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whats should i do?
ok im sry this is so long but i need this advice please read
ok so theres this guy that i went out with this summer and we broke up. i still really really like him and i talk to him still and were fwb(friends wiht benefits)and everything and he tells me how much he really really likes me and im all he thinks about and he says he wants to be wiht me but his sports, work, and school get in the way for him to have a girlfriend. and he doesnt want to hurt me again well the past week or so he hasnt really called and when i call him he is always hey can i call you back and he never does and ya i dont know if he still likes me or what but i dont know if i should wait for him or i should move on!!
please let me know soon i have wanted to know for awhile
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Well, personally I think that he's just using you. Even though he says he likes you a whole bunch & he's always busy.. he COULD make an effort to see you or call you every now and then. It's like he just keeps telling you he likes you so he can get things from you. That's the bad part of being in a FWB relationship.. the girl always ends up getting hurt because the guy only wants things but the girl ends up liking the guy. I suggest that you just move on because he's not worth your time & I know that you can find a guy that wants you for something more than your body or sexual pleasure.. that would actually care for you. Those guys are out there somewhere :) BUT, on the other hand.. if THIS is really the kind of relationship you want with him, then you could wait around or him.. but just to warn you- you might end up getting hurt worse in the end. Good luck though hun! ♥
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Ok heres the thing if he really cared about your feelings and about you, for one he wouldnt be using you becasuse bascially he is by knowing he can have sex with you whenever he wantsso he thinks without a commitment. All he is doing is making excuses not to be with you because he is scared or because he just isnt ready to be with anyone. you should definetly move on and find someone who is going to treat you how u wanna be treated. you dont deserve to be treated like that no one does and so you need to find someone that wants to be with you as much as you wanna be with them. goodluck sweety take care
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Ok hunni, here is the thing, if this guy TRULY liked you as much as he says that he does and ALWAYS thinks about you, then he would want to be with you NO MATTER WHAT! If he wanted to be with you, he would be back with you already! Don't keep wasting your time sweetie! Just, LET HIM CALL YOU! If it is meant to work out, it will. Don't try to push it any longer! He will more than likely call you someday once he realizes that you are not contacting him. See, by not giving you direct answers and not talking to you that much, he is keeping you on a string so that you WONT move on and you will still BE THERE. Don't give him that! Make him work for it if he wants you back and prove himself by making him call you. It will be worth it in the end hun. I promise! Besides, if you starts calling you all the time, you will have NO DOUBT that he is interested and you will trust him more. Lol. It's a win-win situation babe! Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything! *Hugs*
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