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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥

advice

how can you ask your boyfriend for money without him thinking you are a golddigger?

Well, just tell him what it is you need the money for and don't do it very often. I mean like, don't just ask him for money and then go spend it on clothes or something like that.. use his money for useful things, like something you really need. :)

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Is it uncommon for a 13-year-old girl to want love?

No, it's not. There's a lot of girls out there that want love that are your age as well as people younger and older than you. Don't try to find love though, it will come to you ♥

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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

Well personally, I don't think you should say it unless you mean it. But, I don't think 13 is too young to fall in love at all.. there's no set age as to when you can fall in love, it just happens.. and is something you feel within your heart. So you could be in love (dont tell yourself you cant) and then of course you can say I love you :) Even if you like your boyfriend A LOT & care about him more than anything in this world but you think you are to young to be in love with him.. you're wrong. More than likely if you feel those things then you are in love with him :)

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Okay, 15/f him 16. This guy and me like always hang out in this one spot between classes. And like sometimes we hold hands and crap. And i said i didn't wanna go out with him, and he got all hurt. but then today he was sitting on the ground n he like tried 2 pull me into his lap but i jsut sat next to him n held his hand. n he was like i looove you. n i was jk n like u better. (cause i dont wanna say it if i dont mean it) and like so when we had to go we hugged and crap n i had given him a note saying i really liked him but i didnt kno what he wanted n he should wait 4 me or like write me back. so today i looked for him n it didnt look like he was there. so wtf? like did i just not see him? or what is with him???

Don't freak out. Calm down. He probably just didn't come to school today or either he had to stay in the class he had before to talk with the teacher or finish up an assignment. I'm sure there was a reason.. because he wouldn't have been able to avoid you like the whole day, so don't think that. Just ask him tomorrow what happened, ok? :)

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so I am "seeing" this guy right now. I feel really comfterbal with him. I could lay with him for hours! I have had a tendancy to be a prude in the past and all though I havent done anythign with this guy yet I feel like I could just let go and be comfterbal with him. He even admitted to me he has a past with being called a pimp so when he is "with" someone people think its weird. But we are "seeing" eachother.. I was just wondering if you think this is safe for me emotionaly? I mean so far all he has been is great. He has made me feel so comfterbal and I have really fallin for him. What do You think i should do?

Well, if you aren't actually together as like a couple, then doing things with him would be considered like a friends with benefits relationship. That definately wouldn't be safe for you emotionally. Although, if you are sort of dating around and thinking about coming an actual couple, then sure it's fine to do things with him. But only do things when YOU want too & you know you won't regreat it or whatnot. Don't do something just because he wants you too.. or because you feel like you're being prude. :)

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Okay.. I really like this guy, but he is the most popular guy in our grade! I know I have not much of a chance with him. A school dance is coming up this Friday Night, and I want to dance with him so bad, but I am too afraid to ask. My friends say they'll help me, but I know I'll just chicken out!! What should I do?

You don't know that you don't have a chance with him. Everyone has a chance with at least everyone :) So if you're too afraid to ask him yourself ((which would be better if you did)) then just get your friends to do it for you. And, if he says yes- then yay you'll have a date. But if he says no- don't stress over it, you can just go with your friends. :)

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ok so like I started going out with this really ho t guy but I don't know how to start a conversation with him or talk to him! Does anybody know wut I can say to him?

Just talk about what happened that day, sports, movies you like, music you like, ask him questions to find out things about him. It'll come much easier the more you talk to him.. so don't stress over it. :)

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ok im sry this is so long but i need this advice please read

ok so theres this guy that i went out with this summer and we broke up. i still really really like him and i talk to him still and were fwb(friends wiht benefits)and everything and he tells me how much he really really likes me and im all he thinks about and he says he wants to be wiht me but his sports, work, and school get in the way for him to have a girlfriend. and he doesnt want to hurt me again well the past week or so he hasnt really called and when i call him he is always hey can i call you back and he never does and ya i dont know if he still likes me or what but i dont know if i should wait for him or i should move on!!

please let me know soon i have wanted to know for awhile

Well, personally I think that he's just using you. Even though he says he likes you a whole bunch & he's always busy.. he COULD make an effort to see you or call you every now and then. It's like he just keeps telling you he likes you so he can get things from you. That's the bad part of being in a FWB relationship.. the girl always ends up getting hurt because the guy only wants things but the girl ends up liking the guy. I suggest that you just move on because he's not worth your time & I know that you can find a guy that wants you for something more than your body or sexual pleasure.. that would actually care for you. Those guys are out there somewhere :) BUT, on the other hand.. if THIS is really the kind of relationship you want with him, then you could wait around or him.. but just to warn you- you might end up getting hurt worse in the end. Good luck though hun! ♥

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Well christmas is coming up and i think i know what im doing for my Girlfriend, if you have read my past questions, i'm doing this thing, i get a vase with 11 roses in it, and one glass rose in it. And a card on it that says "when the last rose dies is when i will stop loving you" Hence... a glass rose wont die. Then besides that im gonna do one of those build-a-bear things.. and a silver neckless. Sound good? anyone know a good place to get a silver neckless? like a heart emblem of what ever?

