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well my boyfriend of like 4 weeks just IMed me and was like "are we breaking up?" & i dunno why he said that. but we havent hung out in awhile and stuff and he like forgot about my birthday. (ya i know) but i like him so so so so much. then I IMed him and was like " do you want to break up?" & he said " IDK do you?" & i said no. then I said " Do you still want to go out?" & he hasnt said anything. i was talking to him like 5 minutes ago. is there anything i could do so he wouldnt be like this and still want to out with me? it seemed like he liked me so much like we have all these insiders and he was like the sweetest boyfriend except for the b-day part but whatever. ha. any help?? THANK Y0UU ! X0X0
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I think you need to tell him what you feel for him, and that if you lose him your going to lose your happiness for a while and your smile and your laugh. And that you don't want to break up with him and that at times he makes you feel so special and makes you so happy and that you want that to last and that you feel he is the best boyfriend in the world to you. If he doesn't except that then just say I really like you okay and I want to be with you I don't want to break up and I know deep down neither do you. If he doesn't except that then I think you can do better. Just by him asking that out of nowhere I think he wants to for some reason maybe for another chick just doesn't want to break up with you to make it obvious or he heard something about you wanting to break up with him from somebody else. I'd talk to him about that honest to god. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok when ppl say i got my cherry popped .. does that mean they just had sex or ?? (link)
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It can either mean you had sex or some guy or girl fingered you. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
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I think you need to talk to your dad about that one. I mean he obviously knows how to talk to her I mean geesh he got married to her. Tell your dad that it bugs you when you want to do things with only your dad, yourself, and your brother and that does not include on his wife. It bugs me because I never have alone time with my own father and I think I need that. And that your not trying to be rude but can you talk to your wife about this situation I would really appreciate that. Hope I helped. It's my opinion on what I would do just remember that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and like all of a sudden i felt like alot of watery stuff..and i blamed it on him and was like u CUMMED on me..and he was like i didn't i didn't even feel anything..and so he takes the blame and says sorry..but still promises he didn't feel a thing and so i get up and notice the sheets are really wet only to find blood all over them..meaning that wet stuff was ME bleeding..is it possible to bleed THAT much? i mean it was everywhere (link)
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I think you were on your period. I'd be a little embaressed. But I guess he didn't really care. Or if you were a virgin and never even got fingered before he could have popped your cherry. If you don't know what that is it's a thin sheet of skin in your vagina preventing anything that goes in. Meaning it's going to hurt like hell if he did tear it and you would start to bleed. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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what exactly is a condom ,where do u put it, do girls where them, and what do they do? is there a certain age to buy them? (link)
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There's condoms that girls can wear but it goes in you I don't know exactly what it's called but yeah. But most condoms other than those kinds are made for guys they put it on their penis's, and there is really no certain age to buy them but I'd highly suggest you be atleast 12 or atleast in your teens. Condoms help you from getting STD's and help prevent pregnancy's. Hope I helped. (Yeah I know you already got all your answers but I just like helping people.)
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ShanN*
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i just got my period and i was wondering what kind of tampons are best
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I love Pearl. They are so comfortable and ha, ha did you hear that now they can be scented if you want! Ha, ha Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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okay so i had sex with my boyfriend last night and ever since then i have been throwing up and i keep needing the toilet i no im not pregnant and there is no chance i could be cuase im on the pill and he used a condom, ive had sex before and never felt like this whats wrong with me have i got a desease or something im gettin really worried please help i will rate high (link)
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Anything's possible even if your on the pill and he used a condom you can still get pregnant. But it wouldn't make you have morning sickness that quick. You may just be really sick and may need to see a doctor. If the puking and the feelings sick part doesn't go away in about a week go to a doctor. Either that or you may have some kind of STD and need to get that checked up on as well. Hope I helped. And hope you'll be ohk.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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okay so me and my boyfriend have just recently started haveing sex and well we we're both virgins..and of course its gonna hurt me when he enters me..but the funny thing is he has never been all the way in..he says it hurts him too? is that possible? is it suppose to hurt the guy if so why? or is it because he is NOT circumcized? i dunno if he is or not..how can u tell? (link)
