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hey does anyone know any good songs to download? this question is an easy 5 so...yea please help me. nellie x0x

my humps, anything 3DD, incomplete, greenday... get the top 40 list and pick some.

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Well im going to be a belly dancer for halloween and i cant change it now. But my problem is, i got my period and for my costume the pants are see through. All most all of it is. What if i leak? What can i do? HELP?

tampon is a must then something thin just in case. that should be enough.

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where did you get your background for you collumn?

i asked my good buddy MACKENZIE (you know, the coolest columnist ever) and she gave me it and i have no idea where she got it. i think if you find an icon somewhere on xanga and save it to tinypic of photobucket you can put it on your column.

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this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.

The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.

11 and 12 year old girl: "ii want some1 really HAWT becuz yeah ill make every1 like me"
now, if this was a more mature person... id have to go with a really nice guy that shows common interests and is outgoing.

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hey i was wondering if i there were any other sites other than spark notes for summaries of books. I need the abridged version of Don Quixote. Thanks in advance.

heres the deal, google isnt good for this. www.cliffnotes.com has pretty much everybook.
the main link is www.antistudy.com but you could try that and it gives you 1478324190317 other links to book summaries...it take a long time to find them sometimes.

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how much are guitar lessons?

well it isnt WHERE you live, its who teaches you. my friend gets a half hour lesson for $5 from one of her moms friends but i know other lessons are up in the $25 zone. get a bunch of different teachers and see who is more convinient (time of lessons, travel time), who is in your price range, and has experience.

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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.

is this dumb of me?

um no....NO! its not dumb of you. i personally would not approve. i'm friends with a lot of guys some of which have gfs and i wouldn't put them in that position if i wasn't getting something from it. there are other ways to hang out besides spending the night. please speak up for yourself. some girls don't and they end up with a question like "my bfs best friend made out with him and...." so tell him they can hang out...thats ok but the overnight is a little much.

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ok this is really stupid but i 4got what the north south west and east things are called.. can someone please tell me. i will rate.

compass rose && cardinal directions.

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ok i'm 13 rite now...i'm kinda emmerised to day this but my boyfreind wants to finger me and leik i dunno what to do cuz i have nvr done this b 4 and i'm thinkin will it hurt and leik thoes kinda questions...what should i do please helpppp

if its embarrasing and scary...don't do it. you can have him start with one finger and everything but really you should wait until you are completely ready. you don't have to do it just yet. that's what i think you should do but if you really want to, go for it. lemme know if you need anything else!

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hi im running the mile tommorrow in school, and i was wondering how I could get a better time. i'm a 13/m, around 5'2", 99lbs. last year i got like 7min 16sec, but i would really like to get under 7minutes this year. any tips on how to get a better time? (when to sprint, when to job.. etc?)
Thanks in Advance.
All fives.

theres really no technique...some people like to sprint the beginning and jog the rest or jog then sprint the end. don't stop...and dont hurt yourself is all i can say. take good breaths and set a good pace for you. goodluck!

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My face skin is really dry and the dry skin starts to like fall off. I think its very nasty. Is there anyway i can get my face skin not to be dry?

that happens to me too! my derm gave me a moisterizer thats especially for this. (its an RX). curel lotion works just like it...i recommend it.

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is it unusial for a guy 2 cry over his girl

nope its not! a lot of my guy friends come over to me crying because their girls dont like them or somthing. it happens!

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What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?

well its happened to me before...find new friends, find someone that cares, be your own best friend or maybe try to reconcile with them. (its happened quite a few times...) keep your head up!

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My boyfriend just told me that he would rather be friends. I was so hurt today. And To Make it Worse he Likes Someone Else!!!! We still talk. But it feels weird. What can I do to pick up our friendship again? Thanks. And smart remarks will be reported!

just be friends...that means no pda's etc, just talk. a lot. thats all you can do for now sweetie. it will take time, trust me.

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wen i was taking a shower, i found out that i have some like cuts down there... they hurt but im not really sexually active and i didnt hurt my self in n e way, wut should i do? i dont rele wanna tell my mom, its kinda personal

you could have her take you to the doctor but if i were you, i'd ask your mom. if it doesnt hurt or anyting then you dont havwe to do anything about it. you should find out where they came from..shaving, masturbating, a pair of pants?? what you do about it really depends on where the cut is. you could just let it be or put antibiotic ointment on it.

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on myspace how do i make things ...


-differnt font size
-differnt font
-differnt colors
-bold/underlined/italics


pleasssse help me, thanks

( turn the "[" &"]" into "" )
bold- [b]TEXT HERE[/b]
underline- [u] text here [/u]
italics- [i] text here [/i]

those are the ones i know.

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i got my period for the first time on auguest 15 (this past auguest). i didnt have it last month, but now i got it again on the 15th, and still have it. is this normal?

yep! my friend has had it for over a year and she gets it every other month.

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*sigh.. well i was just broke from my first relationship and i feel like crap .. i feel like i made a mistake but it hurt me that he liked my best friend cuz one day me her and him were hangin out .. she was suppose to meet up wit her guyfriend but he couldnt come so i didnt wanna leave her .. my boyfriend was flirting wit her.. and later on he had sumthin to tell me but he wouldnt tell me so i forced him to tell me.. he sed he kinda liked my best friend.. but he sed he til loved me at night we were talkin and he sed he kinda likes her and dat he only "really really likes" me now... `=/ the next day we broke up.. many tears from both of us.. now he likes me and my best friend equally .. im so depressed and i kinda like starting cuttin from this.. iono wat to do ne more......

DO NOT CUT! it wont make things better, it wont change his mind. you did the right thing, its ok, if he finally makes up his mind, you guys could get back together in the future. you have your whole lives ahead of you! give it time, trust me, things will work out. the first one is the hardest and things do get better!

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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!

1. every 24 hours. sometimes in the morning, sometimes at night.
2. after i shampoo and wash myself... i kinda go off to the side and i have my back facing the water (im weird)
3. shampoo, (conditioner, soap- often switched) shaving.

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I been doing it alot by myself, and when i pee it burns and i pee out blood, PLEASE TELL ME IF IM PREGNET!!!!!!!!!!!

i think you cut yourself masturbating...its definatly possible and NO you CANNOT be pregnant from that. its not possible.

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