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Ok, please help me. Well me and this guy, he's 13 and im 14, met online from Xanga. We have alot in common and he seems really kind. We never spoke or seen eachother in real life. I think I like him, but im not sure if he likes me, and were friends (I think) thus I don't know what to do. And then I am afraid if I say anything, I'll scare him away, but if I don't do anything I don't know what would happen. Please help me? '~The Suicidal Blade Baby~'
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You're right that nothing would happen if you didn't say anything. So, why don't you talk more to him on AIM or e-mail if that makes you more comfortable? As long as you talk to him in some way you'll get more answers. You don't know if you're friends with him or if he likes you so I think you should keep talking to him and find out. You don't even have to ask. As time goes by you'll know whether or not you're his friend. I don't think you would scare him away, just make sure that he knows that you're not a stalker. And bring it up when you're ready to, hun. Get to know him better, and through conversations you'll be able to tell if he likes you.
If you're tired of talking to him by the computer and want to talk to him in person just be careful. Hopefully he isn't a stalker and you know it. (lol) Because, it happened to me before. Anyways, if he likes you, he likes you for your personality so act yourself. Think of it as calling another one of your friends. Only call when you feel secure about it. If you're nervous try and calm down. It would be just like calling anyone else. If time goes by and you've been calling and he's been calling maybe you can see each other. But really, really think about that idea. If you trust him, go for it. If you're having some thoughts, don't meet him yet. Just do what you want to do when you're ready. I hope things work out!! :D If you need more info, I'm always around.
Love,
Mandee
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