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long term relationships
15/m
Three years ago i moved and changed school when i was at the other school i realy like some girl but i was to shy to tell her, so now i live about 40 minutes away from her and i had not seen her, i found her on myspace and i told her i liked her she also told me she like me, so what i want to know is how often do long distant relationships work? saying ill only see her about mayby once a month
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ok. ima 15/f. and for me a long distance relationship wouldn't last that long. Only because part of a relationship is spending time together, but it depends on who you 2 r. So trust your instict i guess, but im just giving you my opinoin
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i have a bf that lives 2 hours away and i totally love him but i can only see him like once every two months. but weve been going out almost a year. and i dont like long distance but if i have to i have too.
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Well it depends. Long distance relationships require huge amounts trust & love.
Have you gotten to the point in this relationship where you can trust one another with anything? Would you trust each other to not cheat or anything? Do you trust each other enough to believe that you're each staying faithful? If so, great sign. You're getting somewhere.
Have you gotten to a point in your relationship where you don't want to be with anyone else but each other? If so, another great sign.
If you both feel this way, then maybe you can try it. But don't make it anything serious. Just be very casual. Maybe not even a total dating staus yet. You can say that you're just friends, but don't date anybody else, because you're becoming more.
If you haven't reached these points, maybe you should think about just staying friends for now.
I was just reading a friend's column, and he said "Love Takes Risks".
Are you willing to take the risk of her or you cheating? Are you willing to take the risk of having a relationship not work out?
Talk to her about it, and see what conclusion you both come to.
Good Luck!
-Laura.
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Well it depend how much you trust eachother and really depends on how much you see eachother and talk to eachother...etc. I think you could make it last by keeping in touch.
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let me tell you something, dont do it. it would be so hard for you and her, plus you dont know what she could be doing with other people. find a girl that you can see as much as possible, once a month wouldnt cut it, it would hurt you too much. its better that you stay the kind of friends with benefits, the one time you see her, you dont have to be shy you know? trust me, having that kid of relationship does not work. my old bf lived about 20 minutes away from me and it was so hard, and i never got to see him, i ended it, can you imagine how hard it will be for you if she lives 40 mintues away? i dont think you should, but you should keep in touch with her. just tell her it would be too hard on both of you, even though you still really like her. hope that helped you out a little bit. :]
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