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I am having sex with both my husband and my ex. I want a baby, but only by my husband
Hi, I am 33.My ovulations dates are July 21 22 and 23. I had sex intercourse with my husband on July 21 at 8am and 10pm. On July 22 I had sex with condom with my ex around 8pm. I didnt saw that it broke, but to be sure I took an afterpil onJuly 25 at 6pm.(exactly 68 hours after the unprotected sex). Can this protect me of getting pregnant of my ex and still get pregnant of my husband?
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maybe... if you took it you should be fine, but you really need to make a decision, does your husband know? your ex probabaly knows? how can your ex allow that? what would your husband say if he seen you write this? I think you need to decide because you cant keep both , please dont hurt anyone. Case is simple, stay with your husband your binded with him and have a baby.. dont see your ex or have any contact with him.. in time tell your husband what happened..he has the right to know.. hes your husband and your binded no secrets should be kept from eachother.. HENCE the marriage.
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You cant just take a pill and knock off the ex's sperm and keep the husbands sorry but it doesnt work that way... If you want to have a baby by your hubby stop having sex with your ex boyfriend thats about the only way you are going to know 100% if its your husbands
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A baby should not be bought into a world without stability, It would be unfair to the child to be born with the possibility of not having his/her father. You are talking about becoming a parent but you are not faithful to your own husband?
I'll be blunt: Your actions say you are not ready to be a parent. Being a parent means being responsible. Here you are cheating on your husband with an ex is NOT responsible. I find it awfully childish that you would want to bring a baby into this world. Stop cheating on your husband and get into marriage counseling first. Work on your marriage THEN talk about having children. Right now, You are too childish.
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Frist no it's not going to work you either will be pregnant by one of them or not pregnant at all. Frist Julies Answer has some point she could have stated it nicer but you may need to get a test to make sure it's not your exs child if you end up pregnant. I sugesst you stop seeing your ex for sex. If it isn't your exs and you stop seeing him now you can possibly avoid your husband finding out and apologize just my Idea.
-Sunshine's Love to you. Hope everything works out.
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You shouldn't have a baby with your husband. If you can't be faithful to him, you don't love him or deserve to be with him. Tell your husband what you did and see how he feels about it. A good mother wouldn't act like a whore and cheat on their husband. If you really want a child, you need to grow up and be honest with your husband.
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