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I'm a mother of 2 boys who are 13 months apart. Talk about a handful. I'm a wife to the best husband I could have ever dreamed of.I'm one of the very blessed.
I have Bipolar 1 Disorder. I hate taking all these medications and always going to doctors appointments, but life is too short to let mental illness get the better of me.
Often times life is a challenge, and nobody knows that better than me. I wake up wondering if this is going to be a day my illness overpowers my meds, and either sends me flying like a bat out of hell, or leaves me laying on the couch like a wet dish rag.
Thank all that is good in the world that I have an excellent support system at home.
I'm one of the lucky ones.
I'm honest, and that can either be a perk or s flaw. Depends on how you choose to look at it.
I like to see it as a perk, because it's better to hear the truth than to be told candy coated bullshit.
advice
i have a coldsore or a fever blister on my lip & its very infected. i've been putting blistex on it but it doesnt seem to help the pain. the sore is now like almost turing scabby but it's yellow. any home remedies to help the pain & the sore? thanks in advice! :)
Carmex works well. The kind in the little jars, not the kind in the tube.
my siblings and I have really gotten used to the stray kitten that is in front of our house.
my mom hates cats so she wants us to give it away
we rele dont want to give it away but we have to because once it gets rele cold it wont be able to live outside
wat is the best way to give away blinky (kitten's name)
to ensure that it is in a good home where it wont be abandoned again
by the way the kitten was abandoned in front of our house
Run it in the free ads in the Classified Ads of your local newspaper. I do believe that free ads don't cost, but you need to check to make sure.
Anyhow, since winter is a ways off, you have plenty of time for the "right person" to come along and give little Blinky a good home. :)
ygs-29/f
Hi. I am 21 years old and had my period once when I was 17 years old. can I get pegant? how do I know if I am ovulating?? and can I carry a baby
If you've only had your period once in all this time, something is not right.
Like everyone has said, you need to set yourself an appointment with an OB/GYN. Your reproductive system is their specialty.
ygs-29/f
this is what i look like::
http://a992.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/91/l_d3fa8db9d0b17fe07171d356d765b507.png
does anyone have any make up tips for me? lol i dont wear make up. also does anyone have advice on how i should get my hair cut? bangs or no? i kinda have a big nose so i want to draw attention away from that as well. thanks for reading :]
I think you should try bangs. If you don't like them, you can always pull them back until they grow back out. But you may decide you like them.
Use eyeliner to bring out your eyes. If you make your eyes your dominant facial feature, your nose won't be as noticeable. I have a very pronounced chin, so I make my lips more dominant with glosses and such. If that makes any sense?
I don't wear a lot of makeup, either, but I have pale green eyes, so I wear a light greenish eyeshadow, mascara on only the top lashes, and liner on only the top lid like the picture in the link below, but without the little wooptie, there... (Though there is liner on top and bottom in the picture. Only doing the top lid is my own preference.) But just those touches really bring out my eyes.
http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:jzO2F4dnrS4QbM:http://www.dreamstime.com/eyeliner-thumb220169
ygs-29/f
Me and my friend started "going out" like 2-3 weeks ago, and we have REALLY busy schedules... like he was in another state when we decided to "go out" and we've only been home @ the same time for about 5 days, and his mom got surgery, so when his sister isnt home, he has to take care of her. We are best friends, and i dont want to ruin that, but now he cant go anywhere until like ANOTHER week, and i think thats really getting to me. I just dont know if it's all worth it in the end, you know? Because i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i think this could actually be something. So what do i do? Stay with him and hope that we can actually go out sometime in the VERY NEAR future, or just forget it...... PLEASE RESPOND SOON!!!!
Well, is he worth the wait?
My husband and I seem to never get to really spend time with each other except for the weekends when he is off work.
He works 11pm-7am, when I'm sleeping, and sleeps all day when I'm up and around.
When he wakes up, I'm cooking supper, getting my son wound down for bed, and getting things lined up for my husband to go to work.
But the weekends are well worth the wait.
This is my everyday life. Yours is waiting another week. Is he worth the wait? I would say so, considering he is a very good guy to take care of his mom during her time of need.
