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how do you know it is right, when you still love someone after they cheat on you?
I am a senior in college and 21 years old. I had dated my ex boyfriend for a year and a half. I thought he could have been my husband, everything about him seemed so right. i loved his family, and he fit perfectly in with mine. his parents had told him that they saw us being married. this was all until he cheated on me. we had some rough times when we were on and off when we were both very busy with school and our sports that we both play in college. i think we both were very stressed. how do you know if its right? even after everything i can not be mad at him. i love him so much and saw myself having a family with him...i just need thoughts on this.
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In every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can't sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. Because you can't keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.
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I truly believe that when someone cheats a certain aspect of them was never truly happy in the relationship they were in.
Cheating is betrayal, When two people are in a relationship it is up to the both of them to make it work and your boyfriend choose to cheat to whatever reason that may be. If you continue to be in a relationship know that you will never trust him the same again. I agree with YoungMommy people who cheat are usually always cheaters. You thought this guy was the right one for you but sometimes things aren't always what they appear to be that is just how life goes. You don't love him, You loved him for who he was before he cheated. I honestly think you should put him behind you and try to meet someone else who will appreciate you and love you for who you are.
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Your ex boyfriend is not going to change. once a cheater always a cheater if you go back with him that would be like giving him permission to do it again my advice drop the guy like bad habbit and go find yourself a good man who would never hurt you like that good luck and best wishes
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