hi i am nearly 14 and i am only a 30AA/30AAA why are they so small it is so embarissin all my friends are c cup and i have grown loadz and started my period please answer it
hey.
i was the same was as you. i'm 14
and when i was 13, i was completely
flat. i mean you can get a ball and roll it down my front side and it would go straight down.
but it all depends on how you develop. i'm
14 and i'm a 34B. so give it time, you
never know, maybe a month from now they'll
start growing. it also has to do with
whether you're involved in sports, because
it slows that process down. drink lots
of milk and eat healthy. hope this helps! ♥
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Has anyone ever used nair or any products that do the same thing?
Does it actually work?
And is it bad to use it like once or twice over the summer like for the beach?
Which brand is the best?
i used nair last year in 7th grade, and boy do i regret it! first of all, it smells horrible, and second of all when i put it on my legs, after 2 minutes i wiped it off like it says. my legs burnt like HELL and they were ALL RED and bumpy. not a pretty sight. i had the same experience with veet too. if you have sensitive skin i DO NOT suggest you trying these, but go right ahead if you want to. however, it did take off all of the leg hair =] i suggest sticking to shaving or waxing, waxing lasts longer and is super effective. i think nair makes waxing strips, and you can buy them at any drugstore or just at walmart or target. hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa =]♥
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whenever i where like.. tight shirts or sweaters i always tend to sweat
i know its normal but its embarrassing
is there any deorderant (sp?) that is good to prevent it
especially with summer almost here
i dont want to rely on sweatshirts and big tshirts the rest of my life...
yeah i had the same problem as you when i was in 7th grade, it was so embarassing, not to mention it was ruining my shirts by leaving sweat marks on them. there is this new deodorant by Secret called Secret Clinical Strength, the first day i tried it i noticed a BIG difference. it's prescription strength and you can buy it at any drugstore or at walmart or target. it's 9 dollars but it's totally worth it.
http://www.secret.com/ClinicalStrength.do
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Ok I have a flat stomache but whne I eat liek breakfast or a meal my stomache is big like a chubby or fat kid's.
Well my grad is coming up and I'm wondering if I should eat after the grad or eat before it anyway.
Should I wear a tight dress or a loose one for my tummy then?
The day of your graduation, like a few hours before, eat a small snack such as pretzels and water, or carrots and water, or yougurt, etc. That won't make your stomach big, so you can wear a dress without worrying about it.
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I'd like to start using a menstrual cup but don't know the differences among brands. Any recommendations? or are they all pretty much the same?
there's something called the Diva Cup, i heard that they work really well but i never tried it. hope i helped and good luck!
xo melissa
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15/f. it seems like i ALWAYS discharge. like everyday, not just right before or after my period. and sometimes its soo bad that it leaks through. and its getting really expensive to wear a pantyliner EVERYDAY.
so is this normal? does anybody else have this problem? and what can i do to stop it?
thanks!
this is COMPLETELY normal. maybe you should get some regular pads for your discharge, since pantiliners don't work that well. check at Big Lots if you have one of those near you, they have really good deals on pads! A pack of Always pads are probably 2.50 for like 36 pads. good luck with it and hope i helped!
xo melissa
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Someone had asked a question about acne probs here, and one of the advices said something about crushing aspirin and adding lemon juice to it and dabbing it to the affected areas on the face.
How many aspirin thingies and how much lemon juice are we talking about here?...
Thanks!
one asprin and a little lemon juice (there's really no measurement) and just crush it up until it makes a paste. it really works when i tried it, but i used water and it works just as well. good luck with it and hope i helped!
xo melissa
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hello. well, what are some really good tasting foods that are healthy? i know fruits and vegies and stuff, but some snacks. like those 100 claorie packs, those sorta snacks. cause i'm trying to loose weight, but i dont' know any healty foods. thanks!
Yoplait Light yougurt is really delicious, and it's only 100 calories! it's proven to help you lose weight, and i'm actually eating one right now haha! also, water is your BEST FRIEND for losing weight. also, excercising helps too. hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa
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My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period.
EDIT- definitely! tennis shoes are the best for hiding pads, you don't wanna hide your pad in your shoe if you're wearing flip flops haha.
