Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 12:37 am
i have a boyfriend. on my birthday he brouhgt me a million balloons and a big stuffed animal and asked me out.. and he was sooo hot and soo sweet so i said yes. i really liked him alot..
well, there is also this other guy who ive kinda had a thing for all year.. & when he found out i had a boyfriend. he was furious.. but we made up.. but he wrote me a letter that said he really wants to be with me && all this stuff.
the thing is.. i really like him alot too.. hes hot. && funny&& talanted! hes in a band and its rreealllllyyy good.. all thanks to him
also.. hes really like.. idn.. he`ll hug me for no reason and he is really sweet like that.. and my boyfriend... doesnt. he wont hug me if his friends are around.. and he doesnt randomly kiss me or anything..
i wanna break up with my boyfriend but i dont know if i should... and if i do.. what should i say?
Just talk to your bf and tell him you wont to date other people and he will understand he might even agree with you saying he wants to date other girls.
adviice_whore answered Monday September 11 2006, 6:58 am: you have to listen to your heart and do what it tells you. it seems like you really like the other guy. if your sure you want to break up with your boyfriend then you should do it now before you and him get more attached to eachother because then if you break up with him he will feel even more heartbroken. i think you should dump him either on the phone in a letter or in person.. online is a bad option because its not personal and he might think its one of your friends playing a prank on him. so however you tell him you should say "____ i loved you so much but now i dont feel the same spark as i did.i think we should move on and see other people.i just dont think you were the one for me. im sooo sorry and i hope you don't feel bad." just be nice about it and help him get over the breakup. ♥ [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
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