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Hey well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half this month and I love him with my life and we have talked about having sex and I do think about the consequences, but i mean i feel like I'm mature enough and emotionaly ready to have sex we have talked it over more than once and we would like to try it out. The thing is, is that I'm only 14, but dont you think if i feel that I'm ready and so does he then there would be no problem I know it sounds young but wat do you think? i know its going to hurt but I dont even want to have sex with him.....I want to make love to him. I love him so much and even if anything were to happen between us then i wouldnt regret it because i got to share something so special with some one i truly love and I'm inlove with... so Do you think I'm to young? and i mean its not like you could prevent me from doing it but i just want your opinion so i can think it all through a couple more times. I appreciate the advice you have given to me before about different topics and im sure you will give me more good advice on this one! thanx♥
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First, let me appologize for the long, long wait. I am very sorry for that! My laptop has been broke lately, which is why I couldn't respond to you earlier.
I am so happy that you want my opinion on this! This is a serious issue, and I promise to give my honest opinion. I don't think having sex is based on age, but rather the maturity level of the people thiking about it. If you honestly believe that you are ready for sex and are aware of the risks that come with it, I think you should be entitled to have sex. Fourteen is young, but as I stated before, if you are a very matured for your age and know what you're doing, why not? You're young, and you seem very mature. You'll be experinced fo future years, and if something did happen after having sex, you will learn from it. Just like you'd learn from any other mistakes you made. I could kill myself for telling this about me over the internet since it's very personal, but I had sex when I was thriteen years old. I was ready for it even though I was still learning about life in general. It was with a guy I really liked, and I felt that I shouldn't do it to make him happy, but just do it so that I experince it. It felt really painful for me the first time, but it was enjoyable. And I don't regret it to this day. But not everything was all peachy, because he broke up with me about, well, a couple weeks after. I was kind of ashamed though. Because I would tell everyone I was a virgin even thouh I wasn't. Just because people expect that you'd be sleezy if you weren't a virgin and I didn't want people to think that of me. But it's better just to tell them because then you aren't hiding anything. But yeah, if you know that you are ready, then I think you're prepared enough for it. But make sure that you know you are ready! But be careful hunnie!!!
Thanks for such a great question!!! Sorry again, I really am!
Love,
Mandee
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