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I am left out!
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My step sister is turning 16 this weekend and i am having my biggest birthday too, the next week. And I am totally left out. This birthday is really big for me. And believe me I am totally happy for her, she has gotten a mustang and money and a that. But I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick. I have tried telling poeple how i feel but they said that I can have my chance to shine.... but thats ALL poeple talk about... yes her b-day is tomorrow but mine is a week from saturday. Mine is big TOO!!! why can't poeple just see that.
please help me. I dont think that I am jealous or anything. Cause really I am honestly happy for her. But what about me. Tomorrow we are going out for a "birthday lunch". How come I dont get one of those??? PLEASE HELP:(
I feel so bad about this because i also want to be happy for myself, and i dont want to come across as a brat or anything
Because when I turn 18 she will be the big 21... so i can't get away from this...
HELP
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well i understand how you feel and well what i can tell you is that when people turn 16 i guess its a big thing its like a sweet 16 holiday were people always talk about and probaly the best birthday year.And the other fact can be that hers is tommorrow and yours is next week which dont mean nothing but maybe they are just trying to focus on one birthday at a time.But dont worry cause when your time comes they will be focusing on you and you will have your shine. So just hang in there till your birthday comes.
hope i help!
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Here is a thought: Maybe they have some sort of surprise planned for you?
If not, just remember that you will be turning the ol' sweet 16 soon enough, and you are sure to have everyone making a big to-do over you for your 16th birthday.
No worries. You'll get your turn to have everyone making a fuss over you, too. :)
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