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if you can, bring a purse with you, or just put the pad in your pocket, glasses case, shoe, etc. good luck with it and hope i helped!
xo melissa
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P.S. good luck on your test LOL!
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my lips are ALWAYS chapped and peeling and even below my lips the skin is dry. i put carmex and other chap sticks on all the time but nothing seems to work. is there any thing i can do?
VASALINE. amazing stuff.
i think it comes in a little tube,
and it comes in a plastic box too.
at night, apply vasaline and your
lips will be great the next day!
also keep that little tube with
you. it should work! hope i helped
and good luck with it!
xo melissa
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Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know when I will get my period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. I feel so left out because all my friends have had there period and I have heard that your breasts get bigger when you get your period. WHAT ARE OTHER SIGNS OF WHEN I WILL GET MY PERIOD BESIDES THE BASIC ONES! I am so insecure at this stage of my life and I do not know what to do!! HELP! Thanks
omg you really DO NOT want your period, you miss out on so much. ENJOY YOUR LIFE WHILE YOU CAN! but signs are:
breasts hurting
discharge
mood swings
pubic hair
more hair on legs, armpits, etc.
you're only 13, you have plenty of time. some girls don't get it until they're 16! until then, enjoy your period-free life, LOL.
here's a really good website:
www.beinggirl.com
hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa
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sorry if this is long but i really need advice ok i live with my dad, and i need to get bras, i need/want a cupped bra, but
1. i don't know wat size i am and i dont know how to figure it out.
2. and i dont know which 1 would be right for me
i would like to have 1 regular sports bra, 1 regular cupped bra, and 1 sports bra that is sorta cupped. how many bras do you think i should need? how do i get those bras with my dad?
as much advice as possible plz help me!! but i can only go to walmart and target. i also won't ask someone who works there!
thx
just as that person said below, that's how you measure your breasts. for the dad part, ask him to drop you and a friend off at walmart to look for "swim suits" (or say anything-- like school supplies, clothes, shoes, etc.) walmart actually has really good bras! i was at walmart with my little cousin (she's 11) and she was getting her first bras there. they had bras for as low as $2! look around with your friend and try some bras on. make sure they feel comfortable and not too tight, make sure the bra isn't pinching into your back and it's not riding up. choose bras in skin tone colors so they don't show through your shirt. a skin-tone color and a gray color are the best color choices to choose. avoid white because it shows through shirts. when you buy the bras, make sure to buy something else too (like a tshirt) so your dad thinks that you actually bought something, and stuff the bras in your purse so he doesn't see them in the bag. trust me-- i've had experience with this LOL! walmart has a wide variety of bras, including sports bras and cupped ones too. just look around and you should find everything you need! =) hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa
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im 12 years old and i didnt get my period yet im worried but u know all my family got it at 13 but im still worried and i cant stop getting scareed
help
hmm, why are you on here when you're only 12? don't come back until you're 13 you don't want to get in trouble LOL! kk well anyways, dont worry about it! if your family got it at 13, then chances are that you will get it at 13. some girls don't even start until there 16! just incase you start at school, always be prepared by keeping a pad in your purse and in your locker and also a pair of pants in your locker. even when you start, your flow isn't heavy at all! if you start at school without a pad or tampon just roll up some toilet paper and stick it in your underwear until you can get a pad from a friend or the school nurse. it's completely normal to be scared about starting but don't stress over it!
here's a really good website for you:
www.beinggirl.com
hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa
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Hey im a girl who is 16 years old. And i hang with a buch of preppy girl's. They are super nice but they have one prob. They smoke !! And now they want me to. I mean it seems real cool and stuff but i know its bad for you. so can you help ??? cuz i need it!!!
Love,
Under peer preasure
please, say no! not only is it illegal because your underage.. it will totally ruin your life, and if you have kids they will be mental or have some sort of health problem. if they are cool, it doesn't mean that smoking is! it's not cool AT ALL! please, you know the right thing to do. it will ruin your life ENTIRELY, did you learn that from the D.A.R.E program they had in 5th grade? good luck with it and i hope i helped!!!
xo melissa
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14/f
Ok well yesterday I got the courage to ask my mom if I could use tampons instead of pads, cuz well I play volleyball and so she said yeah i could, so we bought the Playtex Sport Tampons Regular.
