about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks.

This is the hardest thing that someone can ever go through. I want to let you know that my heart is out to you, your friend, and everyone else who has been through a death in their family or friends.


Your friend is probably taking this a lot harder than you right now. And while we all cope differently, she pushes people away - that's how she seems to be coping with it. And while I'll admit that this isn't a healthy way to cope, she probably needs time to realize that herself. And eventually, I hope that she will. She needs to know that it won't solve the problem. What's happened has already happened. And she might feel bad that she can't change it. Perhaps she was so close with this friend that she felt as if she should have saw the signs.


How you feel is important to. And you shouldn't bottle it up inside. I would give it time and she how Jane is coming along. If she seems to get better with time, I'd address how she made you feel and how she needs to be able to talk to you because you both are in this situation together. Let her know that you are there for her and you'll always be. The key is to make her feel comfortable enough so that if she has a problem or she needs someone to talk to she can tell you about it instead of hurting you.


No matter what you say, sometimes people can't get over it. And what you say can't bring your friend who died back. But you can always be there for her, support her. Try to get her having fun again. Go out, meet guys, go to the movies. Haha whatever you can think of.


Again, I'm very sorry to her that. I hope you guys are okay. And if your not it does get better in time but it never fully will disappear. You'll always have memories and miss her. But keep those memories with you forever.
Take care, doll! Make sure you take care of yourself too.


-Mandee

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and we decided that we are comfortable having sex. well, i really need help! i thot this would be an interesting experience, but he has such an odd sexuality. example: he like practically ripped off my blouse, then like snapped oppen my bra and IT REALLY HURT, then like he takes my panties off and start rubbing them on himself,then when he had enough of that, he got whipped cream and sprayed it on my pussy, then licked it off. now that whippe cream thing may turn some weird girls on, BUT NOT ME!!! i'm like what the heck???? so then i just get dressed and leave because this was ridiculous, but we're really close so we made up. but what can i do so that next time, (its proabably not going to be for awhile tho) he acts NORMAL!!!

Haha...yep! That's happened to me too.


You need to tell him that you weren't comfortable with what he was doing. It was really weird to you. If you don't talk to him about what he did wrong, he'll never change it. Tell him you'd like him to be more senual and gentle with you. Tell him the whipped cream isn't for you.


Keep in mind that telling him might make him feel awkward and like he did something wrong. So if you're going to tell him, sugarcoat it in the best possible way. Keep your words at heart and also mention the things he's good at. So he won't feel like a complete loser. But yeah, he needs to be able to handle it. I mean, he's a guy afterall.


If you don't want to dicuss it an other option would be to throw hints. Like when you're with him and he kisses you softly say something like " I love how you did that!" He should take a hint and realize that you like being treated delicately.


Love,
Mandee

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Hey well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half this month and I love him with my life and we have talked about having sex and I do think about the consequences, but i mean i feel like I'm mature enough and emotionaly ready to have sex we have talked it over more than once and we would like to try it out. The thing is, is that I'm only 14, but dont you think if i feel that I'm ready and so does he then there would be no problem I know it sounds young but wat do you think? i know its going to hurt but I dont even want to have sex with him.....I want to make love to him. I love him so much and even if anything were to happen between us then i wouldnt regret it because i got to share something so special with some one i truly love and I'm inlove with... so Do you think I'm to young? and i mean its not like you could prevent me from doing it but i just want your opinion so i can think it all through a couple more times. I appreciate the advice you have given to me before about different topics and im sure you will give me more good advice on this one! thanx♥

First, let me appologize for the long, long wait. I am very sorry for that! My laptop has been broke lately, which is why I couldn't respond to you earlier.


