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Why are women so scared of large labia?
I am a male 52 yr old and absolutely adore large labia and never had the pleasure of meeting a woman with large labia. I dont know why women are so up tight about it. Men are not the same in size or thickness so do they worry about it
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The why is a combination of being suckered in by the media and having an unrealistic model we want model ourselves after to be to be perfect for men and women just not liking their selves or having a low self image.
Its a matter of not really thinking for ourselves because if we really did the research, we'd realize by looking at the paintings of nudes in other centuries and the pin up girls of the 40s/50s, that what society thinks is "IN" and acceptable and sexy in a woman has changed throughout the ages. If the standards keep changing, doesnt that give reason to the fact that all it was is the most popular or influential people of the times portraying or maybe dictating what "beauty" is and this includes private parts too. Beauty has always been in the eye of the beholder not in what media trys to tell us it is. I don't look like TV's models, but guys come out of the woodwork all the time on facebook, finding me on a friends 'friend list' and writing and saying how pretty I am and they are looking for someone to date, no matter that my status shows I have my man already. I am old enough to have learned that someone can be 'eye candy' on the outside, but its who they are on the inside that either makes them really desirable or not.
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I guess when it comes to ourselves bigger isn't always better. The only part of the body most women like to be large is their breasts, however if they got what they wanted, a lot of women would be falling over because they'd have large breasts, small waist and backside.
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