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No Go, Guy
PLZ Help!!
I'm 13 and last year I liked this guy and he asked me out and I said yes but wait till summer's over when we have more time. But now that the school year's come, I don't like him anymore. He thinks that I still like him, but I haven't really given him the chance to ask me out because I don't know what to do. I can's block him for too much longer [man why can't he take a hint]. HELP!!!?!?!
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Just tell him you're sorry, but you don't think it's working out.
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Really, the most you can do is be honest with him. Trying to ignore him and block him is only going to wind up hurting him more in the end knowing that you were doing all that because you don't like him anymore. Whenever he asks you out, just tell him the truth. Be like,"I'm sorry, but ever since summer happened, I've sort of lost my feelings for you." But let him know he's a great guy and all, and it's not like it's something he did, it's just you guys haven't talked or anything so the feelings just sort of fizzled off. Guys sometimes can't pick up on hints whenever girls drop some. But let him know you still want to talk to him and be friends and everything, and hopefully he'll understand. If he's upset, just let him cool off for a bit and see if he wants to continue a friendship later. I hope I helped.
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Honestly, all you can do is tell him. it's worse if you avoid him, you are going to hurt his feelings more that way. Just tell him, that in the summer, you truly liked him, but you don't know what happened but you don't feel the same way anymore. He should understand.
If it's too hard for you to say it directly to him, write him a letter, which you will personally give to him, and make sure you tell him you still think he is a great guy, just so he doesn't feel too crushed.
Well good luck,
Teacup
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