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Yes, it is possible. Circumcized is where on the penis there's a flab of skin covering the top of it. It's possible to hurt the guy because like you said your a Virgin and so is he but it's because your too tight. It won't hurt him after a while. Hope I helped. (LoL I know you asked this a long time ago but screw it.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me? Like as in tell me how he feels. Everytime I ask he always says "you know" I know I do but I just want to hear him say it and like how do I get him to be more I don't know umm....open about his feelings....problem is he has never been that way! Help please?!?! (link)
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How bout this... Ask him what he feels for you and if he say's "You know" Then just say No, I don't know because you won't tell me and it would mean a lot to me if you told me in your own words how you do feel about me so please tell me how you feel. And if he tells you then after he's done expressing himself tell him that you would like it more if he were more open with his feelings for you and everything. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
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Honestly, I think you should buy a pack of condoms and bring the condoms. Then when you guys are ready to have sex give them to him and say please put one of these on I don't think I'm experienced enough to be a mom and I don't want the rate to be high of me getting pregnant. If he say's no (which I would doubt) then just say fine then we aren't having sex or have it and say if we have sex this time without it you have to wear this the next time. If he still doesn't agree don't have sex with him until he does. It's my opinion. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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Personally, I'd tell him everything why you pulled away and why you thought it was bad that you did. Don't say sorry I understand where you are coming from. Like you probably felt weird because he was just doing it because of his friends, and you would have probably liked it more and wouldn't have thought it felt weird if he would have just done it on his own on his own time and whenever he felt comfortable enough. Say sorry if I hurt you (yeah I know I told you not to say sorry but yeah say this..) Sorry if I hurt you when I pulled away I want to be able to kiss you and I want you to be able to kiss me whenever you feel comfortable, and that you just didn't appreciate him listening to his/your friends other than your heart. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
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I don't think he'd reject you I mean he kissed you on your 15th birthday. Hopefully, he doesn't just want to be friends with benefits but I highly doubt that. I think you should give it a shot and tell him how you feel and ask him if he slightly feels the same way. If he rejects you just say I understand where you are coming from. That you might not want to go out with me because you may think it's awkward or you don't want to screw up our friendship, because me as well would rather have a friendship than nothing. Hope I helped. Good luck!
Buh bye,
ShanN*
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the guy i like was at this party with me and my other friends the other day and we were all hanging out cuz hes my reelly good friend and my friend had never met him before but she knew i liked him and all, but she now likes him and ive known for alot longer than she has. so today he was all "its too soon" and so that made me reelly happpy, but then i felt bad b/c shes my friend and all and i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.Any ideas about what i should do? (link)
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Tell your *chick* friend that you really like this guy a lot and you really would like it if you could go out with him if he asks or if you pop the question. But I understand if you'll be upset because you like him too and all and that's why if you say you won't be my friend if I do then I'll just stay friends with him. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers (link)
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I think you should rethink this. If you don't want to be friends with him tell him something like "Look I just don't feel comfortable around you being all over me and it just bugs me that you get upset at me for the weirdest things." Your a great guy and all but I am just confused of what I think about you. Your other problem is trying to find out if he is getting tired of you well I wouldn't say he is, just because of that doesn't mean that... your just jumping to conclusions. I think he likes you a lot, because of what you said about him always being there for you last year. I'd want a friend like that other than most of the friends I have now, ya know? One because the friends I have now think they can come as they please and be there as they please. I'm sorry but if you want to be one of my friends then your going to have to always be there for me no matter bad or good. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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Hi, I'm the one who wrote about my boyfriend who so rudely dumped me without as much as even TELLING me, and then saying that I didn't have feelings and desserved my heart broken as much as people wanted too. Now I am a generally nice person, but this got me so upset. :( Well now hes going out with this other girl, and they keep iming me to tell me what a "loser" I am and how I can't "get" any boys. I blocked them but I still have to see them at school. By the way, their screennames are pyroboy9977 and XoCheerQtXo3222, if anyone would like to talk some sense into them.
Sorry for wasting your time, but I'm really stuck here. And I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. :( (link)
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ImNotLikeThat00 (7:13:56 PM): Look I'd like it if you would stop being so damn rude to your ex saying she can't get no guys. She got you didn't she
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:14:14 PM): Honestly, I don't even see why she picked you for a boyfriend . You need to grow up and be a man
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:15:45 PM): That's called harassment buddy you can get charged for it
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:19:37 PM): Do I have your full response on that?
pyroboy9977 signed off at 7:19:57 PM.
pyroboy9977 signed on at 7:20:09 PM.
pyroboy9977 (7:20:14 PM): on what?
