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well i like some one elese and well i think she really likes me but i dont wanna break her heart plese jeni help me (link)
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you really just need to be honest with this girl. Tell her exactly how it is that you feel. If your not honest with her then the true you will eventually show through to her.. and then she'll be even more hurt. At y'alls young age she will heal fairly quick and she will get over it. Don't always worry about hurting the girl, you have to be true to yourself. YOU HAVE TO BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. You were put on this earth to live your life for you not live your life for anyone else. Stay strong babe! I know that you can do it. Good luck and keep me in touch.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
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I wouldn't just yet. Wait til the time is perfectly right then tell them. With my boyfriend I didn't tell my parents we were even together until 9 months later and I was 15 and I was allowed to have a boyfriend. But they didn't approve of him that's why I waited soo long. Also after you tell them they might want you to break up with him (at least mine did), but stay strong and put your foot down and tell them no. They might threaten to ground you or anything but it's not worth it, tell them that's fine. That will also show thkem how much you care for him. Good luck with everything and keep me in touch. Come to me if you need moral support.
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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Some guys will make fun of you to get your attention so that you will notice him. If you notice him back they usually stop. Also as time goes one it will probably stop too. Or if your not intrested then tell him that and tell him it's because you think he's immature the way that he always picks on you. Good Luck with the guy.. keep me in touch!
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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all? (link)
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The best thing to do is tell her that your there for her always. And that she can talk to you about anything. Sit her down and talk to her, but don't ask specific questions. Give her lots of hugs and show her you really are there and she'll do the talking. Respond in the best most supportive way possible. There will probably be a lot of silence but just hug her and if she crys just hug her tighter and don't let go till she does. Trust me that really helps someone let things out. Good luck.
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On the last day of school a boy told me he liked me, well his friend did, the problem is this boy is very, very shy and i have never talked to him. I would like to get to know him but the next problem is that i am also very, very shy. Since both of us are very shy how do i get to know him better? (link)
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You should try your hardest just to be as brave as you can, and walk up to him and say 'Hey, your friend told me that you like me.' You know just confront him about the whole situation. You can rephrase it in any which that you would feel more comfortable saying. As long as you get that message across it should be fine. Then I bet, that after all of that's say and done, that he will respond to you. And it might be a little aquard at first, but trust me after a few little aquard silences y'all will start to feel more comfortable around each other. Trust me one this one.. you won't regret it, but you will if you don't say anything at all. Please keep me updated. Good luck!
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ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE (link)
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You should tell Greg that you've found someone else because obviously you don't have the same feelings for him that you do for Ricky. You should stay with Ricky and have fun with him and not really worry about Greg. And don't worry about if your a slut or not sex is a beautiful thing and you should do it when you feel you want to. keep me in touch.
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I really like the kid im going out with. He asked me out a little over a week ago but I had said no because Im so busy over the summer. Now, I regret saying yes this time because I have way too much going on. Im gonna be a freshman next year and Im on the high school cheerleading squad. It takes up a lot of my time and im also playing softball all summer. I go to the cape almost every weekend, and I need some time to myself, plus I have a lot of work to do before I go back to school. I dont know what to do because I wont ever see him and I feel so tied down because im always worried about finding time to be with him. Should I dump him? If so, how should I do it in a way to let him know that we're still going to be great friends like we have been? I'll rate high (link)
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I don't think that you should dump him. But i do think th you should treat him more like a friend and he'll realize that's what you want if you do that. It sounds to me like you've got a good head on your shoulders and you not makin guys your top priority. Stay that way. Also guys aren't like us girls, they don't have to be with us every second like we want to be with them. I personaly think that things will work out between you two just fine the way that things are. Keep me in touch and if you do decide that you want to dump him then drop one in my inbox and I'll give some more advice.
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hey all my friends have made out and i am just really shy around my boyfriend (when i have one) everytime he gets close i kinda just abck off because i am scared i have never made out andi dont kno how all my friend ever say is it just comes natural ! i am complety feeling left out ! some off my guy friend would be like hey if you wanna make out just tell me and like there for real they will be all who cares and stuff and one of my guy friend has done every thing but sex and i kinda like him and he said if you can make out wiff me just to say you have and my mom loves him and she thinks he is the sweetes biy ever but she doesnt kno anything he has done! and she would totally not aprove if she heard !
question A: give me tips on making out! thx!
B:should i go out wiff him or is he using me !
C:should i make out wiff him just to say i have! (link)
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Don't worry about what all your friends do. You be you. And don't be nervous around guys when it comes to making out. Your friends are right it really does come natural and there's really not a wrong way to do it.
A: You just start kissing and you use your tounge and move it around. Also suck on his tounge and his neck and ears.
B: I don't think that he's 'using you', but I wouldn't look for a relationship with him. He's probably just wanting to have fun and wants you to have fun with him. And if your looking for a non-serious, fun-good time relationship, then I would go for it. Because your younge and you have nothing to lose.