I am so happy that you want my opinion on this! This is a serious issue, and I promise to give my honest opinion. I don't think having sex is based on age, but rather the maturity level of the people thiking about it. If you honestly believe that you are ready for sex and are aware of the risks that come with it, I think you should be entitled to have sex. Fourteen is young, but as I stated before, if you are a very matured for your age and know what you're doing, why not? You're young, and you seem very mature. You'll be experinced fo future years, and if something did happen after having sex, you will learn from it. Just like you'd learn from any other mistakes you made. I could kill myself for telling this about me over the internet since it's very personal, but I had sex when I was thriteen years old. I was ready for it even though I was still learning about life in general. It was with a guy I really liked, and I felt that I shouldn't do it to make him happy, but just do it so that I experince it. It felt really painful for me the first time, but it was enjoyable. And I don't regret it to this day. But not everything was all peachy, because he broke up with me about, well, a couple weeks after. I was kind of ashamed though. Because I would tell everyone I was a virgin even thouh I wasn't. Just because people expect that you'd be sleezy if you weren't a virgin and I didn't want people to think that of me. But it's better just to tell them because then you aren't hiding anything. But yeah, if you know that you are ready, then I think you're prepared enough for it. But make sure that you know you are ready! But be careful hunnie!!!

Thanks for such a great question!!! Sorry again, I really am!

Love,
Mandee

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i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help..

There's nothing wrong with that! Actually that's good because if your boyfriend wanted to do stuff unexpectedly you'll be prepared! He won't see it hairy if it's shaved. It's really up to you, whatever you wanna do. But yeah I think a lot of people do that, so no worries!

Love,
Mandee

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Me and this guy met online, he's 13 and im 14. We live pretty close to eachother and have so much in common. I dont think he is lieing about his age either. He acts like a kid alot like me. Some of my friends thinks he likes me because of this conversation me and him had (online only, never spoke or seen him in real life). And I know I like him, but should I say anything about me liking him to him? Or just let things play themselves out? Or uhm what do you think I should do? plz help me ~suicidal darkness princess~

Hey babe! There's a chance that he could be afraid to tell you that he likes you if he does. So I think rather than telling him straight out, try to give him a few hints to lead him to believe that you do, infact like him. That way you won't be as embarressed. If he likes you he will probably do the same. For example if he brings up the idea that you two could see each other, you know he's interested. Take it slow and day by day. Unless, you would rather just tell him and get it over with. Does this help? lol I hope so. Well I gotta go, but hopefully things work out!

Love,
Mandee

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Ok, please help me. Well me and this guy, he's 13 and im 14, met online from Xanga. We have alot in common and he seems really kind. We never spoke or seen eachother in real life. I think I like him, but im not sure if he likes me, and were friends (I think) thus I don't know what to do. And then I am afraid if I say anything, I'll scare him away, but if I don't do anything I don't know what would happen. Please help me? '~The Suicidal Blade Baby~'

You're right that nothing would happen if you didn't say anything. So, why don't you talk more to him on AIM or e-mail if that makes you more comfortable? As long as you talk to him in some way you'll get more answers. You don't know if you're friends with him or if he likes you so I think you should keep talking to him and find out. You don't even have to ask. As time goes by you'll know whether or not you're his friend. I don't think you would scare him away, just make sure that he knows that you're not a stalker. And bring it up when you're ready to, hun. Get to know him better, and through conversations you'll be able to tell if he likes you.


If you're tired of talking to him by the computer and want to talk to him in person just be careful. Hopefully he isn't a stalker and you know it. (lol) Because, it happened to me before. Anyways, if he likes you, he likes you for your personality so act yourself. Think of it as calling another one of your friends. Only call when you feel secure about it. If you're nervous try and calm down. It would be just like calling anyone else. If time goes by and you've been calling and he's been calling maybe you can see each other. But really, really think about that idea. If you trust him, go for it. If you're having some thoughts, don't meet him yet. Just do what you want to do when you're ready. I hope things work out!! :D If you need more info, I'm always around.

Love,
Mandee

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This is embarrassing but here goes i am impotent
and my penis is just over 2 inches long and i was seeing this girl and when she found out she did'nt hang around long im worried that this will happen often does it matter that much will i be able to have a relationship with a girl sometime?

