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so I am "seeing" this guy right now. I feel really comfterbal with him. I could lay with him for hours! I have had a tendancy to be a prude in the past and all though I havent done anythign with this guy yet I feel like I could just let go and be comfterbal with him. He even admitted to me he has a past with being called a pimp so when he is "with" someone people think its weird. But we are "seeing" eachother.. I was just wondering if you think this is safe for me emotionaly? I mean so far all he has been is great. He has made me feel so comfterbal and I have really fallin for him. What do You think i should do?
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If you're just "seeing" each other in the sense that you're not exclusive, I wouldn't do anything with him. He got his reputation for a reason, & guys who live up to that reputation tend to be excellent sweet talkers-- they know what they want & exactly what they need to do & say to make you feel comfortable. Really, it's up to you whether or not you want to do anything with him. Don't think about it in the sense that you're comfortable now-- ask yourself if he ends up living up to his reputation & breaking your heart, if you'll regret doing anything with him. Until you're sure that no matter what, you won't regret it, watch what you do.
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well that's what all those playerish guys usually do. Lure you with honey, and then leave you bawling and emotionally messed up with no virginity. That's just the blunt way of saying it. But if he can admit to being a 'pimp' something isn't right. I know it's probably difficult, but just because you feel comfortable with him right now, doesn't mean the future isn't going to be painful.
Good luck && guard your heart, please, for your own sake.
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Well, if you aren't actually together as like a couple, then doing things with him would be considered like a friends with benefits relationship. That definately wouldn't be safe for you emotionally. Although, if you are sort of dating around and thinking about coming an actual couple, then sure it's fine to do things with him. But only do things when YOU want too & you know you won't regreat it or whatnot. Don't do something just because he wants you too.. or because you feel like you're being prude. :)
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