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Member Since: July 26, 2011
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Last Update: July 26, 2011
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So I was sitting down (cross legged position) for about an hour or 2.. straight. Which was pretty dumb of me because i didn't realize it was bad for you because apparently it cuts off your blood circulation. Well the next morning, I woke up and tried to walk around but my legs were KILLING me!!! It hurts so badly I can't even extend my knees straight. It hurts right behind the knee, and then a little further down by my calves.

I did a little research and maybe its varicose veins?? I can see my veins (which usually I don't) but they aren't like black or super dark. I have tried many things. I elevated my feet for about 20 minutes. I heated it up by taking a hot shower. I massaged my legs. I stretched. it just seems to be getting worse and worse. What is wrong with my legs and how do i fix it??

Going to the doctor is out of the question for me because i'm on vacation and am not familiar with the area. (link)
Honestly you can never diagonose yourself properly, I suggest if you are this worried about this you take the charges and call a doctor or lisenced professional back in your country...this could be more serious than you thought, better be save then sorry.


I am a senior in college and 21 years old. I had dated my ex boyfriend for a year and a half. I thought he could have been my husband, everything about him seemed so right. i loved his family, and he fit perfectly in with mine. his parents had told him that they saw us being married. this was all until he cheated on me. we had some rough times when we were on and off when we were both very busy with school and our sports that we both play in college. i think we both were very stressed. how do you know if its right? even after everything i can not be mad at him. i love him so much and saw myself having a family with him...i just need thoughts on this. (link)
In every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can't sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. Because you can't keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.


I am 13 and i am pregnant. I took a pregnancy test that I stole from a store and it was positive. I already know i am way to young for sex. But we did use a condom it just broke. I can't tell my mom because she doesn't even know that I like boys yet she still thinks that I think boys have cooties. Abortion is out of the picture 1. I can't afford it 2. I could never kill a child. But i am just so scared I didnt tell the dad yet and not my mom only my best friend. I don't know how to tell them so please just tell me what to do or give me potions or opinions but please don't lecture me on how stupid I am for having sex I will get that from my mom it has been 2 weeks. Thanks for the help (link)
Ok I feel for you girl, a friend of mine was in the same position. I know this is going to be hard on you but its going to make you grow as a person. Telling your mom is going to have to happen, theres no way to hide this. Mabye you should tell the boyfriend first because you guys are comfortable, and mabye suggest to him that you two together tell your mother. Tell her that you are going to take full responsablilty and you know that you made a misstake, but theres nothing you can do now, but excepting whats going to happen. once your mother knows, she will be able to help you with everything,after all she did have you as a child. I hope the best to you, your in my prayers, good luck




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