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How do I know if he likes me?
Ok. Sp there is this guy I ave liked for four years. When we went to camp together for church. Me, my friend, and him all hung out together. We flirted and had the best time. When I asked him if he liked he said yes and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with me. Time passed and nothing happended except us becoming really good friends. I didnt want to say anything about it but i just let it go. We went to homecoming and prom twice together we had a blast. He always talks to me when he sees me and he will sit on my lap and pretend and like say hey baby or say how you doing in a way that is hilarious. Does he like me and is to afradi to date. I think about him all the time. By the way i am 18 and he is 17. We have never had a fight before either.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
A few scenarios:
1. His affection is sincere almost to a fault: he likes you so much he's afraid to screw up your relationship by attempting romance.
2. He only wants you for a friend, but he's afraid if he tells you the truth, you will be hurt.
3. He never broke up with his girlfriend, or he did but then started dating someone else, and he's just stringing you along.
Obviously these aren't the only possibilities, but these might get you thinking in the right direction.
Dr. Chad
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I think he totally digs you just watch out for wrong turns!
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if you guys have had been so close you guys should be able to be open and there should be no reason why you cant talk to each other about this. so one day when its you and him talk to him. hope i helped
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okay! good question! i have had those times too like my best frined will be like flirtin n stuff n i used to like him until like he stopped talkin to me bc summin happened but yes i think he likes you n he is afraid too admit it bc tht is how sum guys are they juss go along wit things! n i think you should take him alone you n him together n juss ask him n be honest juss be like okay i have liked you for a really long time n i juss wanna kno if you like me bak bc i wanna kno if i am wastin my time on liking you!?! if you dont then thts okay i hope we can still be frineds! okay! thts my advice!! i hope i helped you!
xo sha xo
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You didnt mention if you went to homecoming and prom with him while he was with his gf!!
You basically put him on the spot when you asked him directly to his face if he liked you. He didnt want to be rude and say "no"! im sure he likes you, but not "that way". Hes just being nice!
Afraid to date? hun, he has a gf! Why are you going after a guy whos already in a relationship? If you were the 1 dating him, would you like it if another girl was after him, and would you even want a guy who has a gf that flirts with other girls like hes doing with you??
Just because he talks and flirts with you, doesnt mean he wants to date you. I mean thats probably just his personality. If he really liked you "that way" and wanted you to be his gf, he would be with you and not with her.
Sounds like you have a good friendship going. Dont wreck it by expecting him to be more than friends if thats all thats between you 2 right now. Let him pursue you, if he wants to be more then that!
ok youre asking us if hes afraid to date. Listen to what youre saying. Hes ALREADY dating, so obviously hes not afraid.
Even tho you didnt find out that he had a gf until 2 mos later, hes STILL with her. He still hasnt broken up with her. Which means he loves her, and hes just being nice to you!
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I think that he does like you if he didnt he would have told you. I know what it is like to have someone like that. I think he is afraid of getting into a relationship. He obvipusly likes you as a friend but maybe he is also afraid of losing that friendship that you guys have.
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