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OK, I do not even know where to begin. I am 30 years old, married with 3 children. Lately, I have been feeling a real nervous breakdown coming on. OUr 2 younger children will not listen to anything we tell them & I mean ANYTHING. Yes, I understand they are little yet, but, we can smack their ass, ground them, put them in time out & they will keep on doing the very thing that gets them into trouble. My husbad has a decent job & I have a min wage job. Somehow, we are failng to make it! We have an outrageous mortage & other bills to pay & right now...we have no money & I mean nothing! Overdrawn in the bank & nothing in our pockets. I honestly don't know who to turn to right now. Everyone I know is sleeping & my husband is at work. I am crying & shaking as I write this now & my 3 year old is upstairs screaming as usual. I actually want to trash my house right now, which by the way is already a dump from no one picking aything up! I don't want to seem like a failure by checking into a mental hospital, but, I don't know what else to do! I don't think I can hold it in any longer. I hope someone out there is on here now. Thanks. (link)
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Just try to not smack them, because that will send the wrong messages. See if your other child can help too. Talk to someone of athority like a doctor. Good Luck!
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i asked a boy out. and i was really scared to do it.. but i did ! anyway, he said maybe. MAYBE?! i was so scared, everyone said he would say yes.. even his best friend was like, no, he'll say yes. i swear. and im so scared.. but in your opinion, is maybe a good sign? or should i just not even think about it (link)
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He could say yes. he probably wants to think it over or maybe he also likes someone else along with you. Don't give your hopes up!
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Is it appropriate for my 12 year old 7th grade sister to wear a little makeup for when she cheerleads at football games. If so, what kind? (link)
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Yeah! It will make a good impression if it looks like she planned for the event. I would do some clear, sparkly lip gloss, little bit of eye liner, and some lite eye shadow. Good Luck!
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im 17 and i have a job but i work maybe 3 days a week. My dad never works around my schedule. he always plans Activities on the days that i work. And he does it purposely. Like the whole family will go bowling, out to eat, to an amusement park or the movies. And of course i have to work. And when i get upset or pissed about them doing things without me i get yelled at about it.
its drving me nuts. Im still part of this freakn family. What do i do?
thanks
- We can do these things everyday of the freakn week but its always the days i have to work. I have explained and begged and said please plan things when i dont have to work, but they dont.
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Maybe it would help if you didn't yell and just talked about it. Yelling probably only makes the problem worse. Hope I help;)
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I really miss my ex, we went out for at least a month and I think he is starting to want me back to because he is now flirting with me again, but I also really have some feeling for this other guy and he is a year older than me but that doesn't really matter but should i go back and give the guy who broke my heart a second chance or move on and get with this other guy i really like also. so confused, plz help (link)
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If I were you, I would move on if he had broke your heart already. Hope I helped ;)
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on a girl, which side looks better for a cartlidge pearcing? (link)
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Either side looks great. Good Luck
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I am very sad!!
Last night my bf asked me if I think that I was ready for marriage ..I was surprise and happy of course .He just pop up with the question if I love him and if I want to marry him one day .
I said yes ...I was really happy.
After that we kept on talking about marriage and stuff than I told him that If I ought to marry him I want to keep my own lastname ....He got really mad and told me that he doesn't like my desicion.
The real reason why I wouldn't like his lastname is that his parents has the same last name and they really hate me and do really bad and nasty stuff to me .THEY HURT ME A LOT,
It's really hard for me to go around with the lastname of my biggest enemies
I love my bf ..we had been A LOT to be togheter ..his parents did the imposible things to seperate us ..They are really jealous about their son.
The second reason is that my dad has more than 5 childrens and he only gave me his lastname ..I'm proud to have this lastname and I really don't want to change it..
Can anyone understand me ?????
I don't want to hurt him but how to explain to him this strange feeling ?
I'm really sad .. (link)
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I understand completely and I agree. If he really loves you, he should respect your wishes and if you have to explain the situation with his parents and why you love your last name because of your dad. If it means that much to you, he should agree.
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Hey i am a 15 year old girl!
Well on our school camp i told this guy that i liked him and then found out he likes my best mate. on top of this my other mate now likes him to....so there are 3 girls that all love the same guy! it is just so hard coz i want him so bad i have liked him for a year now and the other 2 have only just started liking him! i also found out he liked me 2 years ago for ages! I need help......how can i make him like me but not hurt my friends? (link)
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Tell your friends how long you have liked him and talk to him yourself. Your friends should understand. SO should he.
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I've tried to stop drinking soda but going without the caffeine gives me headache. I've cut down on it so now its only once in a while but does anyone know a way to cut it out completely and replace it with something else??? (link)
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Cut it off completely and drink a lot of water. if you get headache's, take medichine! hope i helped!
