How do I prove to my girlfriend that I like her more? Everytime I say I do, she says "Prove it." So i'm out to find a way tp prove it.
I asked my boyfriend this, and he said:
well one thing, jsut think of sweet things, bringing her a flower every once in a while, making her a little trinkit to keep. when big celebrations come up, think of something each time that will blow her mind away. Like a certian anniversary or christmas or something, invite her over, cook her a beautiful candle lit dinner with rose petals, or set it up so your house seems different than every other time
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My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.
Most likely, the ignoring eachother nonsense got to him. It's been awhile since the breakup, you've both gotten over it, and he probably wants to start fresh. Most of all, he's being really mature about it. You should start talking to him more, and maybe he'll uncover that he has feelings for you again. Who knows?
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15/sophmore/female.
I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.
My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.
did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.
What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?
any advice is welcome.
if you need more info, just ask for it. thank you.
-Kelsey-
I'd say your boyfriend is really afraid of losing you. It's a guy thing, I know because my boyfriend is the same way. You definitley didnt do anything wrong, unless you said it cocky. I know its a girl's nature to make a guy jealous to test them, haha. But I'm not saying you are. If he's really truly upset, I think you should go out and buy him a Hallmark card that expresses how you feel, and then write a little note. I hope he's not being immature about it and holding a grudge. There's only so much you can do to apologize. He might have a selfesteem issue and his feelings might be hurt easily. Instead of being mad, look at it as he feels competition with the 20-year-old guy. Make sure you reassure him that he's the only one for you! Good luck
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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!
if you're afraid to dance in front of people, youre not alone. but it's better to dance and look like an idiot, rather than stand in a corner and look scared. The best thing to do is when youre hanging out with a bunch of your girlfriends(I dont know if youre a guy or girl sorry) but when youre over someones house, just play some dance music and just dance so you can see how they move and try to learn from them. OR if you have a best friend who you trust, ask them to teach you. Also, you can learn alot from dance videos, so on your own time you can copy what they do. Good luck :)
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I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :)
I agree with you completely. I feel the same exact way with my boyfriend. I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 10 months, I would never leave him for another guy, I would do anything for him, and vice versa, but we've decided to be chaste, not only for the religious reasons, but also because if you start having sex early in a relationship, it can change things. If you get emotionally attached, and God forbid, one of you are unfaithful, think about how heartbreaking that could be. Also, if you have sex, it can get old/boring, and I dont want to sound weird, but your marital sex life can be, well, boring. Its good that you'd use condoms/birth control because that shows you have sense unlike most teenagers. If you are SURE you can handle the consequences, then I guess you're okay. The only thing I have a problem with is that you assume that God will forgive you. That means that you are PLANNING to sin, which is the definition of a mortal sin, so how could you be sorry and rely on God's forgiveness, especially if you're doing it purposefully. Remember that sex is a promise and a bond. I'd love more than anything to share that with my boyfriend, but I'm not sure if I can handle it yet. Believe me, I know how it feels, I'm just dying to make love to my boyfriend, but we have the REST OF OUR LIVES to do that. Why rush? Think long and hard about your decision. If you'd like to talk more about this, IM me, my screen name is on my page. I hope I didnt offend you or anything. Good luck :)
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Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month and a half, and I really have fallen in love with her. She says she has too and I believe her. Now shes says though that she wants to take like a break for maybe about a week. Now during this break were suppose to be pretty much still going out, but with like no strings attached. She wants to make sure that if given the chance we wouldn't do anything with someone else or we could and see if we still felt the same way about each other. I understand why she wants to do this becuase we've both been done wrong by other gfs/bfs. She just wants to make sure the relationship lasts before diving in head first. I agreed to do this, but still want other people's opinions.
John
Age:16
Gender:male
I'd be careful with that. Taking breaks could only make you fall apart even worse or it could be an excuse to do something stupid. I suggest that if you really love her, dont let her slip away. If you need a break for whatever reason, thats good because at least you are being mature about it and trying to work through things. But remember, taking breaks could make you grow apart. Good luck with this!
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There's this guy from work, and I'm pretty sure he likes me and/or is somewhat attracted to me... we're going to go and see The Corpse Bride about two weeks from now.. and he kissed me.. I just want to know how I can make this not just a 'friends with benefits' type of thing. How do I get him to officially ask me out, or tell me his feelings for me (whatever the heck they are..)?
15/f. (He's 16.. if that matters..)
That's tough. You need to know what he's thinking first. Find out if he likes any other girls, is dating other girls, or kisses other girls while being with you. If you are the only guy he's seeing, then more likely than not, he will want a real relationship and none of the friends with benefits nonsense. I know that from experience and seeing it all the time. You should talk to him to see how he feels about you two if it seems like he's not going to any time soon. If thats too hard, get a friend or someone to ask him what he thinks. And if its too hard to say it in person, do it online, at least you'll know the truth. Good luck with that!
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14/f
I have a very good friend lets call "steve" and i have liked more than a friend for a while now..he's 18 and i'm 14 and i really really wanna take this friendship to another level..we both flirt with each other and we've kissed each other before to..but the thing is..is that he has a girlfriend and i don't know what should i do..should i tell him how i feel or just leave it be?
Well if he has a girlfriend, and he likes you, you might as well tell him. Maybe he will end his relationship with his girlfriend, especially if he has cheated on her with you. If you kiss and flirt, it's probably a sign that he likes you. I think next time you are hanging out one-on-one, you should tell him your feelings about taking it to the next level. Just start out by saying "I really like you..." etc. It won't be hard or weird because you two obviously already have a friends with benefits relationship. Good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months. He lives a town away from me, but we still barely ever see each other, and for some reason he barely calls anymore. What do i do to make myself feel better about the relationship?
