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how do you know it is right, when you still love someone after they cheat on you?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 8:32 pm

I am a senior in college and 21 years old. I had dated my ex boyfriend for a year and a half. I thought he could have been my husband, everything about him seemed so right. i loved his family, and he fit perfectly in with mine. his parents had told him that they saw us being married. this was all until he cheated on me. we had some rough times when we were on and off when we were both very busy with school and our sports that we both play in college. i think we both were very stressed. how do you know if its right? even after everything i can not be mad at him. i love him so much and saw myself having a family with him...i just need thoughts on this.

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Name my boyfriends name?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 7:50 pm

how do i know that a guy likes a girl?


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Talent Show themes


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 5:16 pm

my church has a talent show coming up and we need a theme idea, we have lots of talent ideas, but need a theme to tie it together. We are celebrating 100 years.

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Ideas for crazy hair day


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 4:18 pm

what are some cool ideas to do for crazy hair day?

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boyfriend says he is serious about me. what does he mean?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 4:13 pm

hi, me and my boyfriend been dating for 11 months now and we love each other a lot. i've recently moved in with him although that was his idea for me to move in with him but i'm happy to be move in with him. i just think it's too soon as well. i love him so much and he loves me loads as well. he says he wants to have a long relationship with me and also he says he is ''serious'' about me. we both are in early 30's. so my question is, what does he mean by ''serious'' and ''long relationship''? more thoughts and answers, please. thank you all for answering. cheers.

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I am from Egypt. Please tell me what to do !


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 4:04 pm

Hey! I am Farah from Egypt I love guy with me at school who really is nice and a good friend for all girls , I love him so much but he's treating me normal or less than normal i feel that i don't matter with him but sometimes he talks to me and says you are nearest because you are the only one who didn't hurt me but he doesn't talk much with me and sometimes i feel he ignores me and i also feel that he loves my best friend but she doesn't care for him at all , he love to tease me all the time and he knows that he is making me sad by that i don't want to go in relationship with him not to lose a great friend like him , i love him so much and did many things for him and he knows i feel i can't go away from him .

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Broke and need loans for college


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 3:06 pm

I got accepted to Ohio University last year I did everything to atten this year, I completed my FAFSA payed my housing contract and have been staying on top of school. My school redid the busget so I just recently got my completed FAFSA results back. I have half of my school payed for but still have to find loans for 12,000. I live with my mom who doesnt make much money at all so she cant get a loan for me she doesnt have the credi for and cant afford it. Im terrified that all of my plans will soon be gone it's to late for everything. I need to know my options on how to get loans without having the money right now. Thanks in advance I am clueless about a lot of this and just need to know if there is hope for everything that I have been planning.

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Undiagnosed illness ruining my life :(


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 2:37 pm

19/f in uk

For the past 3 years I've had an embarrassing problem- I have uncontrollable diarrhea, abdominal pain and fatigue at random times for weeks to months at a time. My GP tested me for a few illnesses with blood tests but nothing came out positive. She then told me I have chronic fatigue, IBS and depression. (I may have depression but I really don't think I have the other two as a few Rheumatologists I saw said I definitely do not have chronic fatigue.) After that my GP treated me like I was purposely exaggerating my symptoms whenever I went to see her, so I eventually stopped seeing her.

I've ended up missing a lot of school because of feeling sick so had to redo my last A-level year. I thought I would...

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what's wrong with my legs?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 2:36 pm

So I was sitting down (cross legged position) for about an hour or 2.. straight. Which was pretty dumb of me because i didn't realize it was bad for you because apparently it cuts off your blood circulation. Well the next morning, I woke up and tried to walk around but my legs were KILLING me!!! It hurts so badly I can't even extend my knees straight. It hurts right behind the knee, and then a little further down by my calves.

I did a little research and maybe its varicose veins?? I can see my veins (which usually I don't) but they aren't like black or super dark. I have tried many things. I elevated my feet for about 20 minutes. I heated it up by taking a hot shower. I massaged my legs. I stretched. it just seems to be gett...

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Are tongue rings trashy?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 2:31 pm

Id like to hear yalls opinions about tongue rings on girls 18+. Ive always wanted one because I loveee piercings/tattoos, I like the way they look, and I always like to have something in my mouth like straws, pens, cigarettes (i really want to quit). I wouldn be that girl whos always showing it off and would want it far back enough where its not terribly noticable.


Do you think its trashy when a girl has a tongue ring? (Like i said, not showing if off but if you just noticed when she was lauging or something)

Thanks!

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I am having sex with both my husband and my ex. I want a baby, but only by my husband


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 12:54 pm

Hi, I am 33.My ovulations dates are July 21 22 and 23. I had sex intercourse with my husband on July 21 at 8am and 10pm. On July 22 I had sex with condom with my ex around 8pm. I didnt saw that it broke, but to be sure I took an afterpil onJuly 25 at 6pm.(exactly 68 hours after the unprotected sex). Can this protect me of getting pregnant of my ex and still get pregnant of my husband?

