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My brother is losing it...
just these few days, he got into a fight with his girlfriend of several years... well more like she got upset with him because he lied to her on something small. And just a few hours ago, she broke up with him and he's really depressed. He's totally heads over heels for her and wants to marry her, so when she broke up with him, it really hurt him, but he blames it on himself for lying to her. He's a really sweet guy and i dont like seeing him so heartbroken because of this.
She was always concerned about his grades and he got a c average senior year because he was always thinking about her and she wanted him to try his hardest so he told her that he was so that she wouldnt see it as her fault. But she thought it was her fault anyway that he did bad so he had to tell her that he wasn't trying his hardest.. which she saw as lying and got upset at him.
Right now hes in PA for college [I'm in CA] and i really want to cheer him up but all hes been all like 'i dont want to talk right now', 'i'm not in the mood for this'. Is there anything i can do to help him or make him feel better?? I have a feeling [or im hoping] that his girlfriend would realize her mistake and go back to him, but until that happens.. i want to try to cheer him up. I dont like seeing him so sad :(
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Sounds like the best thing to do is just leave him alone about it. He doesn't want to talk about her when he talks to you. He wants you to cheer him up by talking about something else. If they are meant to be they will get back together on thier own. :)
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