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ok im a huge germophob lol & i was wondering like could you get any type of diseases er anything from public bathrooms? i dont like using them but sometimes you juss have to, so does anyone know anything??

thanks!!!!!

me too! i cant stand it! even if its cleaner that a library or something i still think its nasty! squat over the toilet and dont touch the seat. thats all you can do. i read a thing in a magazine a while ago and theres this cup/funnel thing that you put under your area and you can pee like a guy. interesting i know.

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I just got my hair cut only an inch and now my dad is like " I dont think you have the right to get it cut!" Its really cute too but what do you think I should do?

does he have a problem with the amount of money? like wow you spent $30 getting as inch cut off sorta thing? you can go back and get more for your money or you can pay him if he payed for it or just kinda let it be. let me know if you need anything else!

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This may sound dumb, but what is humping? And what is a "sex drive"?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=humping
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sex+drive

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Okay, we have 8th grade prom comming up in about 8 months and my friend weighs about 230 pounds and she was to lose about 80 and that will leave her at 150. So, if you divide 80 into 8 that will be 10 pounds a month, So if i divide 5 into 10 that would be 2 pounds a week. Do you think my friend can lose 80 pounds in 8 months or so?????? We have already talked about her eating habits and exercising and drinking a lot of water.

14/f ( If that helps )

if shes not used to doing anything active at all, this will definatly do some good! keep her motivated and give her a realistic goal. way to be!

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can i please have a list on winter sports please. like options for me to play at my school..

7th grader, girl

xox

indoor soccer, volleyball, swimming, bowling, skating, hockey, cross country (depending on where you live i guess) or golf if they have it.

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i need a list of a LOT of rock bands. dont ask why.
over 5-6 is a five. rock bands, but not gay bands like simple plan and good charolette.

lynard skynard
led zepelin
3 doors down
HIM
MCR
fall out boy
nirvana
trapt
cake
crossfade
the used
the doors
linkin park
the eagles
metallica
green day

thats all i can think of....

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i need a way around the parental control on my computer. it's getting freaking anoying. ne advice would help, but if your gunna tell me "you dont need it off," dont bother replying. thanks alot.

it depends on where they acess it from. if it comes from windows...its impossible. if its from aol or earthlink, you click on the administrator login thing and see if you can get in or get a clue then go in. some are easier than they seem. i hope that helps...i know how frustrating it it!

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Okay .. Theres this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me a couple of months ago we made out and hooked up like a month later it happend again.. he was a major player but for some reason i think he actually likes me now hes got a girlfriend and she is sorta my friend he purposely kisses her in front of me and touches her and all that stuff. I dont know if he likes her or not but hes been going out with her for like 4 weeks and he hasnt cheated on her yet and thats not usual with him. i dont know if he like me or not what should i do?

hate to tell ya, but he used you. thats pretty much it and hes trying to make you jealous so you think you were "lucky" to have made out with him. he likes his gf...for now, sit and wait. dont mess up the relationship and dont have him cheat with you.

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How old do you think you should be for it to be okay for you to start dating? I need a lot of opionions !! all ages!! please in your answer put how old you are because i really need a lot of different point of views...
thanks soo much

xox

for more serious types, wait till high school...14 is good.

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does anyone know where to get the jordana eyeliner.. i've tried cvs but there isnt any there.. where can i find some?

i saw it at walgreens yesterday!

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I sing in church and at school and I have been working at the Haunted Graveyard, for thoes of you who dont know what that is, its like a haunted house where you scare people, anyways, It has made my throat sore and unable to sing, or get my voice back to how it normally is. Does anybody know how I could heal this and get it back to normal? last year it took almost a full year to get my voice back to normal. But if you people know anything I could use or do to get my voice back where i can sing and talk like i normally do It would be greatly appreciated! And i have already tried coughdrops, so anything else, unless you know of a cough drop that really works, but please tell me what brands and types of stuff you are talking about..THANKS!!!

you have to learn to "belt healthy". screaming is so bad for your vocal chords its not even funny!! as for singing, keep your sound int your mouth as opposed to your throat...it will save you a lot of sore throats. basically, avoiding yelling is the best thing but try room temp water, and a regular cough drop or gum.

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do guys suck each other at sleep overs as dares? my boyfriend did and i dont think its normal?

of all the guys i know, none of them would EVER do that. but i guess it really depends on the guy...

