn't) so things never went further than a flirt. Recently he found out that I am infact single and we've been having casual sex and I'm really starting to like him. Our relationship is secret at the moment as we both don't want anyone spoiling it, gossiping or starting rumours so it's on the down low until anything more comes out of the relationship. He's always saying how he thinks I'm perfect and all his ex girlfriends have been crazy and i could be the one to change his bad luck. This isn't him just playing me this guy is genuinely nice, well mannered and pretty charming...
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It feels like my boyfriend doesnt even care about me anymore Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 10:33 am
[19F]
Im in a long distance relationship for 1 year now. when he left in January, it kinda felt a little different.
He keeps telling i should find someone better and that i deserve better. He also said he wants me to be skinnier and says I sometimes look ugly when i dont do my hair. He also broke up with me a few times (at least i thought he did)
I told him like 4 times, that if he does this again to me, i wont come back. yeah like i said i did that 4 times, i always forgive him.
Now he did it again, told me his "Im-gonna-break-up-with-you-speech" again and that hurt me so much.
I told him that this really hurts me and he didnt even apologize. he was just like "ok.sorry"...
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We're both married to other people, but have a connection Posted Saturday February 8 2014, 6:22 pm
I met this guy at work years ago, we would speak and have quick conversations here and there. When we first met years ago, we both felt something but never acknowledged it because we were married...we brushed it off. A year ago now, out of the blue we acknowledged that there was something there and have acted on our feelings. We are consistently in touch with each other, we see each other briefly almost everyday and also text.
We've admitted once that we love each other but have also acknowledged that we wish things could be different and that we could be together. Neither one of us wants to breakup our families but we can't seem to walk away from each other. I have tried several times and just can't seem to completely cut communica...
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Help with bra Posted Saturday February 8 2014, 5:10 pm
My boyfriend won't touch my boobs I know he wants to but how do I get him to touch them!
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Like like or friends? Posted Saturday February 8 2014, 1:47 am
Im starting to like A LOT of guys. And there's so many of them that I don't know what it really is. Do I like them as a relationship or just as a close brotherly/friend sort of way. I've never really had a guys in my life because I'm always surrounded by my gender. I do long for a guy best friend or a shoulder to lean on a different gender. I just really don't know what to think anymore that I sit in class and zone out to what it would feel like if they were by my side helping me through whatever problems I have.
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when you were younger, what older people did you get crushes on Posted Friday February 7 2014, 10:52 pm
person you actually met in real life rather than like a celebrity
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Breakup: i wanna be flirty with other people and not tied down Posted Friday February 7 2014, 9:53 pm
Hi im a 14 year old female, i know , young. But i have a boyfriend of 2 months and i like him alot but i feel like im starting to loose feelings , like i wanna be flirty with other people and not tied down, but if i do break up with him i dont wanna miss him. He gets mad over the littlest things and hes grounded so how am i supposed to have feelings if we can barley talk ?! If you were in my situation what would you do?
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Whether to break up or stay with current spouse Posted Friday February 7 2014, 4:53 pm
Hey guy's got a serious question here. I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years we are expecting a baby girl in march. I am not ready for this type of commitment and would like to not piss away my twenties. Should I stick it out with her or break it off? it gets hard turning down girls and not being able to do the things I want. I will be there for the baby if we do break up though. What do you guys think?
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it's Complicated Posted Friday February 7 2014, 4:06 pm
She has a boyfriend...I know I'm such a bad guy for this and she's such a cheating girlfriend for this too but we have sex almost every week. We're classmates, we eye contact like ALL the time in school during class or recess time. During our sexual activity we always pause. And have this frozen romantic moment. We also kiss each other in a very cheesy way after we're done.
Last night we were smoking after sex and I mentioned our moment and she said she loved it. Then we cuddled lying down on bed all night long and went to school together the next day.
I NEVER get enough of her. During school we're like 24/7 eye contacting and flirting or talking about our sex and stuff...
I don't know if she has feelings for me but I d...
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