What better kind of guy is there? ;)
ygs-29/f
I'm playing a boy in an upcoming play and I'm rather curvy. I'm 5'1" and my measurements are like 38-28-38
I can't just pile on extra-baggy clothes because I have a specific costume I have to wear.
Is there something I can wear underneath to straighten me out? Duct tape/ace bandages are a last resort because that's waaay uncomfortable and liable to come undone.
Well, Judy Garland had to have her chest wrapped for The Wizard of Oz to make her appear more child-like, and supposedly it was very painful for her. (Her chest was way larger in reality...)
You may want to try a tight fitting sports bra or even a corset (though those are expensive).
For your hips, you may try one of those girdles that cinch up with laces to squeeze your hips and butt in some.
But those aren't very cozy either, however surely better than squeezing the poo out of yourself with ace bandages.
ygs-29/f
Does any one know of any good hair products to help Split Ends, Breakage, Fragile Hair. Thanks
I have the same kind of hair. Mine is caused from years of color treating, so it is in bad shape.
DEEP CONDITIONING. At least once a week.
I use John Freida Frizz Eaze, and it works wonders, let me tell you.
ygs-29/f
wat could i sell on ebay tht would make lots of money so i can buy a xbox 360
You can sell pretty much anything on ebay.
Movies, games, books, electronics, toys, kitchen sink, you name it.
You can sell anything, then turn around and buy your XBox on ebay.
As for any one specific thing, I don't know what you have to sell to tell you if it would make that much money or not.
Well, a car would. ;)
ygs-29/f
Hello, Do you know of any cool t-shirts that I could buy online, like a logo t-shirt or some band t-shirts or anything. i just need some cool shirts for school. Thanks!
I like checking out cafepress.com
It has some cool shirts and some really good funny ones if humor is your game.
You can even get a fine Advicenators shirt there, too... ;)
ygs-29/f
female
My step sister is turning 16 this weekend and i am having my biggest birthday too, the next week. And I am totally left out. This birthday is really big for me. And believe me I am totally happy for her, she has gotten a mustang and money and a that. But I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick. I have tried telling poeple how i feel but they said that I can have my chance to shine.... but thats ALL poeple talk about... yes her b-day is tomorrow but mine is a week from saturday. Mine is big TOO!!! why can't poeple just see that.
please help me. I dont think that I am jealous or anything. Cause really I am honestly happy for her. But what about me. Tomorrow we are going out for a "birthday lunch". How come I dont get one of those??? PLEASE HELP:(
I feel so bad about this because i also want to be happy for myself, and i dont want to come across as a brat or anything
Because when I turn 18 she will be the big 21... so i can't get away from this...
HELP
thank you for taking the time to read this and I do rate and comment... thank you
Here is a thought: Maybe they have some sort of surprise planned for you?
If not, just remember that you will be turning the ol' sweet 16 soon enough, and you are sure to have everyone making a big to-do over you for your 16th birthday.
No worries. You'll get your turn to have everyone making a fuss over you, too. :)
ygs-29/f
there is a cute little kitten infront of my houseand it has been there for a long time
it got used to us and we are keepin it but it stays outside
i have been able to pet it but i am afraid that it will bite me or scratch me
it has almost bite me like three times
i dunno if it playful
but i can have a kitten that bites
so what should i do??
Well, if he's sketchy and had to get used to you before he would let you pet him, you need to be sure to not make sudden moves to startle him.
Also, yes, kittens bite and scratch at play because they don't know better. They don't realize their teeth and claws are still sharp as razors.
Have you tried to hand feed him? If you haven't, you may try that so he knows you mean him no harm if he is biting because he is sketchy.
ygs-29/f
So, I'm wondering about this guy...
He's 19 and he has a girlfriend, who I assume to be 19, too. She seems like a great person with a bubbly personality and a kind heart =)
Well, I was talking to him yesterday and he was saying stuff about her appearance. To outline her for you: she's about 5' 8" and she's got some extra luggage with like C/D cup breasts. Well, he was saying that she was on the borderline with her breastes as in her breasts are on the borderline of being to big? Like he doesn't like girls with big breasts and prefers small ones...I know it's really awkward for me to be even talking about thins.