Is that a good brand to start off with?
Well anyways, I think i got the main idea of how to put a tampon in... so correct me if i'm wrong
first you put the first part into the vagina, and then push in the second part inside of the first part, then take out the first/second part (they are inside of each other) and the string should be coming out of your body.
is that correct? tell me if thats wrong and how to do it.
Also another question is... (might be really stupid) Where do you put the tampon in?
like I know theres the butt hole where you poop, and then theres like a flab of skin where the pee comes out... but where do you put the tampon in?
like i can't bend down and see the hole, so how do i know if i'm putting the tampon in the right spot? I read the directions and they say i have to insert it 45 degrees angle, so how would it look like? Like would the back of the tampon be closer to your front? or back?
IDK i'm so confused... I had the courage to ask my mom if i could use tampons.. but I am REALLY uncomfortable to ask her how. and like ask her to show me.
plz help me!!!
thanks soo much!
Oh and how long are you supposed to keep tampons in maximum? 8 hours is ok??
all playtex tampons are definitely good to start out with, plus it's plastic which makes putting it in easier. and yup, your right about the insertion part. well you actually have 3 holes. your pee hole, vagina (where you put the tampon in) and your anus (butt hole, lol) here's a diagram on how your vagina looks like (don't worry its a drawing lol)
http://www.somazone.com.au/files/images/vulva.jpg
also the instructions included inside the tampon box should help too. and yes, 8 hours is the maximum. good luck with it and i hope i helped!
xo melissa
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my face is wicked shiny! yeah, mostly it's my forehead. and in pictures it looks so retarded. what can i put on my face to make it less shiny??
and yes, i already do wash my face.
i used to have the same exact problem as you. theres this stuff called Clean & Clear Morning burst, you wash your face with it in the morning and it controls shine all day! you can buy it online here: http://www.drugstore.com/qxp164351_333181_sespider/clean_and_clear/morning_burst_shine_control_facial_cleanser_with_bursting_beads.htm
or you can just to to any drugstore and buy it. hope i helped and good luck with it!
xo melissa (please rate!)
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how much does it hurt to break your hymen? i think i might have accidentally done it shaving down there because i saw blood and i felt a pinch but im scared i might have just cut myself
there's no way that you could of cut your hyem, unless you actually shave inside of your vagina lol! you just cut yourself, no big deal! put some unscented lotion or baby powder down there to soothe it. you can on only break your hyem by having sex, using tampons (sometimes) horseback riding, (sometimes) and gymnastics (sometimes). hope i helped!
xo melissa (please rate!) thanks!
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ohkay well i have a lot a discharge all day everyday. its gross. and its not because my peroid is coming soon. ive had this for over a year and a haf. its smells and i dont want to cover it up by wearing a pad. so what can i do to have less discharge?
you can't do anything to get less discharge. discharge is the way of your vagina cleansing itself and it's healthy. if it smells, then you might have a yeast infection, so check that out at the doctors. to cover up the smell and keep it from getting all over your underwear, wear a pantiliner which is like a pad but much smaller and thinner.
www.carefreeliners.com
www.always.com
^ go there to learn about their pantiliner products, they come in scented, unscented, and baby powder.
hope i helped! xo melissa (please rate) thx!
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ok, what are the worst possible risks you can get from sharing a drink from someone?? basically, this is stupid, but i drank from my friend's bottle at lunch, like seriously a .02 second sip. can i get anythingg at all from that? other then a cold or something.
thanks!!
if she was sick, then you can get mono. ohh you dont want mono, trust me. but it takes 4-6 weeks for the symtoms to show up. go to www.kidshealth.com/teen and type in mono and you will learn more about it. hope i helped!
xo melissa (please rate) thx!
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im sick
and i have like blisters at the top of my mouth
idk how they got there
any ideas how to make them go away
Blistex and Carmex (Yellow Tube) work really well, and the blisters will disappear in no time. hope i helped! (please rate) thx! xo melissa
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