im deedee. and im 14 years young. my friends say i always give the best advice on relationships so try me. [its prob. my strongest advice.] i try not to take things for granted caz compared to most people i have an amazing life. i try not to waste things such as food and i try not to be picky about things caz people in other countries or even around here would kill for what i have. music is bascically my life. without it, i could not survive. whenever i have boyfriend troubles or feel like shit or need to think i go to my room, sit on my bed, and turn up the music so i wont be bothered. most people come to me with problems about everything. there usually happy with my advice and it usually works. i would do anything for anybody. ill go out of my way for people and i easily give second chances when i know i shouldnt. go ahead. try me for advice. ill try my best :).
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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?
16 YEAR OLD GIRL.
Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?
Thank you for the time!
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sorry its long;but read it i guess.
in my opinion, abortion is wrong. however if its because you were raped its ok if you are not ready to commit because its no like it was your choicer. so abortion would be ok in this situation.
personnally, i would never get an abortion, its killing someone.
but, if you arent ready for a kid, have an abortion or have the kid &+put it up for adoption[honestly i wouldnt do that either caz then the kid is gonna get older and wonder where there real parents are. ya know?]
if your ready just have the kid, my mom was raped and im the result of it. she was only 17 but she felt she was ready &+iknow my mom was never ashamed of me and was proud that im her daughter.
make the right decisionno matter what it is.
just really, really, really, think about it.
a kid could ruin your life, iare you ready for that.
hope i helped. :)
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Seriously,I really dont know how.I mean people tell me it will come naturally but I need some explaining,anything will help. (link)
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thats exactly what i was afraid of. seriously it comes so easy. the first time i made out it was to this boy at a party and we were just walking up the stairs and when we got to th top we just stepped aside and i hugged him then he kissed me and then he just like slid his tongue into my mouth and well its that easy if your like thinking abouyt it, youll think about if hes liking it or not. SO DONT! just copy him if you dont know what to do and when it starts to feel awkward kinda back off and give him just another kiss or two then hug him or something. its maddddd eay. or i played whos in your mouth that same night which is a makeout game in the dark and you just have to makeout with people so you can like alost prsctice ya know. irs opretty fun.
:) good luck &+dont be scared. hope i helped
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okay so, i am in baltimore for a few days to nsee some sox games :D i'm staying in this hotel, that has absolutely NOTHING to do. i have my phone &stuff. so it's not like i can't talk to my freinds. but i can't even get on myspace!!! haha. any suggestions to keep me from going insane from now till monday?! :D thanks (link)
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well maybe you could play games if you know anyone staying there. whenever i stay in hotels we make groups and do things like running around trying not to get found by the other group. also if you have a sibling or good friend with you you could ask to go places. hopefully the hotel has computer access. [or i would die too] lol. but hope its fun. and maybe i helped.
britt.
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My dad is making me go to a New York Yankee game next week when they are playing KC Royals. I HATE the Yankees and I love the Red Sox so I was wondering if I wore all Red Sox clothes to NYC and Yankee Stadium would I get shot? My dad said I probably will haha. Or is he just scaring me? (link)
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DO NOT WEAR RED SOX CLOTHING! my dads friend saw someone get shot for that. dont. hes not trying to scare you he doesnt want you to get hurt. if you hate the yankees and you are going to the game and dont want to wear anything yankeeish. dont wear anything relating to baseball. wear normal clothes. hope it helps.
-deedee.
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haha.. i didn't know what category to put this under, so this was the best i could do.
i went to get contacts for the first time today, but i could not for the life of me get them in my eye. i kept blinking, and my eye muscles kept contracting etc etc. how do i get over the fear of putting something in my eye? i'm scared the lens will scratch my cornea and infect it and all that stuff, plus i just have a really strong natural reflex against them i guess. tips? (link)
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i was like that and it took me awhile. before iwashed my hand really good and practiced touching my eye it hrelps so that you can stand it long enough to put them in. dont worry if they do irritate take them out an dmake an appointment t have them checked.
hope i helped.
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Im only 15 and skiiny 100 pounds!
And im female
and i have stretch marks on my theighs?
How do i get rid of them? (link)
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yea same here im 14 and i way 105 and i have them on my theighs too. the butter cream does work also vitamin e.
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Okay well there's this guy that I really like. And he really likes me too. But the only problem is I don't talk. Like we'll be on the phone.. and I can never think of anything to say. He always says the "how was your day" basic things so I can never say those. And then when I say weird off-the-wall things he's like "uhhh okay?" so there is nothing to talk about. WHAT CAN I DOOOO???? (link)
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im not a fan of the phone. thereofre i dont use it. lol. but if you have to just like tell him what you did in the day. and make him laugh just dont worry even if hes like ugg ok. oits not your fault thats just you.