C: If you really want to make out with him then do it. I wouldn't go around saying that you have though. But just follow your inner desires. If you feel like making out with him then just do it and don't think twice about it.
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theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused! (link)
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Well it depends on who you like me. By my observations it seems that you obviouly like the girl you asked out or you wouldn't have asked her out. If she's the kind of girl that wants to wait and get to know you first then that means that she'll probably be an honest and true girlfriend. Just because if she wasn't then she wouldn't care if she knew you or not. I would wait on that girl because they do say that you have to wait for the best things in life. Your shouldn't just go out with some other girl just because the other girl doesn't want to be with you at the moment. Give it time and it will work out. Keep me in touch and PM if you want to talk about it more.
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Well thanks, I liked ur advice best of all. Well ill ask you next time keep in touch.
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Awww..thank you soo much. I'm always here for you and I'll try to help your every question the best that I can.
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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do (link)
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Well I always say that you should live a life of no regrets. So I think if you regret not doing it that night, then you should go up to her this weekend and tell her that. And ask her if she still feels like doing it. Drop one in my box and I'll talk to you more. Good luck..and I hope you get some!
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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help! (link)
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Absolutly not. Different people have different personalities and that means they like different qualities in guys. Next time if you feel a vibe between you and another guy, then embrace it. Don't think twice about it and follow your heart. It knows your desires and it's always right. Also she could of told you that because maybe she had a secret crush on him and didn't want you to like him. Next time your in that situation, then tell her how you feel and get her to to tell you how she feels and why she feels that way.
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ok well im 14 and ive been going out with my b/f 9 months today. during the school year id see him every day and we would allways talk alot so we rarely talked on the phone and when we did we talked form like 8 till 2 in the morning...he liked me for allmost a year before me and him started going out and everyone says how cute we are and everything, my birthday was recently and he gave this bear that when u scweze it it says i love you and we went out to dinner, i ran out of room in my year book this year so me and him decided we would write each other letters insted and the one he wrote me was soo cute i wanted to cry i could tell that it came from his heart after i read it i thought that this summer would be amazing but now that its summer it makes me soo sad b/c i never see him as much as im use to and im the one who useally calls him and i dont useally do it alot b/c i dont want to be the girl who allways calls boys or anyoingg idk what to do like when ever i talk to him and im with him he acts like he loves me but i dont know what to do it makes me soo sad
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Well guys are different than girls. Girls like to show their love by talking to him all the time and being with him all the time. Guys can still love a girl that wants that the same amount, but guys don't have the need that us girls do to talk all the time. A lot of times they'd rather be with their boys. And if he's not acting different then you honestly shouldn't have anything to worry about. You should tell him that you wish he would call you more..because he might not have a clue. Don't worry yourself about it. Give it time..and it will all work out.
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okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it (link)
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He honest with yourself and with her. You need to sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel. Be brave. If you doesn't want to be with you after that then she's not the one for you, and she's not at all worth your time. She needs to respect the fact that you want to save yourself and your not really for all of that right now.
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okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
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Give yourself some quiet time to truely think about it and if you still feel the same way, then you should make that first mopve by sitting him down and telling him exactly how you feel. Because by him knowing that you know that he likes you and you know saying anything about is probably making him think that he has a chance. He'll end up more hurt if you wait and don't say anything, so be brave girl! and tell him. Good luck.
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I was dating this guy for a couple of months, and everything was perfect. He was the first guy I could actually say I loved and cared about, and he loved me too. I was a freshman and he was a senior when we started dating. What's the problem you're wondering ... well he turned 18 and graduated at the end of May. His father is the real problem though. His father got a new job in another state, and moved a couple days after his 18th birthday and graduation.[he got to stay in his father's old house] This guy I was dating also stopped calling me [we talked every night!] the day his dad moved. His dad told him several times when we dating that he should be careful and it eventually got to where he told him to stop dating me because he thought we were having sex and doing things. We were never even close to having sex! Well its been almost a 1 1/2 months since we've talked. He never called to tell me he was breaking up with me, but I did find out that he told someone that his dad made him break up with me. I tryed contacting him several times for several weeks, but he never answered his phone or called me back. I need advice on what to do. Should I try to forget him and move on or what? It's driving me crazy not knowing anything. What do I do?
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Well he's 18 years old..so he knows that he's an adult and that he can make decisions on his on. Also if yall weren't having sex then what is he worried about? If you truely loved you then he would stick by your side no matter what. Stay strong and look for the strength within yourself for the time being. And I don't know him so maybe he does love, and if you does then he will call you sometime. So you need to give that time too. Never give up on guys. Also if he's not answering your calles or returning them maybe he needs times to think so give that a rest for a little while to. Trust me on this one.. what's meant to be will end up being.
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i don't understand how to kiss. i really nervous and scared but I really do want to.i'm 13 and a female i need advice on kissing (link)
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It's pretty easy after it starts. Do'nt be afraid to make the first move and when you do all you have to do is tilt your head to the side and stick your tongue in his mouth and start moving it around.
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