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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
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Ok i had a boyfriend..but we never talked one bit..sometimes online but not a very lightening conversation. So i dumped him on feild day. Then he says he has a different girl friend on that same day. He wont tell people who..but i still kind of liked him. The only real reason i dumped him is because we didnt talk..and it was weird when we did. Do you think i made the right choice? Should i just give up on him and fall for another?

you made the right choice..if your heart told you break up with him then you did the right thing...and if he "supposvily" has a new girlfriend and he wont tell anyone than he does not ahve a new girlfriend.. hes just trying to make you jealous...and dont let it get to you if he does have a new girlfriend..and all you need to do is go out there and find a new boyfrind..because if he can move on so can you..so dont hold back on him go out there and get your self man!!lol..
hope i helped..
love always.
ilovepink101

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Hi, we are 13 and we need a job, so we can get money so we can buy our own clothes because our parents make us pay for our clothes because they think that we are mature enough to earn our own money, but in reality, we dont know how to get money. Please give us ideas for jobs. Please dont tell us to talk to our parents because thats dumb and if you havent thought about it yet, we have tried that so dont be stupid. PLEASE HELP!! WE RATE HIGH!!

well first you shouild talk to your parents about getting a little side job.. but i dont no if they will accept 13 year olds...wel maybe for the summer you can wsh cars or baby sit...you can make alot of money on babysitting...and maybe you can have like a little buisness were you take care of animals..like if people go on vacation you can watch there animals...well try to figure something like that out..update me and tell me what job yall got...hope i hlepd..
love always,
ilovepink101

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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out

i no what your talking about girl..!!!im a latina to.. im cuban...well you shouild do your hispanic tradition..i wanted to do both..but you no..and my parents said it cost like 20 tousand dollars..so my opion you go and show off wjat you are..and you ca do your spanish tradition..im sure your parents will be happy with the spaish tradton..well about the invited people..you shouild bring whoever uyou wnat to bring its your party.. no matter if there white balck purple pink, girl its you party..bring who you want to bring!!!hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?

wel you shouild tell him that your friend really likes him and that you think its wrong to do that to your good friend..and yes you shouild tell your tell your friend that that boy likes you...you guys shouild never keep stuff from each other..just sit her down and tell her its very hard to tell her this and tell her that boy doesnt like her and he likes you..and tell her that you rejected him because you couild never be a bad friend and let her down like that..she will be sad for a while but she will get over him once she sees that he likes other girls...well hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad

well your girlfriend sounds like a makeout freak..lol..im kidding..well your proably not use to so much kising.. and you shouild either tell her to cool it with the kissing or yall are over...a make out here and then is fine..and those stomaaches are weird..maybe you just dont like her anymore..maybe you put her as a pig in your head..and the whole dance situation..wow...maybe you shouild break up with her and go to the dance with her asd friends...because if you guys were friends you wont halft to kiss..unless of course she lets you make a move on her..well if you break up with her now shes going to think that you broke up with her just to go to the dance with some one else..and if you are then dont tell her that..well this realation ship proably ruined yalls friend ship and thats one reason why you never go out with your good friends..but you shouild just go to the dance with her had a friend.. and your puting it in your head thats its nasty to kiss her..so take it out..and see her as your girlfriend ok..

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Im going to Warped Tour and it'll be my first time going to a concert like this (my parents finally let me go!) Anyways, I was just wonder if you've been in a mosh pit before. Whats it like? And like what happends. Will I get hurt? Just like full detail and everything about! Thanks in advance!

well i have not been in a mosh pit before...but my best friend was...he went to the warped tour last year...he was in a huge mosh pit and he got rushed to the hospital and he wass there for a week...why are they so bad??because they push you around and they throw you in the air and they drop you every where..you think they people will care if you have little boo boos and scratches and bruises...??no they wont..because while those people aree getting high as a mother you will be in the hospital with proably a broken bone...but if you are light you are a easyb target becuase they can pick you up easier...so try to stay away from the big crowds..and make sure you are totally safe okay..i dont want to hearv about you in the news.,.lol...be carefull and enjoy your time..
hope i helped..
love always ,
ilovepink101

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ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do?

well you do what your heart tells you..i went out with some body for pitty..and i so regreted it.. and thats what your exzacly doing!! going out with for pitty..so you shouild sit down with him and tell him that you think its best if you two just were friends or split up...i think you shouiod break up with hiom if you want to...but if your doing it just becsuse people dont like him or they want you to then dont do it girl...you do what you feels right..and he will live if yall break up..who nos maybe yall wil go back up...but you halft to understand that if yall break up and he doesnt want to be firends dont take it personally..its proably going to be really hard on him but he will be fine..jst do what your heart feels you to do!!!!!!
hope i helped you....
love always,
ilovepink101

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i've been playing softball since i was about 4 (T-ball then) and now im 13. i recently tried out for a travel team, but didnt make it. i've always been a great athlete and great softball player. im totally upset i didnt make it. what can i do to make me get over the fact that i didnt make it? .. ps - im gonna go to mostly all the games because my twin sister made it. please help. its kinda stupid but ive always been told not to cry about little things like this :-/

wow thats pretty hard on you..well first of all you shouild be proud of your sister and support..and maybe shell give you some pointers for next year..dont give up just becuase 1 team didnt take you...theres alwyas next year..if your good now im sure your sister will come home and give you some pointers..and youll be even better next year..and your lucky to have a sister that made the team..maybe you guys play together..and dont get all sad about it..get put there and play some more..go for all the spring and fall seasons to play softball and im sure by next year around this time you will make the traveling team becusse you will be better and stronger. so get put there and play...hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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i've met guys when i'm just hanging out at the beach or mall or whatever before... but it's only because they approach me. the guys that approach me are usually older and way too experienced for me and too pushy and "fast". i'm pretty shy so when i see a guy i like i don't know how to approach him. how do just start conversations with random people. but not just coming up and being like "you're hot... what's your number?" cuz thats kinda stupid. no offense to anyone who does that. thanx.

