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Unexperienced = turn off?
I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)?
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If a guy thinks it's a turn off,he's not worth your time.You just haven't found the right one to share your first kiss with,or anything more than that.Trust me,it's better to wait,than to share it with the wrong person,and make it something you won't like remembering.The right guy won't think it's a turn off-he'll be glad he's the one who kissed you first.You're not an easy girl and good boys appreciate that.If someone tells you it's a turn off,don't let yourself be bothered by it.Stay the way you are,it's the right thing to do.My opinion is that if a girl is inexperienced she is not at all less worth than the ones who are.I hope I helped you,and that you got my point.
Best wishes from solariagirl94
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Hi :)
I used to think this way. That the less experience I had, the less a guy would like me. That is until I started hearing from many guys that they enjoy girls who are new that things. They like to teach them how to do stuff, it gives them the feeling that they have an innocent girl. Basically they're on a perv status lol. So no worries! Good luck
Uniq
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like you said, all guys are different. but some guys find it a MAJOR turn on. 1/2 the guys i know would rather go out w/ a chick that has no experience....than go out w/ a slut...
take it from me baby
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no some guys like the whole pure never been touched kinda thing
love talktome224
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Hey, its not a turn off b/c guys like the thought that they are the girls 1st. Dont let the guy feel like he could manipulate you. Let him know that you are a virgin if he has a problem with that screw him . But most guys wont have a problem with that, they will find that as a blessing. If you do want to save your self for marriage let the guy know if he has a problem with that screw him, he really didnt like you. If you would give up your virginity to a giy after going out with him for a certain amount of time and you think you are ready let the guy know if you are into a relationship and you feel the time is right and you want to give your self up you will, but that you want to be sure you are in love with the person. I hope i have helped.
*Gorda*
* Tellin the guy that you want to save your self or you want to give urself up after bein in a relationship after a certain amount of time is a real tester.
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No, because then they think that they can have their own way with you. It's just up to you to controll situations like this. Always keep your wits about you at all times.
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no not really
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I'm female, but I have MANY wayyy oldeR male fRiends, and I know EXACTLY how they feel on this: BIG tuRn on. Guys dig innocence. And foR many of them.. it makes them feel all macho and studdly.. gives them a big head.. like.. "ooooh.. I'm this Bitches fiRst", you see? Hope this helps!! :D
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I don't think it's a bad idea, but it depends on the guy. If they really don't mind that, then try it out. But if they do find that unamusing, I really wouldn't take it into consideration.
♥Jessica
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HECK NO! Its better if she isnt expierienced that means ur her first and only love. She'll have he first kiss with you! if u like her go out with her, its not a turn off if she isnt expierienced!! definatly not!
take care!
xoxoxox princessme
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not really i'm 14 and i dated a 17 who was never kissed and i thought it was fun teaching her that stuff and i think she had alot of fun and for some guys its a turn on jus because ur their first
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Maybe. . . but who has to know that! Just don't tell!! SHHHHH!
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honestley what does it matter if you can kiss or not..but you no it will proably be a turn off with the boys in this world today..honestley it shouildnt matter..but you no all boys want is your body and your tounge and mouth..but you shouildnt do what those boys want..so what if you cant kiss why shouild they care..you shouild just kiss your boyfriend and be happy...good kisser or not...they shouldnt care how you kiss i thought they went out with for who you are!!not your mouth or see how you kiss..hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
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no, only if he is a huge jerk will he care. if i were you, i wouldn't mention it though unless it comes up in conversation, then don't lie, but also don't sound ashamed. just say that you haven't met anyone worth your kisses. that will make whoever gives you your first feel very special!
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In my opinion that would be very shallow of a guy to be turned off by that. You just havent found the right one to kiss, and thats not a big deal. When your ready your ready. Hope i helped!
~Brina~
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No. Actually I think it turns them on even more! Lol...they like innocent girls...kinda sick when you think about but whatever. Most guys would love to give you your first kiss!
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Theres no right or wrong answer. But I can tell you that lots of guys like giving girls their first kisses and other things they havn't experianced. It may be akward being 18 and never been kissed, but its not like its abnormal. Its your business about who you've kissed, and whether you have or havn't. But, you'll know its the right guy when he accepts you for your inexperiances.
-TheTeenGirl
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Inn short, in my opinion, no I don't think so. When you find the right guy that will be worth doing stuff with he will be the respectble kind. You both then will see that it's not a relationship simply based on desired physical needs. When you find the righ guy, he's probably going to feel flattered that you want him to be your first for that kind of stuff. Some guys might even kind of be excited to "teach" you or help you get some practice and experience. When you find the right guy it will all work out.
The only guys that would find it a turn off are the guys that just view you as point blank, "a piece of ass" and so they probably refer to you as prude or something. Those aren't the good guys. Those are just the insincere, think out of their penis types.
Just stick to your morals, wait til you're ready, and til it's with the right guy.
Relationships aren't based on whether or not your experienced, so in the mean time just enjoy being a young, maturing 17 year old! :)
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