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:20:30 PM): On what? What did I just say to you
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:21:00 PM): Whoah hold up how old are you
ImNotLikeThat00 (7:21:28 PM): your only 12
pyroboy9977 (7:21:35 PM): yeah
ImNotLikeThat00: (7:21:52): Leave your x alone and leave your fricken girlfriend alone too. Jesus christ your so stupid and immature you don't know what love is. Oh my god and if you say one more thing to your god damn x girlfriend trust me you'll have all my 15 screennames to deal with.
It's okay girlie. I'm here for ya hell I even already IMed that stupid son of a bitch. Sorry for the language. When they say something to you just ignore it yeah I know it's easier to type that than to actually try to attempt it but trust me it's easier than you think. Good for you that you blocked them don't unblock them until your 18 and old enough to beat the shit out of them. He, he. Don't hesitate to ask me for advice. No one deserves to be treated like that. No one! When they call you a loser say your so immature you can't even get something good to do other than bitch at me because there's nothing exiting going on in your lame ass lives. So nigga please. Ha, ha my favorite line. I'm not racist don't worry. But yeah Hope I helped. Remember if you need anymore help just ask me.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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there is this kid "matt" who i really liked and still do...i was obsessed and me and him are kind of friends...we used to hang out every now and then and go to friendly's and carnival like things but then i went to colorado and my cousin asked him out for me...he said no and that he wanted to be single...scince that we haven't really been exactly "friends" at all anymore and im not nessaserilly ready to be b/f and g/f but i really want to be something like not just friends but best friends....i really like him and im desprate to get to be better friends but not a couple....rate 5s for good answers!!
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I honestly think you should go up to him and say "Sorry about my cousin calling you up and asking you out for me" My tentions weren't meant for that. I just want to be more than just kind of friends and more than friends but not a couple more like best friends, because I know I myself am not ready to be boyfriend and girlfriend. I understand if you don't want to but I'm just telling you that's all my tentions were. And also that you liked him more than a friend but I would rather just be friends than nothing. Hope I helped. You don't have to use my advice it's just my opinion always remember that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Okay I've been with this guy for about six months and we just recently broke up. When we broke up I asked him if it was over completely and he said no. Now I am wondering what I should do? Should I wait on him or should I choose to move on? I still like him a whole lot and he still likes me but I'm not sure if I should wait and see what happens. This is the second time we've broke up. What do I do? I live in California and there is so many guys that are hot here. (link)
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Well me and my boyfriend now broke up hm about 7 times already and this is the longest we've been together. Not counting all the break ups we have been going out for a year and like 3 days ha, ha but yeah he always used to tell me we were done then when me and him spent time together he said no we aren't and ask me back out. So I wouldn't say "move on" but you should consider it but if he's still saying no it's not over I'd wait for him to get his head straight but at that same time keep your relationship statis open and just talk to other guys you know mingle. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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HEY I WAS WONDERING.. WHAT IS LUST?? AND HOW IS IT DIFFERENT FROM LOVE? THANKS IN ADVANCE!
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Lust is a step down from love. It's like you think you love somebody and have very stronge feelings for that somebody and swear to god it's love it's only lust. Like if your going out with someone for let's see about a month and say that you really love them you don't love is hard work. You got to work at it constantly and it wears you down most of the time to the point you just want to give up but you don't you stay at it and gain strength just by your love saying he loves you or you love him. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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No, if you really like her then you should go for it. No matter what. I only see my boyfriend when I go to his work or I hang out with Jesse and Brandon (Brother and almost soon to be sister in law) I think you should just go for it no matter what you get out of it take a chance. Just I'd wait and find out if she's worth it if you haven't found that out yet. Hope I helped. Yeah I know you already got 13 answers I just like helping people. Ha, ha ohk well yeah.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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well i have been looking at all the posts on here. and i am one of the ones confused about what i want. as in girls or boys. i mean i love boys, dont get me wrong. but i have been thinking about girls. i cant experiment with anyone. all of my friends think that kissing another girl is gross and everything. but i really would like to try. i dont have anyone to try with.
any advice?
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You may be Bi-Sextual you never know. I guess for some chicks it's normal to think about both girl and boy but still be straight. But if you want to kiss a chick then yeah I think you may be just BI. It's not a bad thing I have friends that are BI and they are kick ass. But yeah. Hope I helped. Hope you find that one chick that will let you experiment with them. Sorry if I didn't help it's only because I didn't understand what you was asking but it's all good.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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