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PLZ Help!!
I'm 13 and last year I liked this guy and he asked me out and I said yes but wait till summer's over when we have more time. But now that the school year's come, I don't like him anymore. He thinks that I still like him, but I haven't really given him the chance to ask me out because I don't know what to do. I can's block him for too much longer [man why can't he take a hint]. HELP!!!?!?! (link)
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Just tell him you're sorry, but you don't think it's working out.
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I have a BIG butt and running theighs. I run a lot so my lower half is really muscular, but i don't know if guys find it ugly. I mean I like my shape fine and I think I look fine in skirts... but do guys? (link)
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I know a lot of girls have that same question, and the answer is it shouldn't matter to them. But if it does, then yes it does look good to them.
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Hey this is more of a question then advice but I notice all the columnists have different stars above their names. Some have only 5, one girl had six, some are shaded dark grey, some light, some gold. I guess my question is what is the highest thing you can have above your name when you go to search columnists. And what is better, dark grey or light grey? Thanks! :-) :). (link)
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light grey
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does anyone know where i can
get hair bows? like the ones
you clip in your hair? i tried
claire`s and they didn`t have
any... this is my friend carla;
and i want some like the one she
has in her hair. websites/stores
would be really helpful. :]
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thanks. (link)
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I know that they have a lot of that kind of stuff at rite aid if you live need one. hope I helped;)
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I'm so confused. I've liked this guy for about 2 years, and over the summer I didn't see him at all. He's not in any of my classes, but at lunch, I sometimes look over at him. I try not to though. I say I don't like him, but I don't even know if I do! My friend said that he was talking about me before (he was like, "remember when I made her cry last year" to his friends) I think he was doing that to "impress" his friends because he never acted like that in front of me.
13/f (link)
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Well if he needs to impress his friends with stories about him bullying other kids, I don't think that sets the greatest impression. Though you can't change your mind from what you heard. Try and talk to him and make sure he really likes you before you make your move, Hope this helped. ;)
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we got our school pictures back today. and i have no idea what to write on the back. what are some cute things to write. by the way im a girl and in 10th grade. (link)
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Hey! You roc! I'm luv you! call me!
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ok well, iv been likeing this guy and iv heard that hes been liking me...my friend is always asking him during class and he says that my crush is always saying that he likes me and stuff like that. then one day during school everything went crazy!!! everyone has been spreading the rumor that he was going to ask me out, but on that same day i got lunch detention (FOR CHEWING GUM-LOL) and so i didnt see nuthing that happend! my friend said that he was pissed off and was gettin mad and stuff. and so after that day i got mad at my friend for telling the WHOLE frikin school...but i also talked to my crush on the computer and he wouldnt answer me! like its either hes not there or he just doesnt talk to me. but befor this all happend he always talked 2 me. but now hes not. and i sent him an email and hes not answrring me bak and i told him everything that happened and how he shouldnt get mad at me (if he is mad at me) i dont know what to do! i cant stop thinking about him cuz i still have feelings for him. i need help on what to do! his locker is liike right by mine but im one of those shy kind of people. write bak!! (link)
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NO offense, but you need to toughen up and confront him. You nned to know his thoughts and he needs to know yours. If it's all just a misunderstanding then he shouldn't mind. If he really likes you he'll forgive you. Hope I helped. :)
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Does anyone know a site of the US map that shows the capitals,states and where they are located?
Please i need to know by tonight if possible!
Thanks (link)
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go to google and type in us map with specifics. hope I helped! :)
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17/female
I have this sleeping probelm it's like iam always tired even though I go to bed at 9:00pm and wake up about 6:00am in the morning to get ready for school and even though thats about 9 hours of sleep each night and that's how much sleep iam suppose to get and last night I went to bed at 8:00pm and I was still tired all day at school today and I was wondering why i've been so tired lately what should I do?
please help me now thankyou.
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You're probably stressed out about school and other things going on in your life. It's normal for teens at your age. Hope I helped.
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well im 16 years old...and for over a year i have been having problems with my breats...very bad sharp pains..not like those that happen when they grow and everything..but really painfully sharp pains...and i have a couple big lumps in my breasts...and they keep gettin bigger and bigger not real fast but slowly..im scared to talk to my mom about it..and im scared to make an appointment to find out..wat do i do!! (link)
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You ned to talk to your doctor immediatley! That's sounds like the symptons, and you definitely need to talk to your mom. You're going to be scarred, that's obvious, but you need to for your own saftey, otherwise it will put yourself in danger and it may grow too intense adn it may threaten your life. Please get some help. Good LUCK! tell me what happens.
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what is the best kind of moisturizer for guys that have oily skin and is fairly cheap? (link)
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suave? there is no moisturizer that is maly so it shouldn't matter
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