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Is it worth it?
Me and my friend started "going out" like 2-3 weeks ago, and we have REALLY busy schedules... like he was in another state when we decided to "go out" and we've only been home @ the same time for about 5 days, and his mom got surgery, so when his sister isnt home, he has to take care of her. We are best friends, and i dont want to ruin that, but now he cant go anywhere until like ANOTHER week, and i think thats really getting to me. I just dont know if it's all worth it in the end, you know? Because i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i think this could actually be something. So what do i do? Stay with him and hope that we can actually go out sometime in the VERY NEAR future, or just forget it...... PLEASE RESPOND SOON!!!!
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Well, is he worth the wait?
My husband and I seem to never get to really spend time with each other except for the weekends when he is off work.
He works 11pm-7am, when I'm sleeping, and sleeps all day when I'm up and around.
When he wakes up, I'm cooking supper, getting my son wound down for bed, and getting things lined up for my husband to go to work.
But the weekends are well worth the wait.
This is my everyday life. Yours is waiting another week. Is he worth the wait? I would say so, considering he is a very good guy to take care of his mom during her time of need.
What better kind of guy is there? ;)
ygs-29/f
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i would keep it. because hes just doing the right thing by helping his mom. so im sure as soon as shes better hell want to go out with you. it might get to you. but it will be worth it in the end. i wouldnt throw that away and if you truley were best friends this shouldnt ruin things.
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hey!
I totally think you should keep at it! It's not the poor boy's fault that his mom had surgery. Sometimes schedules don't always work out together and it's fine! Keep talking on the phone and IMing each other or whatever and just wait till he's less tied up with family. If you really think there's something there, then have faith that when you two finally DO get together, it'll be okay.
Best of luck! let me know how it worked out.
Leah <3
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