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boyfriend doesnt wanna have sex after the baby
Posted Saturday March 22 2014, 4:08 am
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years now and have an 8 month old son together. Up until a month before our son was born we had a good sex life and were having sex a lot. After our son was born we started bearly having sex about once a month. Now he gets all mad when I try to have sex with him and tells me no. He doesn't even want me to see him naked or touch his private area. I feel like we are little kids. Please tell me why you think he doesn't wanna have sex with me. It is really hurting me.
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I think my bf is gay undercover
Posted Friday March 21 2014, 7:34 am
Me & my bf been together 3yrs now iys been anabuise one I got beat everyday but my question was how do I know hes gay say my self he is he says his not but he did things that go that way he only look at guys when he would see a guy walkin down the st he would stand like If he was forzen & I guess he would fanitzie about haveing sex with this person & his dick would get hard he wouldnt have sex with me itz been 3months he says I been actin up thats why he wouldnt have sex with me them he says itz him I said no itz not becuZ he stands in one place like hes stupid doesnt talk nothang just stands ther dreamin awake in hes dick gets hard only when he sees guys I know he has messed arpund Idont have proff but he has all the signs help me what u think it is
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how kan I tell my bf is gay
Posted Friday March 21 2014, 7:24 am
I say my self he is he says his not but he wouldnt have aex with me itz been 3months he says I been actin up thays qhy he wouldnt have sex with me them he says itz him I said no itz not becuZ he stands in one place like hes stupid doesnt talk nothang just stands ther dreamin awake in hes dick gets hard help me what u think it is
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What does it sound like?
Posted Friday March 21 2014, 1:46 am
I was wondering... What does it sound like when a guy moans? Cause when I'm kissing my boyfriend he tends to make a sound that sounds almost like a soft whimper... Just wondering...
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I don't know how to word it,I think I like this boy… not sure…
Posted Thursday March 20 2014, 8:48 pm
I was rehearsing this school play, and I was next to a humorous, witty boy I've been friends with for some time. We were making jokes about the play we were practicing, Alladin, and I'm only in 5th grade, so everyone has different parts in different scenes. Typically, one big part, and a bunch of company parts. We both were talking during a company number we were in,“friend like me" and we were joking about the dance moves. A kid turned around to tease, and the boy said something funny to get her to turn around. Then we looked into each other's eyes, and laughed. Not shrill, giggles, but you know-REAL laughter. And I saw something in his eyes. Now I'm wondering, now what? I've only known him for a year, but I like him someway. I don'...
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no affection
Posted Thursday March 20 2014, 10:53 am
i have been in this relationship for 11 months....no affection at all no kissing no huggin but we do have sex an oral..i am n love wit him but wondering do he love me...never a compliment ...he say if he didnt want me he wouldnt buy me things...very controllin ways...do i neeftoto move on? or will it change? i ask did he eva kiss his son mom he sad a few times...
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internet 'break-off'
Posted Tuesday March 18 2014, 12:19 am
So I started chatting with a stranger on a chat website (non-dating) and we're the same age and have a ton in common, and we've been chatting back and forth for the past few weeks... however, he recently uploaded a picture of himself (first one I've ever seen) and (NOT saying he's ugly) he's really not my type, looks-wise. He said, after he uploaded it, that he understands if I want to break contact whenever. How do I non-chalantly and politely... ditch him?
14/f
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Boyfriend's mom has control issues
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 10:08 pm
23 f living with my 25 year old boyfriend and his family. I am living there because of a crazy home situation that I couldn't stay in. I like his parents a lot but I don't like living with them.
When I first was dating Tim, it was obvious that he had been spoiled or sheltered. Not money wise, just that his mom would do everything for him. He didn't know how to clean, cook even basic things, do dishes, do laundry, etc. I noticed that whenever he would try to do something, his mom would say he was doing it wrong and take over, rather than showing him how- she doesn't have much patience. Over the last year, I have taught him all that stuff and he's gotten really good at it. However, she still makes derogatory comments when sh...
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Why would the married man I'm seeing invite me to a family event?
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 2:13 pm
I'm sleeping with a married man, he has invited me to his son's graduation party at his home. Why would he do this? I have never been to his home, I have never met his wife. Although we have talked about his wife and his family, I always thought he wanted to keep me separate from his home life. I have no desire to ruin his life or out him. My place, for him, is a distraction, an ego booster, and a shiny new toy until he tires of me.
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I lied, and I don't know how to fix things
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 10:38 am
Recently, I started date one of my oldest friends. We started catching up last September, and we realised that we like each other. We decided to give dating a shot, and it worked out really well. He is everything I want in man; he is passionate, kind, considering, and has the biggest heart. Yes, we had our arguments; sometimes it was my fault and sometimes it was his fault. However, the biggest problem is me, you see I lied to him, more than once; and he forgave me more than once. Every lie I told him was ridiculous, and I don't know why I did so. By me promising that I will never lie will not solve anything and he will not believe me. I know I screwed up big time, and I know he is willing to give me another chance, but I truly do not know ...