Don't be embarrassed, sweetie. I'm going to be honest with you about this. Please don't take it too personally or get upset.


Girls tend to make a big deal out of the penis-size thing, but remember that it's not all girls, just some. A girl might freak out if she saw it, or she might blow it off and be cool about it. Yes, I think there will be girls who will stay with you in a relationship. Because she should want you for you. Your size should not matter because she will be drawn to you and not your penis. Be aware that some girls won't feel the same. What I'm trying to say is that: Sometimes it matters and sometimes it doesn't depending on the girl. And yes, it's possible to find a girl that wouldn't mind it much. :)

Love,
Mandee

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Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!!

Hey Lissa! There will always be someone in your life who has higher expectations for you, but remember that you should only do what you think is best for you and not what someone else thinks is best for you. Your education determines what the future will hold for you in some ways, so it's very understanding why your mom is upset. She wants you to have a good life, recieve the best education, and have a great job when you get older.


If you want this so bad you need to work your hardest at it. Your mom will be so proud of you, and you will be proud of yourself as well. Push yourself, but not too hard. Take it one step at a time, and it's never too late to change those grades. Becoming organized will help you so much, you'll know what's due and when. You'll have all of your assignments and you will be prepared for test if you look over the material. Don't say that you're not smart, you can be if you wanted it bad enough. Anyone can change that. It takes a lot of work...I can't stress that enough. Usually, if you do the work you know more about what you're learning. And that's the purpose of homework..it only helps you. So keep completing it. And if you are okay with turning in things, but horrible at tets change your study habits. If you study for a little bit during the week it would be so much better than studying the day before, and you won't know it as well. Highlight important information, make sure you keep up with notes, and listen to what your teachers say. ( I know that is so difficult sometimes...so boring but it makes a difference)



Sweetie, prove everyone wrong! You can do this! You can make anything happen if you want it bad enough. Think of how good it will feel to have everyone tell you how smart you are. And the smile on your moms face will be unforgetable. Work at it as hard as you can, do something about this..don't just forget about it. You will have so much confidence in yourself once you accomplish this. Best wishes for you!!! And don't cry..it will be okay. You'll be happy if you start trying to do something about it. =D Never let anyone tell you that you can't do something or that you will never be anything!

Love,
Mandee

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When I was 13 I found out that I have a sister that had been put up for adoption. I had grown up thinking that I had two sisters and it was devistating to think that I had another one that I may never know and be able to love. So, I swore that one day I would find her. Back in March I did find her. I had searched for so long that I really felt that I would never find her and when I did I was afraid that since I grea up in a dysfunctional family and we weren't wealthy or anything that we wouldn't be good enough for her. Well, she is wonderful. We went through the DNA testing and when we found out it was just amazing. She came out for a visit in April and since then I have gone to see her twice. We live in seperate states. The two sisters and I that grew up together have the same father but she (2nd to the oldest) has a different father. My father is dead now (long story) but our mother is still living. Mom has a long history of drug abuse and she does not want my Sister to know about it.

This is my question. I think that she is noticing that Mom isn't as close to her as she is our oldest and youngest sisters. They e-mail and Mom calls about once a month or so but she and I talk weekly and on the internet every night. The other two sisters rarely e-mail her and they don't call her. I know that she doesn't feel as connected to the family as she would like to and I feel responsible because I was the one that went looking for her. There are times that she tells me that it really hurts her feelings and I am not sure what to say.

I love her so much, she is just fantastic and had a terrible life growing up. Her adopted Dad wound up in prison and her adopted Mom comitted suicide when she was a teenager. I know that she has abandonment issues because of all of that and now I am scared that meeting her bio family is just adding to those issues because of their distance. I wouldn't take for knowing and having the chance to be in my sister's life and her in mine but sometimes I feel so guilty for causing her even more grief.

Did I do the right thing by finding her or was I just being selfish because I missed her so much being in my life? I am just afraid that my love for her just isn't enough to make up for all of the time that she has done without and now that she has found her bio family that maybe the dream of what they were was better than what we are.

