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I Would Rather Be Friends....


Question Posted Monday October 24 2005, 3:37 pm

My boyfriend just told me that he would rather be friends. I was so hurt today. And To Make it Worse he Likes Someone Else!!!! We still talk. But it feels weird. What can I do to pick up our friendship again? Thanks. And smart remarks will be reported!

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bUtTeRfLiEs answered Monday October 24 2005, 6:59 pm:
I'm sorry, I know that sucks more than anything! :( Just try to start over, kind of act like it didn't happen(like you 2 were before you started dating) and your friendship should get back to normal in no time! :) Good Luck!
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LoveNJstyle answered Monday October 24 2005, 6:43 pm:
just be friends...that means no pda's etc, just talk. a lot. thats all you can do for now sweetie. it will take time, trust me. <3

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LittleLindszX0 answered Monday October 24 2005, 6:21 pm:
Well.. you need to talk to this boy you like. Just talk to him and tell him even though you guys are no longer together you still wanna be good friends with him and talk to him. If he likes someone else, well you can't stop him. Just try to remember that if he's happy then your happy. Good luck with that sweet stuff

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hiya2303 answered Monday October 24 2005, 5:20 pm:
Ha...move on girl. Mon and let him know youve moved on and that youre not thinking twice about him. Talk to another guy or try to get his attention. Dont try to be friends with him..get him back..play the game girl ;)

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sarraleew answered Monday October 24 2005, 4:55 pm:
it's going to be hard to pick your relationship back up. going out and then just becoming frinds doesn't happen easily. it could take a little while for it not to be werid any more. so if you think that you or he needs room then let there be room and see how being friends feels.

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angelfire2708 answered Monday October 24 2005, 4:48 pm:
When you say "pick up your friendship", do you mean being his gf again? It sounds like he broke up with you because he liked some1 else. Sometimes people like people for a short time. Its not anything they can really help. Theres really nothing you can do to change his mind. Just keep talking to him, and being nice to him. Thats about all you can do!

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kevin1986 answered Monday October 24 2005, 4:19 pm:
This happens everyday. Don't talk to him anymore, it just feels, as you say weird. So leave him alone, move on, and smoke weed.

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girdy_goo15 answered Monday October 24 2005, 4:04 pm:
well just try and act yourself. be as normal as possible. but if it's too much just tell him straight out. don't avoid him or anything. be direct

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Advicelady6798 answered Monday October 24 2005, 3:52 pm:
I know that feeling. You cant really pick up where you left off b/c every time you see him you it will remind you of what happened. What you can do is when you see him just talk to hm like you normally would and eventually you will feel comfortable enough to just be friends. It is hard to see him with another person but maybe if you got involved in something that could keep your mind off of him.

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