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Three years ago i moved and changed school when i was at the other school i realy like some girl but i was to shy to tell her, so now i live about 40 minutes away from her and i had not seen her, i found her on myspace and i told her i liked her she also told me she like me, so what i want to know is how often do long distant relationships work? saying ill only see her about mayby once a month (link)
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i have a bf that lives 2 hours away and i totally love him but i can only see him like once every two months. but weve been going out almost a year. and i dont like long distance but if i have to i have too.
-deedee.
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for girls' freshman cross country, what do you need for tryouts? how long does the season last? and what do you usually do during practices? (link)
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just make sure you are wearing shorts that are comfortable and like a tank top nothing to hot and sneakers that arent like dcs make sure they tie tight and you basically run like the whole time its not really like try-outs caz everyonemakes the team.
hope it helps.
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i want to know if im considered a racist. i can be friends with black people, i have 3 black friends but i can never picture myself dating or having sex/children/marrying a black guy. is this racism or just prefrences? (link)
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no caz im the same way its just a preferance i like a black guy so i can picture myself dating one just not marrying/haveing kids with one.
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Is there anyway you can take DVDs and rip them onto your computer and onto Itunes and then to your Ipod???? (link)
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yea you can as long as you have an ipod that can hold videos. but you can put videos onto your itunes.
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Me and my friend started "going out" like 2-3 weeks ago, and we have REALLY busy schedules... like he was in another state when we decided to "go out" and we've only been home @ the same time for about 5 days, and his mom got surgery, so when his sister isnt home, he has to take care of her. We are best friends, and i dont want to ruin that, but now he cant go anywhere until like ANOTHER week, and i think thats really getting to me. I just dont know if it's all worth it in the end, you know? Because i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i think this could actually be something. So what do i do? Stay with him and hope that we can actually go out sometime in the VERY NEAR future, or just forget it...... PLEASE RESPOND SOON!!!! (link)
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i would keep it. because hes just doing the right thing by helping his mom. so im sure as soon as shes better hell want to go out with you. it might get to you. but it will be worth it in the end. i wouldnt throw that away and if you truley were best friends this shouldnt ruin things.
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is there any way to heal a small cavity without going to a dentist? i'm going to one, i just DREAD having to go through the process of getting it filled, because i've never had one before. (link)
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dont worry about it. ive had like 9 done and they dont hurt caz they numb it. esp. if they are just small ones. they wont hurt. just if it hurts tell them and they will numb it more for you. caz its ot suppsed to hurt.
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Has anybody heard of that thing on Discovery Channel where theres like a miscarriage or something, and then it ends up being this little faceless thing but it has teeth and hair?
My friends were all talking about it, and I want to search it, maybe on like youtube... what are they called
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that most likly sounds like it would be an abortion. caz i saw pics from it on myspace before and that was what some looked like. check it.
hope it is.
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I have a problem... I don't exercise enough. I am not fat by any means, but that's just because my metabolism is really fast. I just do not enjoy going to the gym, there are no team sports to play around here, and I don't know if yoga will be enough (i mostly stretch and breathe). any suggestions of something I can do to get motivated or a new kind of exercise I could try doing? I don't like to sweat if I don't like what I'm doing. Any help appreciated! (link)
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you can do yoga. but one thing i enjoy doing is ddr. its really fun and its a great way to exercise. you may sweat alittle depending on what level you are on. its reallly fun and easy if you practice alot. :) you should try it i think you will like it.
hope it helps. ps. have a fan or do it in an air-conditioned room.
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Hey, does anyone know how to type beside you pic on your main page in the info section. like literally on the side of it. ifso, thanks in advance. =]]. (link)
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when you first log on it say welcome_____! and next to your picture theres some clickable options. the first one should be edit profile then, click it. then theres a button that says save all changes and next to it there is a button that says preview profile, below that it says headline with a box next to it [to write in]. write in that box and then when you are done click save all changes then when you view your profile it should work.
i think i know what you are talking about. sorry if im not. but it seems like that what your looking for.
good luck.
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I'm starting highschool in august, and i dont know anyone or anything about the school. And I know this one girl who is a few years older than me and she goes to a diff highschool, but she said its like "uncool" to carry a backpack. She said she usually carries like a big messenger bag type thing. Is this true? And do i need a backpack on the first day? thanks. (link)
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mm. in my high school its the same way. most people have like big messenger bags from american eagle or hollister etc. also alot of people have draw-string bags. there a big thing in my school. most of tyhe times the lockers are to small to fit backpacks. even if they dont seem big. most lockers in high schools are only about 8 inches wide. on the forst day you dont really need to worry about it on the first day. just go and check it out. ask your friends wehat they are gonna buy and then you wont be alone in a sense. dont worry about it, if people do make fun of it, its just caz they have nothing better to do then pick on the new kids.
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