i've met guys when i'm just hanging out at the beach or mall or whatever before... but it's only because they approach me. the guys that approach me are usually older and way too experienced for me and too pushy and "fast". i'm pretty shy so when i see a guy i like i don't know how to approach him. how do just start conversations with random people. but not just coming up and being like "you're hot... what's your number?" cuz thats kinda stupid. no offense to anyone who does that. thanx.
willa113 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 4:54 pm: alright theres 4 things to do
1 choose
2 examine
3 decide
4 make move but do it slickly
1 choose the guy you like and then 2 examine from somewhere they wont notice you what he does, like laughing at and stuff like that, 3 decide which thing he does that you like and capitallize on it 4 you make your move (depending on what you choose, say they can dive and you can't/can) try diving near them but really bad lol then watch them do it a couple times try agian but bad then ask for his help and flirt while he's showing you and try to make him laugh at you trying then gradually start acting like yourself
xxBrOkEnxx answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:20 pm: i dont think that you would be turned down because older guys came up to you before so you should be like i saw you the other day and want to ask you something. thats kind of off the top of my head but something like that. just go up if they dont like you its their loss [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 9:25 am: well you should go to the gut and say my anme is ____________..and ask him how he is and just try to start a conversation..and when you leaving you can say wel can i have your number or do you want mine..which i shouid say that if hes instrested hell want your number..anyways maybe hell give you a call..or you have the chpice to write your name on a little piece of paper with your name and number on it and just give it to him..and you can say whats your name...???and tell him to call you..and get over that she stage girl dont worry..theres no need to be shy ok...just be your self and go get them boys...lol...
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101 [ ilovepink101's advice column | Ask ilovepink101 A Question ]
Jessica13 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:32 am: What you should do is be his friend first and then you will get to know them and then ask them out that way you all ready know them and they know you
lilly_pads79 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:01 am: Well try walking back and forth iny our mirror pretnding it is a cute guy. Then next time you go to the mall or beach you won't be afraid to say hello. He will probably carry on the conversation from there. Hope for the best!
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