But yeah. He was saying that he'd like for her to lose a little weight and that her breasts are on the borderline. And he was saying how Mine were the perfect size & how he wishes she could have my body and blah blah. Well, I told he that he sho7ld like her for her and her personality, not her appearance and he said that I was right and dropped the subject.
I don't know. What do you think about this guy? He's a really sweet, wonderful guy. I can tell you that. He's been here for me last year when I was a complete disaster emotionally & talked me out of suicide several times. But I don't know. What do you think of him? Like does he seem like "shallow" since he considered her appearance to be not really suitable for him? Ahhh. I don['t know. Just any type of reply would hlep =)
Guy's are visual creatures and all, but I think it is pretty shallow of him to be discussing this with you and comparing her to you.
It is pretty shallow that her appearance isn't suitable for him. If that is what is important to him, then he needs to be fair to her and let her move on with her life with someone who actually cares about her unconditionally.
I agree with YG that he may be buttering you up a little there...
ygs-29/f
When is it ok to have sex? I mean i know there is the whole "when youre ready" thing but what age do you think it is ok? i don't want an answer like "when youre ready" i actaully want an age please!!!!!
Not before the legal age of consent. That's what? 16?
ygs-29/f
IS it possible for someone to fall in love in over 4 months of dating???
P>S we knew each other for a year in school
This is a question for you to ask yourself, to be quite honest.
Are you in love? Do you feel in love after 4 months of dating? That answer is all that matters. Everyone else's opinions are just that. ;)
ygs-29/f
how do you put an edible photograph on a cake or cookie?
I do believe the photos are put on by airbrush.
Like everyone else said, you would have to have a cake decorator do that for you unless you know how to airbrush.
14/f
i'm dark skinned, and african american. I'm dark, but not that dark.i'm dark like Kelly Rowland dark. But my question is do boys[caucasian,afr.am,and hispanics] find lighter skinned girls more attractive than darker skinned. PLEASE BE HONEST in your answer. Because i think I look pretty good[not trying to sound conceited].I'm 5'5 and i weigh 120lbs..and my body is pretty good. i'm not fat or chubby. i'm skinny. so are lighter skinned girls more favorable??!! if i were to stand next to a girl and we both looked equally pretty who would the guy pick the other girl because she's lighter or me??!!..i would like guys to answer this, but if girls can answer it..i would love to read your response too. THANX IN ADVANCE!!!!
Honestly? If a guy likes a girl of a different race than him, it isn't going to matter how light or dark she is.
A guy should pick you based on more than just weather you are a light/dark or dark/dark skin tone, or he isn't really worth your time to begin with.
Don't sweat it, ok?
ygs-29/f
are people apt to date within the same ethnicity or not and why?
People are apt to date someone from their own ethnic group if they aren't interested in dating outside of their ethnicity.
But there are many out there who don't feel that someone's race matters when it comes to who they date, so they are apt to date from any ethnic group.
Why? I don't know. It just depends on the individual.
Personally? I'm one of those who thinks race doesn't matter. Why? Just because someone may have a different color of skin than me, or be from a different part of the world than me, doesn't mean they aren't right for me.
ygs-29/f
14/f
so i told this boy that i liked him over myspace about 1 month ago. we use to talk alot before i told him that..we were almost like close friends. we'sd talk about anything. AND THIS IS ALL ON MYSPACE!!! so now were at the point where we barely talk. i don't know if it's because of summer..or he doesn't like..or w/e. AND i'm 4th in his friends list so does that mean anything??!!..so does he still like me?? should i move on??! what should i do over all??!!
Don't freak out about it until you talk to him and find out from him what the deal is.
You are very correct- it's summertime and folks tend to be busier outside, so that may be why he isn't on there often anymore.
ygs-29/f
okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?
idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.
is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (:
I have a baby that proves you can...
ygs-29/f
why is it bad to be on the comp when there is a thunderstorm goin on?would anything happn to you or jus your comp?
I just wanted to add that they are right in saying surge protectors only protect so much.
Last summer, we had lightning strike our home and though our computer was still functional, for some time the screen color was green and pink all the time.
I wouldn't say you should have to unplug everything, but be sure it is turned off. If it isn't using power to run, then the surge protector will keep it from frying.
ygs-29/f