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has he lost interest? 14/f
so i told this boy that i liked him over myspace about 1 month ago. we use to talk alot before i told him that..we were almost like close friends. we'sd talk about anything. AND THIS IS ALL ON MYSPACE!!! so now were at the point where we barely talk. i don't know if it's because of summer..or he doesn't like..or w/e. AND i'm 4th in his friends list so does that mean anything??!!..so does he still like me?? should i move on??! what should i do over all??!!
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Don't freak out about it until you talk to him and find out from him what the deal is.
You are very correct- it's summertime and folks tend to be busier outside, so that may be why he isn't on there often anymore.
ygs-29/f ]
Ok, first off, I'd find other ways to communicate with him other than myspace. Does he have AIM? Or maybe you can text/call him? It would be much easier. Ask him what happened? He might have gotten weirded out at the fact you like him as more than a friend. Like I said, just ask him what's up? Why he hasn't been talking to you as much?
Explain to him you told him you liked him because you wanted to know if he liked you, too. Tell him if he dosen't it's ok, and he dosen't have to avoid you like this. Your friendship is more important, right?
Or maybe he does like you, but he's too shy to admit it. This could go either of 2 ways. So just ask him how he feels.
You don't neccessarily have to move on, unless you want to. But for me (you might be completely different) I always need a sense of closure. So if you want to move on, just tell him. "You know, I don't like you anymore. I'm sorry if it messed up our friendship or anything."
I hope this helps.
-Laura. ]
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