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He won't notice me


Question Posted Sunday February 9 2014, 9:03 pm

There is a guy I like and he doesn't notice me most of the time and I want him to notice me and think I'm atractive but how do I do that and I have standerd dress

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lightoftruth answered Monday February 10 2014, 5:12 pm:
Like Dragonflymagic said, it comes down to personal taste. There's nothing really you can do to grab his attention if he has a different taste in girls.

I mean, the most you can do is try talking to him and see how he is when you guys talk. If he still doesn't seem interested, you should just let this one go and find someone else.

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Dragonflymagic answered Monday February 10 2014, 3:50 am:
Hon, it all comes down to personal taste when it comes to attraction to the opposite sex.

Do you take notice of every guy out there in your daily life? How do you know that one of those guys isnt also secretly hoping you are going to notice him too?
And the guy who wants you to notice him may not look attractive to you at all.
So what can this unattractive man do to make himself more noticed and attractive to you?

There is nothing he can do that would make you take notice. There is a saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." It is the one looking who decides if someone is beautiful to them.

This means a man can be in a room full of beautiful women, not one any less pretty than the other and yet he finds himself drawn to just one particular kind of look in a woman. The same would happen to you if in a room full of male models, all pretty enough to be on TV and considered handsome by Hollywood. Yes, you'd be looking at all of them because they all are handsome but the guys you find yourself actually attracted to and taking personal notice of will have a certain look that catches your eye more than others.

Never change who you are to catch a guy because if you trick him into being interested by changing your look and acting in ways that are not your natural self that relationship will end in disaster. You can not pretend to be someone you are not every day for the rest of your life and you will soon go back to being yourself because you think you've caught your guy. As soon as he sees the real you which is a type of woman he is not attracted to, he will either want a divorce or he would be cheating on you to be with the type of women he's more attracted to.

What you need to be looking for is a guy who has no problem noticing you without you having to do anything special and he tells you that you are beautiful even on days your hair is messed up and your wearing dirty stained clothes, and he'll be the best guy you could ever meet

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