well you should go to the gut and say my anme is ____________..and ask him how he is and just try to start a conversation..and when you leaving you can say wel can i have your number or do you want mine..which i shouid say that if hes instrested hell want your number..anyways maybe hell give you a call..or you have the chpice to write your name on a little piece of paper with your name and number on it and just give it to him..and you can say whats your name...???and tell him to call you..and get over that she stage girl dont worry..theres no need to be shy ok...just be your self and go get them boys...lol...
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101

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Ok I like this guy , but he can't date outside of his relligion. What should I do???

well his relligon is very weird..but no iffence..well your going to have to respect the fact that he can not date you..well that is kinda sad but you dont if he amy get in trouble for dating you..so your going to halft to accept his familys rules and just forget about dating him and you guys can still be friends...
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
XoOoXoOoX
TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx

well you only no if your a lesbian..and from what you said your not a lesbian..its just that your nervous..and you shouildnt be nervous...if you really like him you shouild just kiss him..and he wil be happy...!!!!lol!!!well you might want to do it soon becuase he may loike you now but if he thinks that you dont want to kiss him then hell forget about you and find some one else who likes to kiss...and dont worry your not a lesbian..
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101

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summers here and i want to loose some weight...problem is i have a hard time sticking to a diet and excersize program...im 15 and i really wanna loose some weight before school starts up again...problems i have are-

1. finding an effective excersize...i cant run though so dont suggest that please
2. my parents keep junk food scattered round the house even though i try to avoid it..i can pretty much avoid it all accept the chips?!
3. finding a healthy food that i can snack on
4. finding a way to keep calm at dinner and not go over bored

could anyone possibly help me find excersize i can do? and help me keep away from junk food??
any advice is greatly appreciated...

I WILL RATE HIGH!

well i have the same problem as you...my mom and dad ALWAYS keep junk food around the house.. and im always tempted to eat them..but you no what you halft to do...to replace those snacks or so called junk food you shouild eat healthy food.. like i eat low fat yougurt..and you can eat a fruit and yuo sometimes dont have to have a snack...but its just in your head t hat you need junk food..trust me you dont..so just eat alot more fruits and veggies..and replace your snacks with healthy food....hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)?

honestley what does it matter if you can kiss or not..but you no it will proably be a turn off with the boys in this world today..honestley it shouildnt matter..but you no all boys want is your body and your tounge and mouth..but you shouildnt do what those boys want..so what if you cant kiss why shouild they care..you shouild just kiss your boyfriend and be happy...good kisser or not...they shouldnt care how you kiss i thought they went out with for who you are!!not your mouth or see how you kiss..hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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Okay I really like this guy, Albert. He's one of my best friends. He tells me alot of things, he trusts me alot. My friend says me and him are getting closer and closer and that something will happen if he breaks up with Emma (his girlfriend) but she doesn’t know that I like him. Thats the problem. I really like him but he has a girlfriend. 2 of my friends know that I like him. Him and I do everything together in class, like we sit together in class and all. His girlfriend only likes him, she doesnt love him, but Albert says he loves her. Im not sure though and my friend thinks that he’s hiding behind her but really likes me. Everytime I say something he ALWAYS looks at it the gross way. Like if I accidently touch someone’s hand he goes “Someone wants to get it on” and that stuff. At a party, he put his arm around me but just playing (not seriously). And once in class I was turning around to face the teacher and my knee’s touched his knee’s and he did this funny look at me. Is there something wrong with him or does he like me? Coz he says he loves his girlfriend. Oh and his girlfriend is one of my good friends.

you kinda have a problem..that emma girl might being go out with him just to have somebody..and this guy sounds like a really good person..well he shouild find out if your the right one for him you or emma..well no iffence i dont see why you wouild go behind a friens back and do that..but you shouild just lay back and let him pick..because he ,may not even .like you...and your going to feel like a fool...so you let himm choose nd see what he wants ,you or emma...well hope i helped you...
love always,
ilovepink101

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Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said.

wow...umm this obviously doesnt seem like a good friend..i no how feel.. my x-boyfriend lives right by his x-girlfriend... and she wouild always go over there and he wouild always be over thee..but i gave up with him..i finally broke up with him...but you shouildnt do that..and you wouild sound pretty jealous if you say pick me or her..well just try to sit him down and talk to him about it..but evfer be a bitch about it..like dont go to the girl and say hes mine not yours...that will make you sound so jealous and you dont want to sound jealous..maybe you shouild talk to the girl and tell her to cool it... you dont no it but she is trying to ruine your relationship with your boyfriend...stand up and do something about it...dont let her...
hope i helped...
love always..,
ilovepink101

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ok.. so the other day i was masterbating (using a dildo) and like.. i started to bleed.. and i was in some pain.. is it possible that i lost my virginity to a dildo?? i mean.. i don't guess that's a problem cause it's gunna happen sooner or later, but is that what happened?
15/f/virgin

yeah its just like something going in to you..you no how you do it the first time you going to bleed???well a dildos just like a dick..so its nothing but like a reglar dick going in you..so nothings wrong...hope i answered your question good..
*love always*
ilovepink101

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