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if i could ask my boyfriend ANYTHING what should i ask him?

i used to do that with my ex ALL THE TIME. you find out so many things! here are some you can choose from: do you like anyone else? do you watch porn, if we could do anything, what would it be? what do you like best about me? anything you wanna say to me? have you ever been sexually confused? are you a virgin? how far have you gone and how far do you expect me to go? ...thats all i can think of for now.

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okay well i play volleyball and when i play i get sweaty.. but i put TONZ of deoderant(sp?) on but ik this sounds gayy,, but my boobs get sweaty and stink. hah ik grose. but is there any way i can prevent this??????? PLZ HELP. no smartass answers too. because if you do leave a smart ass answer you obviously have NO live :)

perfume could be bad when mixed with sweat...my skin would break out in a rash! your always gona stink if your a good player in anything. wear a top like underarmour or something that "breaths" and keeps you dry. shower oftern and you deoderant before and after. im assuming your a girl?...guys dont care, trust me. if i missed what you meant, let me know and ill give you a better example/advice and explain what i mean.

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Hey guys, i jsut want to knwo waht kind of dress are you supposed to wear to homecoming, im not sure, and its in 18 days so i need one soon, and, if you know any stores for plus size dresses, can you tell me plz? thanks guys!
♥

the best plus size dresses i've ever seen were at DEB. theyre made specifically for homecomming and theyre really pretty and inexpensive for the most part.

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ok well i run cross country and during the season i don't get my period. i don't get it because during the season i'm pushing my body really hard and i don't get it. well i know that i don't get it but i was wondering if an egg was still released or if it just stays in my ovaries. i think it might not get released but i'm not sure. this thing also happens to people who are annorexic. thanks in advance!

actually, its pretty bad if you lose your period due to over training. i read about it once and its really not good. no, the egg isnt released.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/

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ok this question is for girls only lol. i have my period & i can't use tampons..but i have swimming in gym class & my teacher is being a jerk about it, so i have to swim for the rest of the week. i'm not sure what to do exactly. my mom told me that your period stops & slows down in water, soo should i juss jump in fast? any ideas?

thanks!

well if its pretty light, it will stop in water. just keep a towel handy for when you jump out quickly. i would seriously try hard to get a tampon in tho. get one from the machine thinger in the locker room and if you really dont know what to do, have a friend you trust explain it to you. good luck!

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how long should a tampon be in ur body? like if i am at school from 7:00 to 3:10 which would be 9 hrs!!! du i need to change my tampon in skool...probably but i am not sure! pleese help i rate high!

oxo * oxo

ok to avoid a TSS, no longer than 8 hours. to avoid leaks, no more than 4. before school (like at 630) put in a tampon. go to the bathroom every so often and at about 11 change it again. basically you just have to do it once. but do carry at least one extra just incase it doesnt last or you put it in wrong and have to try again.

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im more of a sports girl and i was thinking about joining martal arts again(i had to stop when i moved). the problem is i dont use tampons. i am worried about getting a leak when i do kicks and stuf (i have to wear white). how should i keep this from happening? should i start to wear tampons?

well i've done martial arts and tremendous amounts of sports and the best thing to do is at least TRY to wear tampons. it will save you the agony! (i wouldnt even think of going to tae kwon do with a pad!) if you must tho, wear your undies and spandex underneath just in case. i know it sounds really weird but it will stop it from going through (at least temporarily...it helped for running, im sure it will work for this) and you can you have something after and no one should care. thats just an idea. or you can just not go on the days your heavy. goodluck!

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Okay, my 18th birthday is in...like, three weeks and I have no plans. I want to do SOMETHING with my friends. Unfortunately a bunch of my friends aren't 18, so that rules out going to a club or anything. My birthday's on a monday, which really sucks, but we could do something the weekend before, or on halloween weekend or something...anyway, I know that.
I'd like a few opinions and ideas as to what we could do. I refuse to let my 18th go by without celebrating. I did that with my 16th and I regret it quite a bit.
So, ideas? Also, please try to hold off on the chatspeak. I rate down if it takes me more than one attempt to read and understand the response. Punctuation marks are your friends. ^_^

Have them over and just hang out for a while. Or you can go to a park and play night tag or ghost in the graveyard like little kids. It may not sound like much but its one crazyyy night! (hope you love the punctuation)

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