Its best if you can get a ride to his house to have a serious talk with him about why he hasn't been calling and why you havent been hanging out. If not, call him. When you go and talk to him, be straight with him, and ask everything that's on your mind. A relationship works both ways so you have to give a little to get a little.
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Sep. 11th, wil be my bf's and my one year anneversary and i want to make it really special, but i have no ideas about what to do. Im going to be 16 before that time, but i dont know if i will have my license yet or not, anyways, i dont want to have sex, and nothing sexual, but i do want to make it romantic and something will that will we will remember forever, we live in saint louis, MO please i realy need some sweet ideas, thanks in advance, i rate high!!
I don't think you should do an ordinary date like the movies. What my boyfriend and I did was go to a really nice restaraunt, I mean REALLY nice, like dress up. Then we went to the park with a blanket and looked up at the stars.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years..we have been recently getting in arguments about stupid stuff really..but he said hes starting to think that i dont care about him.. i really do care about him alot..How do i prove to him that i havent lost my love for him?
Whenever you two begin to argue, just stop and say, "What's the point of arguing if we're going to make up anyway?" Learn to get over your difference of opinions, especially if it's over stupid stuff. There are lots of ways you can prove you care about him. Make him something hand-made and give it to him at a random time, not just an anniversary or holiday. Show up sporatically at his football/soccer/whatever practice to give him a present or something. Most of all, I suggest having a serious talk with eachother. Nothing is better than spilling out your guts, because it feels better once it's off your chest.
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Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her?
Tell her that you regret having sex. Or if you don't regret the sex, explain that you weren't doing it out of love; it just "happened." If you want to stay close friends with her (which I suggest, because you shouldn't just throw her out of your life) then say "I care about you as a friend, I just don't have those kinds of feelings for you and what happened the other night can stay between us, but just don't get the wrong idea." Either way, she's going to be crushed but hey. Just talk to her about it and keep your distance from her for awhile. She'll need time to cool off and get over it cause she's gonna think this is a tragic break up. Best of luck!
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My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.
Well maybe it's just him. Relationships aren't about calling eachother names. Maybe he doesn't want to. Married people can go through their whole life without calling eachother cute names. However if you feel that theres a communication gap, the best thing to do is have a serious conversation with him.
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There this guy that I like and he likes me too ( we might be going out soon.. he told me he wanted to ask me an important question after I came back from vacation ) and it's just kinda been bothering me in my mind like ( cause I'm kinda preppy/girly )," What are we gonna do whenever we hang out together out in like public like the mall? He'll want to go into Hot Topic and stuff and I'll want to go into Hollister and Abercrombie..." and I feel very outta place around his friends and stuff cause they're all in black and skater clothes and I'm sitting there all in like Hollister shirts and stuff. I really want to go out with him, that's just been nagging in the back of my head for awhile now. And it's just whenever I hang out with him I have SO much fun and if we do have some stuff in common like I do like alotta punk bands and stuff and etc., I just hate how everyone out there will freak out basically ( at least at my school ) if punks are dating punks/goths or preps aren't dating jocks and preps and stuff, I mean why can't people just let people date people? =/ Please help!!
Love,
Labeled Love =/
People usually don't care as much as you think. Don't let people get in the way of what you really want. Opposites attract and most people allow that. When you go to the mall, negotiate. Offer to go into Hot Topic if he'll go into Hollister. I'm kinda preppy/cheerleader and my boyfriend is kinda video games/nerd and everyone accepts us because we're different! Give it a chance
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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :(
If everyone's trying to break you up, then you can't really believe what theyre telling you if theyre trying to break you two up. You need to sit down with your boyfriend and talk about it, or call him on the phone or something. Communication is important in this case and you'll never really know if you just let it pass.
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i met this AWSOME guy at the mall. i hav his sn and he has mine, but i cant get the courage to say hey to him. i thought i would just wait until he talked to me, but he hasnt yet and its been about 5 days. wat should i do? should i talk to him? wat should i say?
YES! talk to him! of course the guy usually should make the first move, but he might be feeling the same exact way you are. Or maybe he doens't he typed in your screen name wrong and doesn't see you online. Just say "hey its ______ from the mall, whats up?" Just be friendly, dont give the impression that you want to be more than friends or anything!
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i have a boyfriend and i feel like he is loosing his feelings for me and i want to gain it back what can i do
Boricuachik
If he's losing feelings for you, then something exciting needs to happen. He's probably bored of the usual dates, talking on the phone, hanging out, etc. Offer to do something exciting, like a really nice out-of-the-ordinary place to hang out. Go mini golfing, ice skating, etc. Or simply talk to him about it and ask how he feels. He may just be upset about something and not want to talk to anyone. Communication is the key!
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Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw.
"I don't want a boyfriend during the summer" is an excuse. Either she can't tell you to your face that she doesn't want to go out with you, or she's chicken and afraid to. You've got it made, basically, since she willingly has long conversations with you. I can't really explain this because I don't know enough about the relationship, only that you 'hung out on the 4th and talk on the phone til 3am' but basically I think you should take a chance... you have nothing to lose.
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why do guys just look at your body and not your personality! i mean i know looks matter but still! why? im curious!
It's not that guys are sick pigs. It's just their brain and their horormones that cause the guy to first notice a girl's body.
Girls look at "hot guys" too!
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What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship?
Hmm, I don't think they should start a relationship because of the age difference if they ever had sex it would be rape. Telling her parents would be really hard and they more than likely would not approve. It's okay to have a casual relationship, and just kissing, but it should not go further than that.
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