Confusing and long I know but anyone with input would be appreciated.

Sweetie, you were curious about your family and you went out and searched to find the answers. I think that makes you very responsible and very concerned for your family and for your sister. Your family might not feel very close to her because she hasn't been around long and she wasn't there through all of the hard times. They could even be afraid in a way because they aren't used to having another family member around because this whole this is new. You both seem to have a connection...she's been through a lot and so have you. And as an opinion of mine, I really think that as long as you two have each other that is enough to keep you strong. Your family may not accept her as well as you do and that could lead to some problems. But you all need to be willing to work things out or nothing will happen. Talk to your family and your sister and come up with any ideas that can make your family start over and be closer to your sister. It's very important to have a close family. But if you don't that's okay...as I said before if you and her are close that should be enough. You missed her and probably needed her in your life, so maybe right now she needs you. The only thing I can think of is to try as hard as you can to get your family together again. But if they refuse to do that you can't make them. Trying to is the only thing that might help. Anyways, keep in touch with your sister, because it's better to have a least one of her family to talk to instead of none.
Love,
Mandee

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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!

Actually, this is normal among most teenage girls. Sometimes when your nipple is sensitive and gets touched or as you said gets cold it will stick out. And that's just it's way of reacting to it. You are still young, and maybe in time...you will grow out of it. But sometimes you won't. Anyways, the only person who is going to notice that is you. It's just the way your boobs are. And you can change that by surgery but I wouldn't recommend that. Because why change what you were born with? No one will realize it. So don't worry everything will be okay!! Hehe. Love Always, Mandee

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What the average size of a penis?
my penis is quiet small and my gf sort of joked around when she saw it and says i should be bigger
does size matter to most girls?

Hey!! Well I guess average varies to anyone so everyone has something different in mind. And usually, to be honest most girls * not all* do care about the size. But some girls say that they prefer like a 5 or 6 inch. Since your girlfriend joked about how small your penis was, if you feel like that gave you less confidence about it make sure you tell her. I am assuming that size does matter to her but as long as she loves you the size of your dick shouldn't be a big deal. But don't be ashamed of it because the size of it isn't the purpose. It's the action that's the purpose! Hehehe. Love Always, Mandee

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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

You are very right, it is none of their buisness. But it's typical for that to happen because people are judgemental. In fact everyone has a little bit of judgement in them. But yeah, a lot of times it goes way too far. The only thing that matters hun is if you're happy with this change. It's your body and not theirs, so don't keep trying to please people. Be who you want to be. If you know those people well tell them you are not a whore, slut or hoe. You do things with your boyfriend...so what? Many people do, believe me. lol Just make them realize you are not what they think you are. If you don't know them very well then chances are they don't know you well. So right from the start they don't even know who and what you are and they are just spreading rumors trying to bring you down. Don't let them do that to you ever! If you are happy with yourself never be afraid to show it, and don't let people tell you what you are, because only you know what and who you are! Good luck with everything babe! Take care! Love you! -Mandee

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what does it mean when a guy says he got cock blocked?

Okay, well I wasn't totally sure so I got some help on this. lol. What I heard was that when a guy says he got cock blocked he that is basically meaning "when you get in a guys way of getting some from a girl." So it's like a guy may want to have sex with this girl but someone is preventing him from it. A disruption. I hope this helps you out a bit! Love you! -Mandee

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k so there's this guy that i've liked since 8th grade(i'm going into 10th).He's been going out with one of my good friends for about 11 months. She went out of town for 2 weeks and the other night, i snuck out to meet this guy at his house and we got drunk. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex.He and his girlfriend havent even had sex yet. We haven't mentioned it to each other since. Do you think he was using me for pussy? because we've been like bestfriends for awhile now. should i feel guilty? because i feel bad for what HE did to her not for what I did to her...please answer this-i really need advice