Aw, that sounds really sweet. Sort of reminds me of my own boyfriend :) That's a very good idea, though. Well, there are a lot of places where you can buy a silver necklace.. it really just depends on your budget. You can buy them at walmart, target, jcpennys, tiffanys, and any other jewerly store! I'd recommend getting her a silver heart necklace with like both of your intials on it & maybe the date you two started going out, that would be more sweet :) Either way- she'll love it. ♥

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ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary

No, it's not scary at all. It's actually very exciting :) It's okay to be nervous your first time though, everyone is. But relax & don't worry- it'll be great no matter what. Have fun! ♥

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i don't really know what i'm asking specifically..i just need general advice. i just started dating my current boyfriend. it's been a little over two weeks. i'm just wondering..for all of you with boyfriends..how long did you wait before you kissed him and how long have you been together so far..and for those who don't..how long did you wait before you kissed your last boyfriend..and how long were you together? i just don't know how long i want to wait. don't tell me to wait until i'm ready or want to..because i am going to do that. its just my ex left me with some trust issues..though i do trust my boyfriend..and i don't want a redo of my last relationship..which was way too physical. so your input will just help me a ton.

thank you so much.

Well I started going out with my boyfriend before we had our actual "First Date" and so I kissed him on our first date.. we had probably been going out like a week or two. So far, we've been together ALMOST 7 months! :D I'm not sure if there is anything else you wanna know.. but if there is don't be afraid to drop a message in my inbox. Good luck with him hun! ♥

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how do you give a handjob?

We aren't really suppose to answer these kinds of questions on here, Sorry! But, if you'd like.. you can IM me sometime. You can also search Google & I'm sure that you will find many websites that will be helpful to you. Sorry =/
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any cute or amazing pet names you've heard?
im so uncreative and me and my boyfriend are gonna give each other little nicknames,

Aw, cute. Well me and my boyfriend stick to the basic pet names: baby, sweetie, sweetheart. There's a lot of other cute names though like hunny, cutie pie, sweetie pie, cupcake, etc. Just do whatever sounds best for the two of you!! Some guys don't like certain names because they think it's too "mushy" or whatnot. ♥

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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s

thanks for helping
kriddle06 :)

You should just wait for the weekend to come. If you sneak out- you have the chance of getting caught before you ever even see him & then you may get grounded and not be able to actually see him for a while. You can wait, girl. The weekend isn't that far away =]
Have fun with him though! ♥

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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

The only advice I have for you is: JUST BE YOURSELF. =]
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Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months???

Noo! Age doesn't matter at all, it's just a number. Plus, your ages are REALLY close. ♥

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Ok so my friend asked this guys out for me that I really didn't know. He said "Well I really don't know her so not right now". So is he thinking 'No I won't go out with her or was he thinking what he sayed to her? Plz help! I really like this guy!

What he said is exactly what he means. Usually guys wanna get to know a girl a little better before actually going out with them. So maybe you should hang out with him some more so he can get to know you, then he might go out with you. ♥

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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach?

Of course! It's perfectly normal. ♥

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Okay, so i have this boyfriend but he never calls or makes an effort to hang out with me. I dont know what to do because i like him alot. please help

He's obviously not that great of a boyfriend then. He should make an effort to call you or hang out with you every once in a while, I mean you are his girlfriend not just some random girl. Anyways, have you said something to him about this? If not, you need too. Just be like "I'm your girlfriend, but it sure doesn't seem like it because you never call me or hang out with me. I like you a lot but it seems like you don't have feelings for me anymore" You don't have to say exactly that, just say whatever you want. But you need to let him know that it's bothering you & he should do something about it. If he doesn't care & doesn't attempt to try and fix things, then he obviously isn't the right kind of guy for you. Even though you REALLY like him, there are tons of other guys out there that will treat you with some respect like you deserve unlike him. Good luck hun! ♥

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

I think that Axe smells better =]
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