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Sister Drama
Ok so here is the situation, my sister and I are best friends like we are really close. I'm the oldest and recently she did something that I thought was really foolish and very dangerous, so I told on her. My sister is a lot more advanced than me as far as sexual things go (I'm a virgin, she isn't) and so I don't know I think the big sister part of me kicked in. She war really mad at me but she isn't big on holding grudges, Do you think I over reacted by telling on her?
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Well.. I mean sooner or later your parents would find out so its not that much of a problem from what I see. I think a lot has to do with just letting go with what she says. Dont worry about her , she will get over it. You did the right thing to tell whats she been up to.. I mean she is younger then you , they have the right to know shes still growing and needs to learn right? Its fine.. you didn't overreact... it happens :) So stop worrying and be proud.
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If your sister was doing something that you honestly felt was dagerous you did the right thing to go to an adult and let them know... You are just being a good sister and worrying about her is not a bad thing she will get over it dont worry
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I think telling on her was kinda childish. If you have a problem with what she is doing tell her. Don't just go tattle on her. I know you were doing what you thought was right, and I'm not saying it wasn't a good idea because you must have felt kind of panicky. Next time, you should think out how she will respond and maybe just discuss with her how you feel about what she's doing and how you feel protective when she does foolish things. Don't let anything get between you, your family! :)
~Mae<3:)
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As a big sister it is never wrong to speak up if you think a younger sibling has done something or will do something that will cause them harm. This is what being a big sister is all about. It is called caring.
It has nothing to do with whether she was doing something sexual or whether she was going to borrow the family car without having a drivers license or asking permission. You don't have to know how to drive a car to know this is wrong.
I would say the same is true for whatever your sister may have done sexually. I am proud of you for caring for your sister enough to point out whatever she did was foolish and dangerous. You should be commended.
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