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What would I do? I am afraid my boyfriend would pressure me into doing things...
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 10:21 am
I'm 15 and my friends(a little older than me) have been dating all that stuff.
I'm homechooled,and I live in a really small town so I don't really know any guys, and I really don't have much of a desire to date.
My family is Christian(I even live across the street from my church) and conservative.
I was wondering about when I have a boyfriend. I would have no idea what to do since I've never dated before, And considering that my freinds have already done sexual things, I'm worried he'd pressure me.
I would much rather wait to lose my virginity(preferably till marrage),I don't want a relationship to be all about sex and making out and stuff, I want it to be like we're best friends and all I really...
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My boyfreind doesnt respect my wishes
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 6:34 am
Hi, I have been in a live-in relationship for 4 years. (Both in our 40's) We live in Canada. My boyfriend who likes to drink every night (5 or 6 beers) maybe more on the weekends. My concern is not the drinking right now. Its my job. He likes to invite certain people who also like to drink over to our house in the middle of the week. They come over around 8pm and drink until around 12. I do have a few drinks as well but had noticed lately that it has been affecting my work. I call in sick the next day or I'm exhausted at work and cant function fully. I'm gaining weight and I feel awful. I tried talking to my boyfriend on numerous occasions asking him to hold off during the week and how this affects me. He says he understands and agrees with...
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I am 12 and a 16 year old boy is asking me for dirty pictures.
Posted Monday March 17 2014, 2:55 am
There's this boy in my school who is 16. We are close friends and he says I'm like his little sister. Yesterday I split up with my boyfriend and he started talking to me he said he was fat and I said prove it (we always say it joking around) so he sent me a picture of him with no top on and in his boxers and he told me to prove I'm not fat so he convinced me to send him a picture of my belly. Then he said he's sad because my picture wasn't like his and I said I can't take my top off to take a pic of my belly and he put you can. I said no and he was trying to convince me for half an hour before he finally said okay and I don't know what to do? Wether to tell someone? But the hardest part is he has told me he likes me and.. I might like him ...
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Why are women so scared of large labia?
Posted Sunday March 16 2014, 10:39 pm
I am a male 52 yr old and absolutely adore large labia and never had the pleasure of meeting a woman with large labia. I dont know why women are so up tight about it. Men are not the same in size or thickness so do they worry about it
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Fish & Chip response
Posted Sunday March 16 2014, 9:32 pm
I take it you must be from the 50's when the men ruled the roost. You need to get into the new millennium. That was pretty nasty what you responded to the fish and chip story. I only which I could truly say what I thought right now. Is this how you are in your relationship, overbearing and rude?
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Russian women personals
Posted Sunday March 16 2014, 4:19 pm
These sites that offer to introduce you to women from other countries... are they all scams or is it possible to meet someone you really love this way without being hurt or ripped off?
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age difference
Posted Sunday March 16 2014, 1:36 pm
I'm 16 , I hate young dudes . what would be my age limit to date an older dude ?
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Living w/ boyfriend at school versus parents when home :/
Posted Sunday March 16 2014, 12:28 am
Hi, I'm 21 and home from college for Spring break. I know it's probably an oddity that someone of my age is on here, but I used to use Advicenators a lot as a young teen, and thought perhaps the people on this site would come through for me again even years later. Bear with me, I promise these paragraphs lead somewhere.
My boyfriend lives about an hour away when we're both in our hometowns. When we are at school though, he has an apartment about 10 minutes off campus, and I live on-campus. We spend a bunch of nights together, most often at his place, because he has no room mates, and we can just do homework all night, cook meals, talk about whatever we want, and -dare I say it- fart... basically just live a stress-free life a...
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Do I love him?
Posted Saturday March 15 2014, 10:35 am
Boyfriend 20m
Me 18f
Little siblings are 8 and 9
I'm gonna say that I need advice on understanding if I'm in love because there's a side of me that always says yes and other says no. My boyfriend loves me completely he is willing to do anything to make me happy, but I have doubts that go through my head because whenever I see his flaws I end up getting really annoyed by him and when we hang out all he wants is to kiss me I like it but there's times where I don't, it just gets old and so do his jokes:/ I know that only I can fix my emotions and figure them out but I have this feeling of braking up with him whenever I don't like something maybe I'm selfish or something I don't really mean to though. in the beginni...
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Lonely but unsure how to trust people...
Posted Saturday March 15 2014, 3:58 am
I have friends, but I'm not really close to anyone. I also have problems trusting people enough to have a significant relationship, especially guys. I guess part of it is that I have seen my parents get divorced three times and I just have this fear that once I trust someone enough to love them, they'll go away. It's happened all my life. Anyway, the result is that I'm nice to everyone, close to no one, and pretty lonely because I kind of emotionally isolate myself.
How do I get over my fears and trust people?
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