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long distance(barely)
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months. He lives a town away from me, but we still barely ever see each other, and for some reason he barely calls anymore. What do i do to make myself feel better about the relationship?
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You need to talk to him. It LOOKS like he doesn't really want to be in the relationship anymore, and if he can't tell you that then you need to find someone better.
♥ Melissa
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HEY ! YA. THATS WHAT HAPPENs WHENN Y0U HAVE A L0NG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ( WELL S0RTA L0NG DISTANCE) Y0U SHOULD TRY CALLING HIM OR SENDING HIM AN E MAIL. IF yA KEEP WONDERING & BEING SAD Y0U GUYS WILL DRIFT APART ! I THINK Y0U TWO SHOULD MEET UP SOMEWHERE & GO ON A DATE 0R SOMETHING SO Y0U COULD CATCH UP ! GOOD LUCK! XOXO Lauren
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Well i think you should call him and talk things threw and ask him why he hasnt called lately!! Maybe you should some how go down there and visit him!! Im sure he would like that!! Well i hope i helped you out!! *~*MUAH*~*
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Its best if you can get a ride to his house to have a serious talk with him about why he hasn't been calling and why you havent been hanging out. If not, call him. When you go and talk to him, be straight with him, and ask everything that's on your mind. A relationship works both ways so you have to give a little to get a little.
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Well try spending time with what he likes to do weather its sports or a hobbie but if you feel like this relationship doesn't seem to work then break it off and move on its gonna be hard and gonna take some time but if its for the best I thik you should. Good Luck.
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You haven't said what you are doing about this. Are you trying to see him, call him, email him or anything at all? Doesn't sounds like much of a relationship to me, unless both of your are willing to put in the effort to make it work.
You aren't getting what you want from this. If you want to make yourself feel better about this relationship I'd suggest not being in it anymore.
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Why don't you start calling him? Start making plans with him; meet halfway and go to the movies or out to dinner. You're only a town away from him. Don't just leave it up to him to make the relationship work out.
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Talk to him on email, or call him or something. If it's not working out and you both arent happy with your relationship, especially long distance, then you may have to end it. The only way i think you can feel better is if you talk to him more. And sometimes that means you have to be the one to call. Long distance relationships will always be tough. You just have to learn to move on, because it might never work. Especially since you guys never see eachother, maybe its best you just let him go. There isnt much else you can do, except try to plan a visit with him sometime.
♥ nicole
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To me it seems he's not interested in you anymore. If you only live a town away then you can still see each other a lot. My brother and his girlfriend lived a state away. And they always got to see each other almost four days a week. If he's not calling you then thats another sign that he's not interested. I mean, how hard is it to pick up a phone and call someone?
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Try calling him once and a while.. and just think about the good in your relationship and not that you live away from each other or he doesn't call! maybe he's not calling cause he's busy or he really just hasn't gotten the time! so just see how things go for both of you.. and i'm sure that sometime soon your going to get a suprise call from him!!
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