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how kan I tell my bf is gay
I say my self he is he says his not but he wouldnt have aex with me itz been 3months he says I been actin up thays qhy he wouldnt have sex with me them he says itz him I said no itz not becuZ he stands in one place like hes stupid doesnt talk nothang just stands ther dreamin awake in hes dick gets hard help me what u think it is
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He says you've been acting up. And thats all he has given in explanation. Thats not very helpful. No examples of what you are doing that is causing him to feel sexually turned off by you?
I am not saying he has a valid complaint. But just in case he does, from listening to relationship and dating experts, I have come to know that there are indeed things that a female does that will kill a guys interest in her...not just for sex but in having any kind of relationship at all. So if he hasn't left you/broken up with you and is still hanging around and being a friend, just without the sex now whereas he was sexual with you before, then something happened in His life, nothing likely that you have done to kill his sex drive. He may not be ready to deal with whatever it is in his life that is causing these changes. It could be family issues, stress, a change in his hormone levels which can cause loss of interest. There isn't a clear way to tell if someone is gay. too many assume you can tell by their behavior. The greater majority of gay people I've ever met and known showed no visual clue on the outside. Why does there need to be a label.
If he really was gay, what difference would that make to you? Couldn't you still be a friend to him, or would you prefer to be friends only with males who are straight and more likely to have sex with you. Not saying thats a bad thing. Just have your priorities straight in your mind. If you are currently looking for a boyfriend with whom you can be sexual and he won't be, then something needs to change. If he will not fess up what his real issues are, then the only change left possible is that you change who your 'boyfriend' is. This doesnt mean you have to stop being his friend, just not official boyfriend/girlfriend anymore.
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Accusing your boyfriend of being gay is a good way to ruin a relationship. There isn't a whole lot of details that you posted but communication is what builds a strong and healthy relationship. Learn to trust him, Learn to listen and show respect, Be patient etc.
It is not unusual for men to get erections, Just because he seems to be daydreaming doesn't mean he is gay, It simply means he is being a typical guy.
If you aren't happy in your relationship then do the right thing by letting him know it's not working out for you. Assuming someone is gay or accusing them is only going to result in you being g dumped and single. It's rude and ignorant
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