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I am crushing on this guy. And I think he may be too. I need help!
This guy and I constantly flirt. We talk outside of school. He asked me a few days ago to "use my computer" for a class he is taking at school. And I agreed to let him come to my house to use it. He came over at 5pm. He spent about 3 hours working on what he had to do with my help. when he was finished, he chose to stay at my house 2 extra hours. We sat at my kitchen table and watched YouTube videos until he had to leave which was at 10pm. He played with my animals and he seemed to enjoy himself. He said he would be coming back over soon. I have been in a bad relationship, and he knows. I dumped the guy I was dating in front of him. And he said "hmm." That was it. Does he like me and consider being with me? Or does he see me as just a good friend?
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There's definitely a good chance that he's interested in you as more than a friend. I mean most guys won't go to a girls house to use their computer if they had other friends that they could use it from too. Then he stayed even longer after he was done so that's a good sign.
Try making plans to hang out. You can go see a movie, go bowling or any other activity that you can think of. If he agrees, then there is definitely a much better chance of him being interested in dating you.
So I'd start there and see where it goes.
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It sure looks like he's interested in you and considering being with you....
afterall, is this guy treating other girls with the same attention, flirting, finding good but real excuses to be in their presence? If it really was 'Only' about borrowing use of a computer, I am sure that at least one or two of his male friends had one he would be allowed to borrow for use. But he chose to ask you! That gave him a real excuse to be in your presence, in your house and to spend time with you. Pets are a pretty good judge of the character of people. They are good at picking up negative vibes if there are any. I have found over my life that a great majority of people who are truly good people at heart are ones who are animal lovers or nature lovers/gardeners. So he sounds like a great guy.
IF he said he will be coming over again soon, I am sure he will.
I am not clear on the timing of you dumping the other guy. Was it before he came to your house to use the computer? Then obviously he knows you are free to date and he is making his move to get close to you and prove to you that he is a great guy so you may want to date him.
IF you dumped the other boyfriend shortly after his visit to your home, he may have some questions in his mind but not be overly concerned. He may be wondering if his coming over and you dumping the other guy are connected but this isn't something to dwell on and over think.
What matters is that you finally did recognize what was "Bad" about the other relationship and decided to end it.
Don't be too concerned if he doesnt ask you immediately to be his girlfriend or try to kiss you, it doesn't mean he only wants to be a friend.
When lots of young guys begin to get interested in girls, their interest is often skin deep at first only, so just romance and sexual related.
Other guys want more than just the romance and want very much to get to know the whole you inside and out and become best friends too. The most successful long term relationships and marriages are the ones where not only are they best friends but they have romance and passion too. FOr me,relationships that started as close friends had better chance developing into romance than the ones where there was a strong spark or sexual relationship that developed first. People can be sexually compatible but not compatible as friends....you want both.
So be patient and see where this leads.
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