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Serious questions about sex inside and outside of marriage according to the Bible.


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 12:19 pm

Hi.I just want to ask you a question as regards the ''sex before marriage'' thing.Where in the Bible is it forbidden?Who defined fornication as being sexual intercourse before tying(tieing) the marriage ''knot''? And..if one can not wait,then he should marry,according to what Paul said in Corinthians.Ok.But..what if one can not marry at the moment because his parents think he has to get married at 30?or even later?So...does that mean that he has to 'burn'' until the time his parents or other people deem ''right'' for him to get married?If i'm not commanded to ''burn'',why should i?And...masturbation.Is it natural?I have masturbated too,and i,by GOD'S GRACE,have tried to stop it,not doing it now.But,what is the way out?If GOD created human b...

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Connor Lambert Gay


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 9:18 am

is Connor gay?

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Why does it hurt at first and what was the liquid?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 5:08 am

Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice so far and both times there was a lot of liquid. I understand that I get wet down there but there was a lot. the first time there was some on his bed. it was as if I peed. The second time there was a lot more. It got on his shirt but he laughed about it. I, on the other hand, was very embarrassed. What is it? I've had one partner before my boyfriend and we always used condoms but it's never happened to me before I got with my boyfriend. Another thing is with my first partner I never felt any pain. With my boyfriend, for the first few minutes it hurts really bad to the point where my eyes start to water. Is this all normal?

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Seriously kiss him?Or wait for a kiss?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 4:00 am

Ok so me and this guy I like were flirting alot. & we started asking each other questions I asked him if he thinks" he's a good kisser?" he said "yeah maybe I'll show you sometime."
We both know we like each other & were playing to hangout in the next few days @ the lake. I really want to kiss him but I'm nervous. P.s. Im a girl and almost 15. How do I make it were we kiss thou?

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No Carpol Tunnel Syndrome!


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 3:38 am

Okay, so for about five years now, I've been having numbing, aching pains from the center of my palm all the way down to my elbow and it's only on the underside of my arm. I use my hands to type a lot since I am a writer. Recently, the pain has turned a bit sharp in my wrists every so often if I don't stop to stretch my hands or crack my knuckles. Is pausing to stretch every so often good to make sure I don't get carpol tunnel syndrome? Because I've been told that I have a chance of getting it since I over use my hands. I type all day long from when I wake up until I go to bed.
Also, I've had the pain in my arms get so bad once that I had to leave school because I couldn't lift my arms or hold a pencil. My teacher told me I should've...

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Sister Drama


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 3:23 am

Ok so here is the situation, my sister and I are best friends like we are really close. I'm the oldest and recently she did something that I thought was really foolish and very dangerous, so I told on her. My sister is a lot more advanced than me as far as sexual things go (I'm a virgin, she isn't) and so I don't know I think the big sister part of me kicked in. She war really mad at me but she isn't big on holding grudges, Do you think I over reacted by telling on her?

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Am I sick cause I wish I didn't tell ?


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 2:44 am

I'm 17 & I've cut myself 4 different times I told my mom cause I wanted to cut again & I didn't want to Hirt myself cause I felt if I did it I won't make it .... So I told she cried & said she wil get me help it's Been 5 days & nothing ... I wish I never told so I can cut myselfvin peace cause my grandma told me I can't do she was crying tellin please don't do it again & I can't do that to her yet I wanna cut so bad I wish I never told !!!!!! Why am I like this ?? I know I shouldn't do this to myself & I know I should've like the fact I told but I hate it why ??????? What's wring with me ??????

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i study hard but fail,m so depressed...


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 2:36 am

I am not getting the grades I want nor need. I am currently doing my b.tech from india. However, I can't seem to get A's on any of my quizzes or tests.
I study all the time. In about 1 - 2 hour increments a couple times a day. I am taking org chem 1, physiology, pre-cal, and communications. I am not worried so much about communications and for pre cal i just have to practice. As for organic i do the practice problems in the book over and over again. Then sometimes when the quizzes come i make stupid mistakes. I think i have test anxiety.
And for physiology i record the lectures and listen while in class, then go back over the recording and type out the notes later in the day. I never go out on weekends. I work about 10 hours o...

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molestation when I was 10 just coming out now


Posted Tuesday July 26 2011, 1:23 am

I am 51 years old. When I was 10 I got molested by my brother in law. I did not say anything because my sister was pregnant at the time. My brother in law told me that if I said anything my sister would loose the baby. I believed him. I have had two marriages and don't trust anybody. When I was in my 20's I had to go to therapy because something was wrong with me. In therapy I found out it was because of what happened to me when I was 10. All these years I have kept it a secret, last week I decided it was time to set myself free from all this.

I sent my brother in law a letter stating how I was feeling and how he messed up my life. I also sent a letter to my sister telling her everything that has happened. Did I do ...

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