These sites that offer to introduce you to women from other countries... are they all scams or is it possible to meet someone you really love this way without being hurt or ripped off?
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday March 16 2014, 11:02 pm: My only experience hearing about this is through my dad. When mom divorced him, he first decided to look for a female from Mexico in personals. This was 30 years ago. The company that put all the legal stuff together seemed to be on the level. He had no troubles with them. But I am sure there are companies that can and will rip you off.
The female herself may be the problem. Dads spanish speaking female arrived and lived with him for a couple months. They were not married. In the short time she was with him, she began to hunt for relatives she had in Texas and as soon as she found them, she disappeared. All he knew is she began corresponding with them and since he didnt know Spanish well and she didnt speak English it was impossible for him to know what she was planning. So he was the sucker that paid her way to get into the U.S. and once here, she took off. You might have to consider that a possibility.
In todays world with a tight economy everyone is looking to make a buck whether legally or illegally. The illegal ones seem to be on the increase from stuff I have been seeing online or reading. You may think its glamorous to get someone from another country but trying to meet people long distance whether this way or through dating sites is an illusion and there is no way to discover if they are on the level and who they claim to be. It is too easy to lie and present a false front. You may be better off looking for a U.S. citizen who is Russian in heritage and find her on a dating site and take it from the on line to the real life dating asap. The web is only the tool to bring you both to each others attention. The longer its online, the more theres a chance of it becoming entirely a fantasy. Do you want a fantasy or do you want a real woman in your life? Keep this in mind as you make your decisions.
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