Hmm. Well, there could be many reasons for this. If you both were drunk you probably didn't think right. It's true that drinking makes you think unclearly but that doesn't me you lost control. He make have used you being drunk as an advantage and knew that you were more capable of having sex with him that way. Or you might be right about him using you. He might say soemthing like well I didn't mean to, but that is most likely untrue because alcohol doesn't affect you that badly that you can't not mean to have sex with someone. Since he is going out with your friends...and you both had sex without her knowing that really isn't fair to her. For instance if you had a boyfriend for like a year and he had sex with your friend before he did with you wouldn't you want to know? I know that I would feel guilty if I did that to my friend. And I'm not saying that you should too, people have different views on things. He was wrong..and yeah you should feel guilty for what he did to her, but are you sure you don't feel guilty just a tiny bit about what you did to her also? If you don't..then you don't. And that's fine. It's a difficult thing to have gone through without your friend knowing. I guess what I'm trying to say- and I am just being honest with you- I would feel guilty for that. But you aren't me and you don't have to feel guilty for that. Should you feel guilty? Maybe. But you don't have to. Hopefully everything turns out okay! Best of luck in everything! Love you! -Mandee

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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink!

He is in an awkward stage right now. It's kind of like he is shutting everyone and what they are saying out of his life...it's a mental thing. And sadly he is the only one who can stop himself. It is important to keep reminding him how much he means to you and how he shouldn't take his life for granted like that. But sometimes words are not enough in a situation like this. Why don't you and the rest of his friends take him out and try to get him to have fun. Maybe then he will realize there is something to live for. Because right now he is probably so unhappy with himself, everyone, and life in general. Spend a lot of time with him and keep an eye out for him. Good luck with everything! Love you! -Mandee

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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*

No way hunnie! I agree with you, if you want to be open about your sexuality that's perfectly fine! A lot of people will say things because that's just how they are. And there will always be people in your life like that. And to some people the word "slut" will mean something else. But truthfully I don't think you're a slut at all! Maybe others will see things differently, but to me you are no slut. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex, most people do! Haha. Love ya -Mandee

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Alot of girls have been mentioning, on this site, that they shave their pubic hair...and that it's necessary to. I'm confused. Will guys be turned off if you don't? I mean I understand you don't want anything showing in a bathing suit...but I believe I'd rather have hair than an infected red bumpy area. Is it wrong not to shave? What do you think?

Sweetheart, I say do what you want! If you don't want to shave it don't. And no, of course it's not wrong not to!! I shave mine though...but that's just me...and well guys tend to want it shaven too. But everyone has different thoughts about it and I'm sure that there's many other people who feel the way you do. There is absolutely nothing wrong for not wanting to shave down there! And about the guys, there will be some who actually don't want it shaved. I think you should do whatever makes you feel comfortable because it's your body and you should never feel uncomfortable or feel like you "must" do something that you never wanted to do. Stay sweet and take care!!! Love you -Mandee

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well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal..

Drugs have a major affect on people, and it's notorious to have sexual affects too. It's perfectly fine that you don't get horny all the time. Some people don't. You still may be at a young age and you're uncertain about a few things or why you're not thinking as much about sexual things. Hunnie, I wouldn't do drugs to get you "in the mood". You just aren't as easily horny as some girls are, and that's fine. I don't think that this is weird at all, because people sometimes turn to drugs for sexual responses. But changing your love life and how you think about it doesn't really make it "yours", it just changes your behavior and actions about it that you never would have done in the first place without the drugs. Anyways, good luck and take care! Never change yourself for anybody! Love ya -Mandee

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Ok im like alaways masturbatingwith my self! yes im a girl! no bf either what do I do?


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Yes, it's okay as long as you don't do it too much. By that I mean to the point where you can come addicted. Like umm lets say 15 times a day, then you might need to stop. Haha. And having a boyfriend doesn't matter. So don't worry, you're fine! Love ya -Mandee

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is there medicine for it?

Haha! Sorry..but I don't think anyone has developed a medicine for that. Maybe, but if so, then I have never heard of it! Good luck anyways! Love ya -Mandee

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